1. Each of us is equal. You can only exchange love for love and trust for trust. ——Marx

2. Be generous to oneself and blame others poorly. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Linggong"

3. When we love others, we also hope that others will love us. ——Rousseau

4. Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. ——Confucius

5. Blame yourself with the heart of blaming others, and forgive others with the heart of forgiveness. ——"Zeng Guang Xian Wen"

Putting yourself in others' shoes is a way of thinking in dealing with interpersonal relationships that puts you in others' shoes, that is, thinks about what others think, and understanding comes first. People must understand and trust each other, and learn to think from other people's perspective. This is the basis of communication between people: tolerate and understand each other, and think from others' perspective.

Small story

A pig, a sheep and a cow were kept in the same corral by the shepherd. One day, the shepherd took the pig out of the corral, only to hear the pig howl loudly and resist strongly.

Sheep and cows hated its howling, so they complained: "We are often caught by shepherds, but none of us scream like you." The pig responded: "Catch you and catch you." I am a completely different person. If he catches you, he will only share your hair and milk, but if he catches me, he will kill me!"

People with different positions and different circumstances are very different. It is difficult to understand the other person's feelings. Therefore, we should empathize with others' frustrations, frustrations and pains, understand them with a tolerant heart, and care for others.

Reference materials: Empathy Baidu Encyclopedia