2. In a person's life, you may be in the middle if you strive for it; If you seek the middle, you may fall behind; And if you ask for it, it will definitely be dirty. Therefore, at the beginning of life, we must aim high. To spread your wings and fly like an eagle, it doesn't work. Only in this way can you stimulate the potential of your life, step by step, and gradually move towards glory.
3. Reality always has a heartless face. It always has its own arrangements and is not influenced by anyone. We cannot change the reality. What we can do is to face the reality. Facing the reality honestly is actually to change your mentality. As long as your mentality changes, the so-called unchangeable reality has actually changed.
4, people can't be perfect, don't pay attention to defects, be good at cultivating advantages and avoiding weaknesses. On the one hand, defects do not affect the development of other aspects. If you calmly face your own shortcomings, dare to challenge yourself, set goals according to your own situation, and fully explore some potential, you can also make great contributions to society and even become a great man.
5. God gave everyone a glass of water, so you drank life from it. Life is originally a glass of water, poverty, power, humbleness, etc., which are just seasonings people add to their lives according to their own mentality and ability. Life is just a glass of water. Taste it slowly by yourself, chew it carefully and appreciate it carefully, and you will find that the happiest life is to live a beautiful life.
6. The heart is like water. Although it is sometimes dirty, the essence of water will not be polluted. As long as it calms down, the water will always be clarified. As long as we take away these interfering factors, such as delusion, care, persistence, greed and jealousy. Pure land, not somewhere, not far away. The real pure land is actually a clean heart, without too much utilitarianism and persistence, safe, dull and calm.
7. Life cannot be without lessons, just as every baby must learn to walk. If you accidentally fall down, you'd better not get hurt, let alone fall down because of temporary setbacks. Even if life occasionally falls, as long as you don't fall, sometimes you will have unexpected gains; Falling can experience human feelings, exercise will, accumulate experience and succeed.
8. Many successes and failures, gains and losses are beyond our expectation and affordability. But as long as we work hard and seek peace after giving, we will get a kind of happiness! Without blue sky, we can have elegant white clouds; Without the magnificent sea, we can have leisurely streams. There are no bystanders in life, everyone has his own position and can find his own beauty!
9. We are always busy, busy working, busy making money, busy being an official, busy being famous, busy cheating, busy traveling and busy being bored; Although life is short, there is no need to rush. Try to slow down, read a book slowly, listen to a song slowly, taste a pot of tea slowly, listen to the sound of flowers slowly, watch the moon rise slowly and walk slowly, so that the falling soul can catch up.
1, the vicissitudes of the world, leaving a little blank for yourself, leaving a relaxed loneliness. Loneliness can make a person fragile, but also make a person strong; Loneliness can create a person or destroy a person. People who know how to understand loneliness can experience the unique scenery in life. The highest state of loneliness is to create success and happiness in loneliness. Only when we are calm in the face of loneliness can we laugh and laugh in the face of fate.
11. We are all interdependent. The building of personal happiness lies in the happiness of the group, and the happiness of the group also comes from the happiness of the individual. If a person wants to be happy, he needs to cultivate a good attitude towards others and all living things. When learning this kind of compassion, sadness, happiness and giving up four infinite hearts, people can restrain the selfishness caused by hatred, greed, cruelty and ignorance and make themselves and others happy now and in the future.
12. The source of the world's misery is worry, the source of worry is persistence, the source of persistence is my persistence, and the source of my persistence is ignorance. With me, I have my knowledge, my persistence, and my selfish heart. Selfishness brings you and me apart, and there is a separated heart, and there is confusion and trouble of greed, anger, obsession and doubt. With me, there is a fetter, with me, there is a haze. Being at the bottom of the black sea is not as clear as I am.
13. Rich material is rich, and a broad soul is happy. Rich people are not necessarily happy, and happy people are not necessarily rich. Spare no effort to pursue material wealth, excellent reputation and noble status, and often miss simple happiness. The heart is like a cup, and happiness is like spring in the cup. The more impurities in the cup, the less happiness there is. When the sediment fills the cup, the happy spring is squeezed dry. Eliminate the dust of desire, have a broad heart and always feel happy.
14. Tolerance and tranquility. The human heart is like a river, with narrow water splashing and wide water waves unhappy. The world is too big for one heart. Everything wants to seize the opportunity, at least it will lose happiness. When people walk on the road, bumps are inevitable. The highest state of life, one is pain, and the other is smiling, not talking. No matter how much dissatisfaction there is, there is no resentment in smiling. In fact, too much concern, just temporarily unable to think. Tolerance, let the trouble melt in your heart.
15. When a person's heart can really settle down, calm down and be pure, he will feel that the sky is particularly blue and the sun is particularly bright. You will feel the beauty and happiness of having life; You will realize the brightness of tomorrow and the future; You will have a beautiful, kind and healthy mind! When a person can abandon the temptation of external things, return to his emptiness and silence, and feel the existence of beauty and goodness in the world, the feeling of happiness and happiness will come quietly and haunt him!
16. If your heart is safe, you can give birth to lotus flowers step by step. The heart is clear, the heart is turbid, and everything is dark; Obsessed with everything, understand all Zen. Heart is the director of life drama, and reading is the negative of life realm. The root of everything is in my heart. Obsession, persistence, resentment and hatred will only make the heart roll and make people uneasy. Only by letting them go can we relax and be natural. The separation between wisdom and stupidity, the thought between heaven and hell. Trouble turns into bodhi, and the mood turns to sunny day.
17, excellent personality together, the effect is extraordinary. It can gradually condense and shape the foundation of success and help you cope with the environment beyond your control. When the opportunity arises, you are ready, capable and courageous to embark on the road ahead. Even if no one can tell you what the future road is like and where the long river of life will flow, however, in this process, you will understand Churchill's famous saying for many years: as long as you overcome difficulties, you will win opportunities. A little attitude, but it leads to great changes.