Known as Korea? Chief mother? Quan Huixing became popular on the Internet because she sent all six children to Harvard. After graduation, I continued my studies and became a professor, dean and even secretary of state of top universities. The New York Times comments: This family is comparable to the famous Kennedy family in American history? . Quan Huixing wrote a book called Filial Piety to Parents to Cultivate Great Men.
Of course, equally powerful mothers are not only Korean all-comet, but also singer Chen Meiling from China. She sent all three children to Stanford University with wise parenting methods. The admission rate of Stanford University is not higher than that of Harvard University.
I have read a book before, Li Fang, the mother of Kochi in China, who has been separated from her husband for many years. With her own efforts, she sent her three children to Harvard, and wrote her own educational experience and thinking into a book "I sent three children to Harvard: Notes from a Chinese mother."
After reading through the educational notes and interviews of these three mothers, I found that these cows have many beautiful qualities in common, such as educational wisdom, educational ideas and requirements for self-growth.
In addition, I also found a * * * nature. When these three cows raise their children, they all start with their own growth laws and guide them step by step. They really did it: let the children play crazy and sit still.
The so-called crazy play is to conform to children's nature, let children fully contact with nature, develop children's senses, and make children's brains develop more fully and their senses more sensitive. Cultivate children's observation and thinking ability.
In an interview with Chen Meiling, she mentioned a short story, saying that when she was studying at home with her children, she suddenly heard rain, and then she took her children outside to tread water. Although everyone was covered in mud and soaked, they were all happy. This also allows children to observe and think about nature. Li Fang's way is to let children fully participate in social activities, including sports, so that children can feel the explosive power and endurance of the body in sweat.
If you are crazy, parents should provide a safe environment and a stable mentality, and guide their children to go out and get in touch with nature and people.
Sit-in is to cultivate children's sense of self-accomplishment, cultivate their adaptability, and have good habits such as concentration and willingness to learn.
Only the combination of motion and static can give full play to children's potential.
However, in contrast to the current education, many urban families guide their children in the opposite direction: there is no time and place for children to play crazy, and the only thing that can make children sit still is mobile phones and televisions.
Children who can sit still will not be too bad in the future.
We have all heard the story of Madame Curie. When she was a child, Madame Curie was studying. Her sisters set up a high obstacle with building blocks behind her. As long as Madame Curie is with her, the obstacles will disappear. However, they waited for a long time until Madame Curie finished her research and she got up.
So are Jobs, Zuckerberg and Charlie? Munger, like other successful people, has a very high degree of concentration in studying one thing.
These cases tell us that people who can sit on the bench will not be too bad in the future. Sitting still is actually a concentrated expression of children's patience, willfulness, concentration and learning, and it is also a reflection of the depth of thinking and work ability.
Some children go to primary school and can't sit still at all, let alone listen to the teacher, which has a great influence on their future study and life.
3. How to make children sit quietly?
According to the psychology of children's development, children are not born to sit still, because they just came to this world, there are too many novel things waiting for them to explore, and the time for children to stay focused is very short. However, with the growth, children's concentration will gradually improve, and the time for sitting still will gradually increase.
Don't interrupt the child and ruin his attention.
We often encounter such a situation in our life. The child is obviously playing with building blocks and is very focused. At this time, the family always interrupts the child with various things, such as eating and drinking water to remind the child to go to the toilet and pulling the child out of deep thinking again and again. This ruined their attention.
In another case, children play something in the living room, and then some family members turn on the TV or mobile phone, so children's eyes are attracted by TV or Tik Tok, and they focus on more exciting images and music, which is also destructive behavior.
The best love for children is not to disturb them at the right time.