160. A gentleman does not compare himself with others, while a villain does not compare himself with others. ——Confucius

161. If you can talk to someone but don’t talk to them, you will miss someone; if you talk to someone who can’t talk to you, you will lose your words. ——Confucius

162. If you are friends with evil, you will become secluded. ——Xu Qian

163. If you want to maintain a friendship with a person, you must never reveal his secrets, especially those related to self-esteem. ——Alexander Dumas

164. The most important thing is that the friends you choose must be decent, that is, people with good character. ——Zou Taofen

165. To make friends, the most important thing is kindness of eyes, and he is always a good guy. Everyone has small flaws, and everyone has them, so don’t you? ——Sanmao

166. A thousand gold buys a neighbor, and eight hundred buys a house. ——Gao Zecheng

167. Don’t make friends with people who are shallow, approachable and frivolous. ——Guan Xiu

168. Gratitude must be learned and will last forever. ——Yu Xuanji

169. Fighting and restless people always get along well with people who are gentle and shy. The former type of people can seek peace of mind from the contrast in personality, and the latter type of people can find peace of mind from the contrast in personality. Man seeks protection from his own weakness. ——Alexander Dumas

170. One cannot always act in time. If someone still understands you when you are in time, that is a close friend. ——Liu Shaoqi

171. Being entrusted by others is the end of the matter. ——Gao Zecheng

172. Those who use rights to unite will be separated from each other even if their rights are exhausted. ——Sima Qian

173. It is enough to have a confidant in life. ——Lu Xun

174. Don’t have money transactions with friends, and don’t lend money to friends. If you lend money to others, just like Mr. Hu Shi, if I borrow it, I won’t ask for it back. There can be money exchanges between people, which makes our interpersonal relationships more successful.

——San Mao

175. Is there anything more hateful than those friends who lead the most noble people to the most miserable end! ——Shakespeare

176. It is not the connection of flesh and blood, but the connection of emotion and spirit that gives one person the right to help another. ——Tchaikovsky

177. Friendship makes the heart know. ——Xie Huilian

178. People love each other and benefit each other, just like fire going up and water going down. They cannot be avoided in the world. ——Mo Zhai

179. Friends also say a lot of good things, so those who are really willing to mention your shortcomings are your rare friends. ——Gai Jietian

180. When a person is moved by friendship and goes to do something, the timid person becomes brave, the shy person becomes confident, and the lazy person becomes willing to act. The irritable one is also cautious and willing to treat others. - Thackeray

181. Those who use cunning to harm their friends will be trapped in danger and ambush. ——Aesop

182. Friendships in life are made at all times, and cannot be separated by ups and downs. ——Helan Jinming

183. If you are not trusted by others when you make friends with others, your righteousness has not been fulfilled. ——"Yi Lin"

184. If you want to know a person, treat him as a friend. ——"Yi Lin"

185. Choose your friends carefully! The pure selfishness will put on the mask of friendship, but also set up traps to trap you. —— Krylov

186. It’s hard to find friends. ——Lenin

187. Homemade friendship lasts longer than purchased friendship. ——Omely

188. You don’t need to pay attention when talking to your friends, but when you are facing the enemy, you must always be on guard. ——Lu Xun

189. To be a friend but not caring is to face a friend; to be a friend without caring is to face a friend. ——Yang Xiong

190. Like-minded people do not need to stay together forever. Some people you live with for a long time and maintain a close relationship, but you will never tell your true feelings; while some people just get to know each other and feel like old friends at first sight, revealing all their secrets to each other like a confession. ——Anonymous

191. In times of danger, the doubted friend often becomes the savior, and the most trusted friend becomes the betrayer. ——Aesop

192. He is my daily companion, I can only confide in him, when I am lonely, because of our weakness, my desire for sympathy, my lack of self-confidence, and in confusion The trust I placed in his counsel, I turned to him again and again. ——Gide

193. I have always praised the Longquan Sword, but how can I cut off my lovesickness after trying it? ——"Chronicles of Tang Poems"

194. A fool who is overly diligent is more dangerous than any enemy. ——Krylov

195. Friendship always needs to be sown with loyalty, watered with enthusiasm, cultivated with principles, and cared for with understanding. ——Marx

