The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop; the child wants to be nourished but cannot be kissed. Whoever speaks of an inch of grass will be rewarded with three rays of spring light. ——Meng Jiao The heart of kindness and filial piety is present in everyone. ——Su Che Be careful when going in and out for support, and don’t get tired of being there day and night. It means: Parents should be careful to support them when they go in and out (doors), and don’t get tired of serving them in the morning and evening. From "Encouragement to Repay Parents' Favors". If you can fulfill your filial piety in front of your parents, you will be a good son if you are filial; if you can fulfill your filial piety in front of your mother-in-law, you will lose your filial piety and then you will lose your virtuousness. It means: being filial to your parents means you are a good son, being filial to your father-in-law and mother-in-law will lead to a reputation of being both filial and virtuous. From "Encouragement to Repay Parents' Favors". When a disciple enters, he will be filial, and when he leaves, he will be a younger brother. It means: Young disciples should be filial to their parents when they return home, and they should respect and love their brothers when they go out. From the (Spring and Autumn) "The Analects of Confucius·Learning is the First". Don't be slow when your parents call you; don't be lazy when your parents tell you to do it. It means: when your parents call you, you should quickly answer; when your parents give orders, you should quickly do it. From (Qing Dynasty) Li Yuxiu's "Disciple Regulations". A husband's filial piety is the scripture of heaven and the righteousness of earth. Meaning: Filial piety is a matter of course. From "The Classic of Filial Piety". Don't be slow to answer the call, be sincere and cheerful. It means: When parents call you, you should immediately agree to it, do not neglect it, be sincere and with a smile on your face. From "Encouragement to Repay Parents' Favors". Good food should be used by parents first, and good clothes should be worn by parents first. It means: Give your parents good food first, and give your parents good clothes first. From "Encouragement to Repay Parents' Favors". A poor family knows a filial son, and a country in chaos knows a loyal minister. It means: Only when the family is poor can a true filial son be discovered; only when the country is in danger can a true loyal minister be identified. From "Collection of Famous Sages". He who is arrogant towards his relatives is also disrespectful to his relatives. Meaning: People who don’t respect other people’s parents will definitely not respect their own parents. From "Three Kingdoms·Book of Wei". Mencius said: "If you don't get close to your parents, you can't be a human being; if you don't get close to your close relatives, you can't be a son." Mencius said: "(In Shun's eyes) a son who doesn't get along well with his parents cannot be a good person; a son can't be a good person if he doesn't get along well with his parents. "If you cannot obey your parents' wishes in everything, you cannot be a son." From (Spring and Autumn Period). "Mencius Li Lou Shang". Mencius said: "When we are old, we are as old as other people; when we are young, we are as young as other people." Mencius said: "Respect your own elders, and extend respect to the elders of other families; caress your own children, and extend them to others. "Children of other people's families" comes from "Mencius: King Hui of Liang" (Spring and Autumn Period). Mencius said: "Kissing relatives is benevolence; respecting elders is righteousness." Mencius said: "Loving parents is benevolence; respecting elders is righteousness." From "Mencius: Doing Your Heart" (Spring and Autumn Period). Mencius said: "Everyone loves his relatives and grows up with them, and the world will be peaceful." Mencius said: "As long as everyone loves his parents and respects his elders, then the world will naturally be peaceful." From ( Spring and Autumn Period) "Mencius Li Lou Shang". Don’t let your parents suffer from hard work, and don’t let your parents suffer from sorrow. It means: Don’t let your parents suffer, don’t let your parents share your worries. From "Encouragement to Repay Parents' Favors". If you like what you like, use your strength to implement it; if you dislike what you like, be careful to get rid of it. It means: children should try their best to prepare things for their parents if they like them; things that parents dislike should be carefully removed for them. From (Qing Dynasty) Li Yuxiu's "Disciple Regulations". If you have a problem with me, please give me more advice. My color is calm and my voice is soft. Meaning: Parents are at fault, advise them to change. Smile and speak softly. From (Qing Dynasty) Li Yuxiu's "Disciple Regulations". If you love me, it's hard to be filial; if you love me if you hate me, filial piety is a virtuous thing. It means: My parents love me, so why should I be filial? What is the difficulty