When I was studying, I always thought that teachers' favorite students were those who performed well and got good grades, and these students were excellent. Although I was a teacher's favorite type at that time, I still didn't like the teacher's practice. Now, I am also a teacher. I ask myself not to judge students by their grades, but I still feel headache when I meet those students who are naughty, often make trouble and have poor grades.
Xiaozhi is such a student. However, a weekly diary made me change my view of him and even the "poor students" in the eyes of all teachers. Xiaozhi wrote in his weekly diary:
"To be honest, teacher, it's really not easy for me to sit down quietly and read, but I don't know what to do if I don't study. However, in fact, I am also excellent in some aspects, but you didn't find it. One day, I saw a male classmate bullying a female classmate, so I told the gay man next to me that I wouldn't bully a girl, and I never bullied a girl again. (Note: Every time a female classmate who sits at the same table with him or around him will tell me that he often bullies them, so no female classmate wants to sit next to him. ) I will discourage classmates from fighting; My brother plays with gangsters in the street, and I told him not to play with those people; A few weeks ago, I told others that I stopped smoking, and I really stopped smoking. In this semester, I have never fought, but I have talked a little more in class. I will get rid of it little by little. I have become a good boy now, really. "
yes! They also want to be praised and affirmed by teachers, and they also want to be good children in the eyes of teachers. They also fight their bad habits again and again. They also have their own bright spots; They also tried to improve their grades more than once. And what about our teacher? In addition to students with excellent grades in their eyes, can we also accommodate these students who usually make us have a headache, disgust or even hate? Whether we can also give them a sentence, even if there is only one affirmation. We ignore their inner desire, they are eager for praise, recognition and affirmation. Because they are ignored. Therefore, we didn't see the struggling efforts, because we hurt these young hearts, so more students chose to give up, while Xiaozhi expressed his thoughts naked to the teacher, so that the teacher could understand his excellent side. Yes, "actually, I am also very good." I hope more students can boldly tell their teachers their own advantages, so that teachers can really understand and affirm them. I also hope that more teachers can get close to these students' hearts and reach a true heart-to-heart harmony and a tacit understanding of love with them.