196. Those who delete the branches and leaves will definitely not get the flowers and fruits. ——Lu Xun

197. Friendship must be as warm as love, and love must be as unbreakable as friendship. —— Moore

198. There is no gain in friendship, no salary in officialdom.

——Jikang

199. If there is a confidant in the world, you can not hate him. ——Lin Yutang

200. Ten thousand taels of gold are easy to get, but it is hard to find a close friend. ——Cao Xueqin

201. You may forget those who have laughed with you; but you will never forget those who have cried with you. ——Gibner

202. You and I are friends. We each exchange an apple with each other. After the exchange, we still each have an apple; if you have a thought, I also have a thought, and between friends If we exchange ideas, each of us will have two ideas. ——Bernard Shaw

203. Talking well to others is warmer than cloth. ——Xun Kuang

204. Those who use money to make friends will never make friends if the money is used up. Those who have sex with each other will fall in love with you. ——Liu Xiang

205. People always have things they don’t understand. It is because of this that people can get along with each other and respect each other. ——Anonymous

206. Being close to the virtuous and knowledgeable leads to virtuousness. ——Liu Xiang

207. To make friends, you must make loyal people. Just as a shrewd doctor must check the pulse and examine the root of the disease before treating a disease, when making friends, you must also examine the character of the other person, otherwise it will be dangerous. ——Ibn Mugafa

208. If you work with villains, you can do small things; if you work with adults, small things can become great successes. ——Anonymous

209. Ten thousand taels of gold are easy to get, but even half a confidant is hard to find. A confidant is hard to find. If you can't find one, don't complain; if you do, don't miss it. ——Anonymous

210. A gentleman gives money to others, and a common man gives money to others. ——Xun Kuang

211. The exchange of snobbishness is based on emotion, and the exchange of morality and justice is based on reason. Emotions are easy to change, but reason is unforgettable. ——Fu Xuan

212. If you know the right way, you can share the same interests thousands of miles apart. It is as solid as glue and paint, and as solid as gold and stone. ——Qiao Zhou

213. First light and then thick, first sparse and then dense, first far and then close, this is the way to make friends. ——"Hu's Family Instructions"

214. Ten thousand friends who pay lip service but don't live up to their expectations are no match for a close friend who shares life, death, and hardships. ——Guo Moruo

215. The way of communication is still white; if dyed with vermilion, it will be red; if dyed with blue, it will be green. ——Qiao Zhou

216. If you associate with good people, you will be influenced by good things; if you associate with evil people, you will inevitably be infected by evil. After the wind blows over the incense, it will inevitably emit a fragrant fragrance; After blowing through the smelly things, there will inevitably be a smell. ——Ibn Mugafa

217. You will not get the ideal confidant in your life, and you will not find loyal friends until the end of the world. ——"Arabian Nights"

218. Friends, that’s why they have each other; Tao is different, so why do they have each other? ——Xun Kuang

219. When a scholar dies and has a close friend, he will never forget this. ——Cao Cao

220. A gentleman chooses people to make friends with, and a farmer chooses fields to cultivate; a gentleman cultivates people, and a farmer cultivates fields; those who plant fields choose seeds and plant them, and they will surely get millet in half a year; scholars choose people and plant them. , you will definitely get a salary in peacetime. ——Liu Xiang

221. Knowing each other is the most valuable thing. ——Xie Juezai

222. It is better to befriend an evil scholar who has read thousands of books than to befriend an illiterate gentleman. ——"Proverbs Lian Bi"

223. A gentleman's connection is like water, and a villain's connection is like sweet wine. ——Dai Sheng

224. Don’t think that things we can’t see don’t exist. In our lives, we will definitely have the opportunity to find some people who will not disappoint us. ——Anonymous

225. It is very easy for people who are loyal to establish friendship with each other; it is very difficult for them to destroy the existing friendship. Just like a golden vessel, it is not easily broken; if it is damaged, it is the easiest thing to repair it and restore it to its original state. ——Ibn Mugafa

226. Do not consider that person as a friend if he shows favor to you when you are lucky. Only such a person is considered a friend, if he can save you from danger. ——Sadie

