1. Appreciate the advantages of others, be kind to the shortcomings of others, respect the privacy of others, and be happy in your own life.

2. In everything you do, you must be quick with your words and careful with your deeds. Talking endlessly in front of others may seem like you are showing off yourself, but in fact you are exposing yourself naked to the eyes of others. It's not about talking too much, it's about the weight. Sometimes silence is also a kind of self-protection. If you talk too much, you will lose it. Don't let the privacy in your heart have nowhere to hide in the lotus mouth. Think twice before doing anything, be tenacious during things, and don’t regret afterwards. Only by looking further ahead and taking firmer steps will your life be more fulfilling and less regretful.

3. Don’t disturb other people’s happiness. Happiness is also one’s privacy. What you see in your eyes is a kind of suffering, but in others' hearts it may be a kind of happiness.

4. When a person has a sufficient understanding of human nature, his perspective on others, including himself, will become both profound and tolerant. In this perspective, all privacy can be restored to the universal Human phenomena and all personal experiences can be transformed into spiritual wealth. Only by keeping a free space for one's own mind, a kind of inner calmness and leisure, can everyone truly obtain spiritual happiness.

5. Should couples have personal privacy? My opinion is: there should be respect for each other's privacy; there shouldn't be too much de facto privacy.

7. Indulging one's own desires is the greatest disaster; talking about other people's privacy is the greatest sin; not knowing one's own faults is the greatest illness. Aristotle

9. Appreciate the advantages of others, be kind to the shortcomings of others, respect the privacy of others, and be happy in your own life.

10. Those who are keen to describe their privacy are not actually expressing their inner feelings, but their endocrine. A writer writes about many characters in his life, and these characters may all be him. After he passed away, I think Shui Zhi said it right, we should see the person who is still there in him.