People should be soberly aware that few people can really understand your feelings, and everything depends on themselves. No one can complete the happiness of life for you, and ultimately you have to rely on yourself to achieve it.
Many people often say, I know someone, but so what? Will they really help you when you are in trouble? You have the ability, even if you don't have contacts, you can still have a wonderful life as long as you work hard.
If you have experienced a low point in your life, you will find that many friends have run away, far away, for fear that you will ask them for help and borrow money.
The really powerful people encounter difficulties. First of all, they don't think about who to ask for help, but think quietly and find a solution. It's not that he doesn't have connections, but that he knows? Who is better off than himself? The truth is.
So he won't blindly expand his social circle. It is precisely because they do not blindly believe in connections that they have promoted their continuous improvement and made themselves truly capable people.
The truth of connections: you are not strong, and it is useless to know anyone.
Everyone is eager to have a wide range of contacts, but in fact, contacts are not made by friends, but are attracted by their excellent strength. You don't have some excellent qualities that the other person can see. The other party doesn't even remember who you are.
Your own level determines your level. The core of communication lies in the exchange of interests. If you are not strong, it is useless to know anyone. If you want more capable people to associate with you, you have to become better.
Real strength depends on oneself. Only when people are independent will they know that they have unlimited potential. When you no longer need to rely on the so-called connections, you have achieved real strength.
If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come, and it is fundamental to make yourself stronger. It is better to make yourself bigger and stronger than to make friends and cling to all kinds of contacts. Try to be strong, so strong that you don't need to make friends with others, and naturally someone will take the initiative to know you.
In the growth stage of life, the most important thing for us is to study, abandon ineffective social interaction, and don't trust any contacts when we have no strength. Is to improve their lives, so that they have enough value, so as to make more capable people on the road of growth.
Real powerful people don't believe in connections, but know how to rely on themselves.
Too many friends means more communication and it takes a lot of time. Really powerful people tend to focus on their own affairs and don't want to participate too much in other people's lives.
There are not many reliable people in this world, and there are not many so-called friends in your network. It is better to spend time to improve your personal value than to spend time to know more people.
Don't trust the so-called connections. It is really important to be a useful person and an independent person. When you have no strength, even if you try your best to meet all kinds of people, it will only be an invalid network in the end. You are useless to others. Why should others associate with you?
The real relationship is not how many people flatter you, but how many people help you when you are in trouble. True popularity lies not in the number of friends, but in the quality of friendship.
Improving your own value is the most important way to make friends. Therefore, instead of racking their brains to get to know people, it is better to spend more time reading, improving their professional skills and upgrading themselves.
Some friends are just fair-weather friends. Few friends in need can really help you. Don't rely too much on anyone in this world, because even your shadow will leave you when you are struggling in the dark.
Everyone is very busy and has their own careers. Only by relying on ourselves can we be stable and free. Be a man of self-improvement. Self-reliance is better than anything else. Only oneself can be fearless of difficulties and rely on others to feel insecure forever. People who are really powerful are very helpless.
No matter how hard and tired life is, you have to get through it on your own. Because no matter how hard life is, no one will go for you. There is no complete empathy between people. You should solve your own problems and don't complain to anyone.
Only what belongs to you can be firmly grasped in your hand. Don't expect others to help you. It is better to ask for help than to ask for help, to suffer hardships and to carry it by yourself, so as to spend it faster. Really powerful people are strong, work hard and live the life they want step by step.