in being filial to my parents? If my parents hate me, but I still be filial, I am virtuous. From (Qing Dynasty) Li Yuxiu's "Disciple Regulations". A virtuous wife brings few disasters, and a son is filial to his father and has a generous heart. It means: if a wife is virtuous, her husband will have fewer disasters; if the children are filial, the parents will be happy. From Zengguang Xianwen (Ming Dynasty). Among thousands of classics, filial piety and righteousness come first. Meaning: Thousands of classics say that filial piety and righteousness are the first things people should do. From "Zengguang Xianwen" (Qing Dynasty): Always be considerate of your parents' wishes, and don't teach them to worry about you. Meaning: Always be considerate and understanding of your parents, and don’t let your parents worry. From "Encouragement to Repay Parents' Favors". The first is to be a filial brother, and the second is to be faithful. It means: first of all, be filial to your parents and respect your brothers, and secondly, be cautious and keep your word. From (Qing Dynasty) Li Yuxiu's "Disciple Regulations". If one's body is injured, one's relatives will be worried; if one's virtue is injured, one's relatives will be ashamed. Meaning: When the body is injured, the parents are worried; when morals are corrupted, the parents are humiliated. From (Please) Li Yuxiu's "Disciple Regulations". Being a son should end with filial piety; being a father should end with kindness. It means: as a son, be filial to your parents; as a father, be loving to your son. From "The Great Learning" Filial piety is the beginning of virtue, brotherhood is the preface of virtue, faith is the thickest virtue, and loyalty is the righteousness of virtue. He is also a person who has participated in the Four Virtues of Zhongfu. It means: Honoring your parents is the beginning of morality, respecting your brother is the order of morality, trust is the depth of morality, and loyalty is the direction of morality. Zeng Shen was a person with exactly these four morals. ’ comes from "Family Language: Disciples' Practice". A filial son will be filial to his relatives, and he will be admired by others. It means: If you are filial to your parents, your children will be filial to you; if you respect others, others will respect you. From "Song Xin Lu" by Lin Bu (Song Dynasty). Sheep have the kindness of kneeling down to breastfeed, and crows have the kindness of feeding back. It means: when the lamb kneels down to suck milk, the little crow can feed the old crow in return to repay the parents for their nurturing kindness. From Zengguang Xianwen (Ming Dynasty). We need to ask how to be filial to our parents. Being filial to our parents is more than just food and clothing. Being filial to our parents does not make our parents angry. It is all about loving and respecting our relatives and being filial.

It means: How to honor your parents. Honoring your parents is not just about feeding them and clothing them; honoring your parents does not mean making them angry. Loving and respecting your parents is full filial piety. From "Repaying Kindness to Parents". If you want to know your family's kindness, look at your son; if you want your son to be obedient, you should first be filial to your parents. It means: Only by raising children can you understand the nurturing grace of your parents; if you ask your children to be filial to you, you must first be filial to your own parents. From "Four Words". Zengzi said: Fortunately, there are three things: the first is to be filial and respect relatives; the second is not to be humiliated; the third is to be able to support. Zengzi said: "There are three points in filial piety. The first filial piety is to respect your parents, the second is to not bring shame to your parents with your words and deeds, and the third is to be able to provide for your parents." From the "Book of Rites" (Spring and Autumn Period). Confucius said: "One must not know the age of one's parents, one with joy and the other with fear." Confucius said, "One cannot but know the age of one's parents. On the one hand, I am happy for their longevity, and on the other hand, I am sad for their aging. Worry." From "The Analects of Confucius: Li Ren No. 4" (Spring and Autumn Period). Confucius said: "When parents are alive, if you don't travel far away, you must have a way to travel." It means: "When parents are alive, don't travel far away from home. If you want to go far away, you must have a clear destination." "From the (Spring and Autumn) "The Analects of Confucius·Liren No. 4". Confucius said: "Today's filial piety is said to be able to support. As for dogs and horses, they can all be kept. It's disrespectful, why bother? ” Meaning: “Today’s filial son only needs to be able to provide for his parents. Even dogs and horses can be fed. If you are not filial to your parents. So what is the difference between supporting your parents and raising dogs and horses? "From the (Spring and Autumn) "The Analects of Confucius: Wei Zheng Second".