227. Only by not relying on friends and not demanding friends can you enjoy the joy of making friends. ——Anonymous

228. Choose first and pay later, don’t pay first and then choose. ——Ge Hong

229. Those who are close to vermilion are red, and those who are close to ink are black. ——Fu Xuan

230. Choose friends for benefit. ——Master Hongyi

231. When making friends, only take their strengths and ignore their weaknesses. ——Li Xing

232. When you encounter setbacks and feel angry and depressed, talking to a close friend can help you get relief. Otherwise, this kind of depression will make people sick. As the saying goes: People are always willing to keep the greatest flattery to themselves, but the unfavorable advice from friends can cure this problem. Friends can give advice from two aspects: one is about character, and the other is about career. ——Bacon

233. No matter how close two people are, the respect they deserve for each other is always indispensable. ——Anonymous

234. Getting along with evil people is like boarding a boat into the sea. Even if you don't end up at the bottom of the sea, you will still be frightened.

——Ibn Mugafa

235. Only sincerity and sincerity can we call friendship.

——Anonymous

236. There will never be a bad sound in exchange. ——Liu Xiang

237. Friends are precious, but enemies may also be useful; friends will tell me what I can do, and enemies will teach me what I should do. ——Schiller

238. People in the world make friends easily, but they regret it later. ——Wu Xiji

239. It’s rare for a critic to dare to criticize in person; sometimes he can’t bear it and gets angry suddenly; when he thinks something is not right, he apologizes and comes to his door; then he cooperates again and understands each other and is calm. ——Chen Yi

240. It is difficult to keep a snobbish acquaintance for a long time. ——Zhuge Liang

241. "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water." Because it is light, it is not greasy and can last long. ——Anonymous

242. Sanmao said: The beauty of the relationship between friends is the icing on the cake, but the most valuable thing is providing help when it is time. ——Anonymous

243. If anyone cares about himself and walks away quickly, don’t go with him; if anyone is unkind to you, don’t treat him as a friend. ——Sertis

244. There is another kind of friend who hates others. ——Shamfor

245. Old trees are the best to burn, old horses are best to ride, old books are the best to read, old wine is the best to drink, and old friends are the most trustworthy. ——Wright

246. The meaning of a friend is to be straight and upright in order to ascend to the good path. ——Xu Qian

247. When a gentleman lives in the world, there will be order, while when a villain lives in the world, there will be chaos. A gentleman wants to harmonize with others, just like water and fire cannot be in harmony with each other. But with the cauldron in the middle, water and fire are not in chaos, but all flavors are harmonious. Therefore, a gentleman must not be careful in choosing people among them. ——Liu Xiang

248. It is better to have friends all the time than to be full of scholars. ——Wu Xiji

249. To fish, you must catch sea turtles, and to make friends, you must make friends with Fufenghao. ——Yuan Mu

250. Whether it is sentimental poems, beautiful articles, or leisure joy, nothing can replace close friendship. ——Pushkin

251. Goodwill produces happiness, and civilization brings harmony. ——Hugo

252. Spending more time with peers is undoubtedly a good remedy for heart disease. ——Tagore

253. Walking with wise men will lead to wisdom; keeping company with fools will definitely be useless. ——King David

254. The ancients said that friends are the second "I". Having one more good friend actually gives you another life.

——Anonymous

255. Just like love begins with love, friendship begins with friendship. ——Anonymous

256. Those who praise us behind our back are our good friends. ——Cervantes

257. The end and pinnacle of all goodness, the last star of life is friendship. ——E. Markham

258. Friendship was like a bright light in my past life, illuminating my soul and giving my life a little brilliance. ——Ba Jin

259. Only by knowing each other can we not doubt each other; only by not doubting can we know each other. ——Cao Yu

260. There are too few real friends and too many friends whose words and deeds are inconsistent. They are just gentlemen in words and dwarves in actions, like the moon, sometimes waning and sometimes full. We can only declare that we should regard them as currencies whose value is known before they are used! ——Ke Shuduo

261. If you are smart, don’t treat that person as a friend if he has a deep friendship with your enemy. ——Sadie

262. If friends want lasting friendship, they must be humble and considerate to each other. ——Anonymous

263. Friendship between people unites the hearts of most people. Because of this precious connection, it is gentle and sweet. ——St. Augustine

264. In fact, the union of people is incredible. It is a magical tie of "friendship" that connects all people. —— Carlyle

