Yes, many women seem to be in their fifties, but in fact they are only in their early thirties, because she has experienced too many vicissitudes, lost her vitality and lost her former vigor.
And some women, even in their seventies and eighties, look only in their fifties. Such a person ages slowly, because she has a good attitude. She never feels like an old lady, but she feels younger and younger. You can often see these three signs on them.
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There are more smiles on my face, and I am more and more energetic. The famous writer Luxembourg has a classic saying: No matter what happens, please be quiet and happy! This is life. We should accept life bravely and boldly and always smile.
A woman who loves to laugh is never too bad luck. Because a woman who loves to laugh always makes people feel very comfortable, like a spring rain and a meter of sunshine, lazily sprinkled around us, making us feel warm.
Seeing a person's smile, a heavy heart naturally puts down. When you come home every day, if all you see is a smile, no amount of fatigue and tiredness will disappear.
Yu once said: It is not the sunshine that makes the world bright, but the girl's smile. After many twists and turns, Sang Hai Sangtian, everything has passed, and I just want to be a woman who loves to laugh all my life. How old is a person? What you can tell at a glance is her mental outlook, not whether she is beautiful or not.
Because everyone can't resist the laws of nature, all he can do is to calm his mind and make his spirit better and better. When in trouble, he doesn't frown, but learns to smile first.
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The French writer Voltaire said that the beauty of appearance can only please people's eyes, but the inner beauty can infect people's souls. As a person grows older, some people are afraid of aging, while others pay more attention to improving their self-cultivation.
A woman who loves reading has temperament, just like Dong Qing. Although her age is there, you still think she is pleasing to the eye, because she has a connotation, that is, "poetic and bookish." Temperament is emitted from the inside out, and it is the cultivation precipitated by years.
Like Chen Guo, a professor at Fudan University, if you remember her speech, you will automatically ignore her appearance. Educated women are never old.
Emerson has a famous saying: Time can comfort us, but people's temperament can resist the painful impression.
People who pay attention to temperament and self-restraint tend to be gentler to the world, and her words and deeds reveal her spiritual beauty.
The most unbearable thing for an empty person is the torture of years; And a person who practices both inside and outside can get the favor of time most, and it seems that some aging footprints have been erased from her face.
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Look down on life, don't care so much, have a good attitude and everything is fine. If a person does not have a good attitude, even if he is young, he will look mature and full of vicissitudes; And when a person's state of mind is good, he no longer cares so much, his heart is relaxed and his troubles are less.
Samuel said: the world is like a mirror: frown at it and it frowns at you; Smile at it, and it smiles back at you.
Have you ever felt that after the first bad thing, you will encounter more and more bad things? It's like a house leaking and raining all night.
Actually, it's because you have a wrong attitude. After the first bad luck, you have been uneasy, so you will encounter the next bad luck. People should learn to stop loss in time. When they have lost something, they should learn to look down, learn to let go, cherish the life in front of them, and stop clinging to the past and struggling unnecessarily.
Life always goes on. What's the use of worrying too much? Happiness is the most important thing in life.
There is a good saying: when we start to live with a positive attitude, then we have already succeeded halfway. A person's life is short. Don't waste time and energy on rotten people. The people who should really cherish are the people in front of us.
I hope we can treat ourselves well for the rest of our lives, be a woman who loves to laugh, has self-restraint and has a good attitude, and let us grow old slowly in the years, gentle and poetic, elegant and noble.