However, you should know that masculinity is only one of the 10,000 characteristics of Qian Qian for men. In addition, boys can be gentle as jade, gentle as a scholar, sensitive and witty as a think tank, open-minded and cheerful, and so on.
It may be a good thing for boys who meet this temperament to let all men cultivate masculinity across the board, but it is a kind of personality destruction and mismatch for other types of boys.
In particular, the relevant state departments issued a document clearly proposing to cultivate the masculinity of male teenagers, who felt that the operation was too hasty.
Nowadays, with the reform and opening up and the influx of various western ideas, people's ideas are more inclusive and diverse. Sticking to male chauvinism is out of date. Looking back at the long river of history, different historical dynasties and different folk customs all have different people's characteristics. In the period before the Han Dynasty, especially in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, the spirit of martial arts prevailed, and the brave won. Both men and women regard being tall and strong as beauty. "A person is beautiful, huge and curly." They don't like white-faced scholars or weak and charming girls. There were many wars during this period, and it is estimated that it was also the most prosperous period in the history of masculinity.
With the rise of Confucian culture in later generations, the imperial courts paid attention to civil servants, and men studied hard at a cold window and took part in the imperial examination, so they could be on the list at one time and glorify their ancestors. Good manners are getting longer, and brave winds are getting weaker. Masculinity and height are no longer the only standards of beauty.
At present, in all walks of life, except soldiers, athletes and coaches, other industries do not particularly emphasize the masculinity of boys, the social concept is unprecedented open, and the personality characteristics of boys are more multifaceted. Some boys are biased against women, and feminine dressing challenges the traditional concept of masculinity and has been criticized by some people. They want to reverse this phenomenon and hope that male chauvinism will be promoted and boys will follow suit. What's the effect? There is a high probability that it will go away. If you don't believe me, just try it for a few years.
This is a manifestation of the change of the whole social concept in boys' self-identity and image identity. It is unrealistic to be a stereotyped masculine boy, so we should respect their personality characteristics and preferences!