265. This man is willing to shed his blood and sacrifice his life for me, but he cannot reveal to me the little secret hidden in the corner of his heart. Friendship, you are just a passing cloud. You are as bright and brilliant as the sun, but you are just an elusive thing that can be viewed and elusive... - Alexandre Dumas

266. Unspoken feelings of intoxication, Not picking up a glass of wine. ——Tao Qian

267. Do not take out your merits from your own pocket and lend them to your friends. This is an insult to him. ——Tagore

268. There is nothing more important and beautiful than the kind relationship between people, whether it is walking with others on the train, or getting along with family or colleagues. ——Anonymous

269. Trusting the kindness of others is a clear proof of your own kindness. ——Anonymous

270. The word "friend" is on everyone's lips, but true friendship is rare. ——Phaedrus

271. Whoever wants to be helped in times of trouble should be lenient to others in ordinary times. ——Sadie

272. People who are looking for friends should find friends. People who have no friends mean that they have never looked for them. ——Lesing

273. Those who pity you are not friends, but those who help you are friends.

- Thomas Fuller

274. Friendship is like a star, and love is just a candle. Candles will burn out, but stars will shine forever. ——Alexander Dumas

275. If a scholar has jealous friends, then virtuous ministers will not be friends; if a king has jealous ministers, then virtuous ministers will not come to him. ——Xun Kuang

276. From the appearance, people are the most precious and dogs are the lowest, but the sages unanimously believe that a dog that values ??righteousness is better than an unjust person. ——Sadie

277. Only those who treat each other sincerely are true friends. ——Anonymous

278. Not trusting anyone is as wrong as trusting anyone. ——Seneca

279. He who does not share happiness with others will not be a loyal friend in disaster. ——Aesop

280. Friendship is heaven, without it it is like going to hell; friendship is life, without it it means death; everything you do in the world is for friendship. ——William Morris

281. You must examine the root cause of the disease, and you must also examine the character of the other person when making friends, otherwise it will be dangerous.

——Ibn Mugafa

282. Happiness does not lie in having many friends, but in carefully choosing friends and their value. ——Johnson

283. Make friends and score points, and cut the rules. ——Zhou Xingsi

284. True friends do not talk about friendship. They do not ask each other for anything for the sake of friendship, but do everything they can for each other. —— Belinsky

285. A loyal friend is the incarnation of Bodhisattva. ——Napoleon

286. Those ungrateful people who fall into difficulties cannot be saved. ——Aesop

287. When making friends, you must choose your own. It is beneficial to talk and learn from each other; it is harmful to follow and play. ——"Xichou Old Man's Sayings·Lectures"

288. Living with good people is like entering Lan Zhi's room and not smelling their fragrance for a long time, then he will be transformed into them. Living with evil people is like entering an abalone house. If you don't smell the smell for a long time, you will be transformed by it. ——Liu Xiang

289. Intimate friends may be separated by thousands of mountains and rivers, but they still seem to be close at hand. ——Tegnell

290. In the face of misfortune, understand your friends. ——Herder

291. Unknown friends are also friends. ——Lesing

292. Life is enriched in various friendships. Loving others and not being loved by others is the greatest joy of existence. ——Wei Smith

293. The ancients were ashamed of the friendship between powerful forces. ——Liu Yiqing

294. A common man cannot make friends carelessly. Friends, so they have each other. ——Xun Kuang

295. Freedom can only be preserved through friendship. ——Hugo

296. Sometimes, two people who have never met may indeed become close friends as soon as they meet. ——Tagore

297. A true confidant looks even colder than a liar. ——Horace

298. Only those who treat each other sincerely are true friends. Anyone who plots against his friends is deceiving himself. ——Ha Abubakar

299. When we go from rich to pauper, the dilemma will tell us who is the confidant and who is the snob. - John Dryden

300. Gold gifts will ruin friendship. Because the gift-giver may indeed forget his intention, but the recipient will always be grateful. ——Wei Smith

301. When talking with friends, you need to be careful with your language. Adults should also take care of each other step by step and avoid spreading bad words, so as to promote the friendship between the two parties. Reducing right and wrong is an important part of promoting interpersonal relationships. Spread more good words and never spread a single bad word. ——Sanmao

302. You don’t have to live without bad neighbors, and you don’t have to have bad friends to meet. But those who are kind and self-sustaining can get both.

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