"I started my career as a writer, but I missed it for three years; Then I practiced martial arts, and the tinker made a arrow, and I was in the middle of the drum, and I went out one by one; After studying medicine, I achieved something, wrote a good prescription, served it, and died. "

I started to study literature, and I didn't get into fame after three years of hard work; After changing to martial arts, the tinker shot an arrow, and as a result, the drummer was expelled; Finally, I studied medicine, and finally I learned it. I wrote a prescription for myself, and after eating it, it was a boom ...

Three taboos in career choice:

I dare not choose, I keep choosing, and I don't know how to choose.

this allusion is "always choose".

the straight line between two points is the shortest, so walking around the bend will get twice the result with half the effort. When I first set out, I took two catwalks, which didn't hurt. What I was most afraid of was seeing things differently and never ending.

"I don't know how to choose" are two common phenomena:

First, I regard my major as a career;

second, turn interest into work.

Your major is Human Resource Management, which can be your career. But your major is "software engineering", so you must determine the specific career direction, whether to be a Java programmer or a Python engineer in the future. This is your career. After all, you can't find any position called "Computer Science and Technology" on the recruitment website.

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A person's greatest happiness lies in his successful choice of two things in life: one is to do the job he likes; The second is to find the right partner. Fight for your career when the sun rises, and hug your lover when the sun goes down.

how about this bowl of chicken soup? Is it sweet enough for your throat?

It sounds beautiful to turn interest into work, and work is play, but how many people really turn interest into work, and they have no interest anymore ...

If your resume hobbies are: "music", "photography" and "travel", which is meaningless, according to the analysis of user tags on a platform, 9% of people like them and belong to human beings.

I have nothing to do but yell at my throat. I'm a rock fan all day. I've listened to many stories of famous singers and drank some chicken soup of "be yourself and never compromise". My heart is surging and my blood is boiling. I'm going to be a singer!

it's okay to live in the basement.

eating instant noodles is ok.

singing in karaoke bars is ok.

I believe that I will become famous overnight ...

Cai Kangyong once said:

Don't turn your interest into a career casually. Just when you are interested, you don't need anyone to nod. How you like to sing, cook, design your home or invest in stocks is your own business. Once you turn your interest into a career, you need everyone around you to nod. Interest has become a task, and the garden has become a battlefield. Instead of doing what you like, do what you are good at, and keep the garden to grow flowers.

The most important reason why you can't put interest down is that you don't have so many requirements for interest, that is, simply giving you spiritual pleasure or psychological satisfaction.

You like to sing. When you are sad, hum a song "Go to have a fling alone without supervision" to relieve your depressed mood. When friends get together, KTV shows her singing voice to Duan Guifei, who is drunk and surprised, showing her "sudden self". As an interest, that's enough. Once you take it as a career, it may not be cute ...

Your interest is singing, so-

What crazy things have you done for it?

have you studied or worked part-time?

what honors have you won for your interest?

if you are a professional, would you like to give yourself a few years to try?

can you bear the worst?

False interest, to put it bluntly, means "like is not love".

more importantly, if you are not outstanding and talented, you'd better work hard with the law of large numbers in your career choice. Being a singer is obviously a small probability event.

working thousands of miles just for money.

Work is to settle down in society, and we have more requirements than interest. Apart from meeting the basic needs of survival, is this job decent? A little more advanced, can it give you a sense of accomplishment?

There are three basic dimensions of career choice:

Future and money, talents and specialties, interests and preferences.

Future and money:

Only when there is a bowl in the pot can pigs fly.

Talent and specialty:

A fish should not climb trees, but look for the rivers, lakes and seas that belong to you.

Interests and preferences:

Actually, there is an order to love and work hard. You should love your job first before you work hard.

the three should be weighed.

don't be extreme, only one can't see the other and the third; You can't be perfect, but you always want to be perfect and stop.

if the order, future and money, talent and specialty should be considered first, live first, then live. Do something promising, do what you are good at, and if you happen to like it, it is a kind of luck.

In the world of adults, you can't just live by liking, and you can't look back when you hit the south wall. This is not the depth of love, it is selfishness to a certain extent, it is not persistence, it is the obsession of not wanting to face the reality.

sometimes, it's not that we like something well, but that we learn to like it while doing it.

From a professional point of view, it is better to tap your strengths than to discover your interests.

If you don't know your interests, think about it. Ever since you were a child, have you been fascinated by anything, learned very fast, and done very well, and felt good when you did it and after it, and others affirmed and praised you?

this is your advantage.

the ultimate destination of sustainable interest is advantage.

you have to find it, confirm it, and then strengthen it! Improve the professional skills in this field, improve the systematic knowledge system, and finally form a fixed way of thinking and ability performance, which is your career choice.

The ancients used "slave, apprentice, worker, craftsman, teacher, family and saint" to interpret the professional realm:

Slave: involuntary, dependent on supervision

Apprentice: lack of ability, willing to learn voluntarily

Worker: honest, do things according to the rules

Craftsman: proficient in a skill, an industry expert.

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If you have troubles, you can find Brother Ming. It's more fun to find Brother Ming. Pay attention to Brother Ming and talk about job hunting, and our story will begin ~