"The excessive pursuit of love will inevitably reduce the value of people themselves."

2. Chernyshevski on love

"The meaning of love is to help each other improve, but also improve themselves. Only those who have become thoughtful, Ming Che and strong hands because of love are considered to be in love. "

3. Hu Shi on the meaning of life

"The meaning of life is not how to live, but how to live. If you are willing to bury this six-foot tall body in a daytime dream, that is the meaning of your life. If you are angry, cheer up and make up your mind to seek the meaning of life and create the meaning of your own, then every day you live will be meaningful, everything you do will add a meaning, life will be endless, and the meaning of life will be endless. In a word, life is meaningless. If you can give him something, he will have something. Instead of thinking about the meaning of life all day, try to do something meaningful in this life. ..... Know that life is like a dream, so there is nothing to expect. But nothing is inaction. Life is just a dream, but life has only one chance to dream. Why not try to have a vigorous dream? Can these decades be mixed? "

4. Excerpt from Schopenhauer's life wisdom

Friends say they are sincere, but in fact the enemy is sincere. Therefore, we should put the enemy's attack. Blaming is a bitter medicine to better understand yourself.

Showing your cleverness is actually indirectly accusing others of being stupid and incompetent. ..... Sadie said in The Rose Garden: "We should realize that fools hate wise men a hundred times more than wise men hate fools."

Treating others in an impolite way at will and unnecessarily, thus becoming an enemy of others, is as crazy as setting fire to your own house. Polite words and deeds are like counterfeit money. It is unwise to be stingy when using counterfeit money, but it is wise to give generously. ..... Using courtesy and friendliness, even a stubborn and hostile person becomes obedient and convenient. Therefore, politeness is as important to people as warmth is to wax.

Anyone who wants others to believe his point of view should express his point of view calmly and without passion. ..... If a person expresses his views fiercely, then people will regard his views as the product of his will, not the result of cognitive power, because cognitive power is essentially calm.

I also want to tell you a few unique but little-known Arabic proverbs: "Don't tell your friends anything that your enemies can't know." "If you keep silent about my secret, then this secret is my prisoner; If I spill the beans and tell the secret, then I will be its prisoner. "

It is useless to express anger and hatred with words or expressions ... we can't show hatred or anger except in action. ..... Cold-blooded animals are the only poisonous animals.

Don't emphasize your words. ..... because ordinary people understand slowly, ... for many people, we can say some very rude words in a polite and friendly tone without direct danger.

People who are born to achieve great things have secretly felt this fact since their youth. He will work hard to complete his mission like a worker bee building a nest. ..... In fact, we have been following our own principles, and these principles are like an invisible rope manipulating us. These principles vary from person to person. People are guided by these principles to be happy or unhappy.

A truly sophisticated person is one who never hesitates or hesitates, nor does he act in a hurry.

For our happiness, courage is a very critical quality, second only to intelligence and wisdom. ..... As a last resort, fear itself becomes a reason for fear. (Roosevelt quoted this sentence to inspire the American people. He said, "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself." . This sentence became the most famous sentence in Roosevelt's speech. )

Just as people's love for life is actually just the fear of death, … people should avoid the desolation and depression brought by loneliness and their monotonous ideology instead of actively seeking the pleasant company of others.

On a cold winter day, in order to avoid freezing, a group of porcupines embraced to keep warm. But they were soon stabbed by each other's hard thorns. In this way, they were forced to separate. But in order to keep warm, their bodies are close again, and their thorns sting them again. These porcupines were tortured repeatedly by these two kinds of pains until they finally found a distance just enough to tolerate each other.

Those hanging pennants, boats decorated with corollas, decorated lanterns, cheering and shouting, beating drums and whistling to salute-these are just illusions and facades that show people's joy, and this lively surface is a hieroglyphic of joy. But it's hard to find happiness in such a lively scene. Joey refused to show up at the festival. ..... Another example is the grand occasion of the wedding and the temple fair in Yixiang. On the surface, people are in high spirits and immersed in a noble and pleasant atmosphere, but usually, restraint, embarrassment and boredom are the real guests present.

The more unique, valuable and meaningful a person's personality is, the more necessary it is for him to recognize the general development of his life and his plans from time to time, and to know his primary and true wishes, which are all very important things for his happiness. ..... At the same time, he should also have a general understanding of what kind of occupation he should be engaged in, what role he needs to play and his relationship with the world.

The point of life wisdom is to find an appropriate balance between paying attention to the present and planning for the future ... Many people are too addicted to the present, and these people are carefree and careless. Others live a more future, and they are alarmists who are cautious and alarmist. ..... Those who live in the future with hope and hard work stare at the front and wait impatiently for what will happen, as if what will happen in the future will bring them real happiness. ..... Those people have been deceiving themselves all their lives, because they only live temporarily until they die. ..... Never forget that the present is the only real and certain. ..... Because we are annoyed with the past and tired of the future, we refuse the beautiful present time or trample on it at will, which is downright stupid. ..... treat every day as a special life. (seneca)

Our life relationship should be as simple as possible, even if it is monotonous. As long as it doesn't cause boredom, it will help to enhance our sense of happiness, because in this way, we will feel less about life and therefore have less burden on life. This is the essence of life.

To live a thoughtful life and learn all useful lessons from life experience, we must be diligent in introspection ... A person's life experience can be regarded as the text of a book, and chewing and understanding life experience is the interpretation of the text. ..... don't think about the past, just drift with the flow of life, then he lacks clear and meticulous thinking about life, his emotions will be confused, and his thoughts will be mixed with some confusion. All these can be seen from the brevity, brevity and suddenness of what this person said.

Friendship, love and honor closely link people, but in the final analysis, people can only honestly place their hopes on themselves. ..... Due to the lack of inner, mediocre people like to associate with others, like to accommodate others. This is because it is easier for them to put up with others than with themselves. ..... People can't stand themselves in loneliness. Their inner boredom and emptiness drive them to be keen on communicating with people and traveling abroad.

Without enough solitude, we can't get inner peace. ..... learn to maintain a certain sense of loneliness in the crowd.

Frederick the great once said, "People with superior souls occupy the same position as emperors".

Morning is the youth time of the day: everything is bright, fresh and relaxed. ..... We shouldn't shorten the morning time because of sleepiness, or waste this time on worthless work and small talk. On the contrary, we should cherish the morning as the golden time of life and regard it as sacred to some extent.

It is absolutely necessary for our happiness to be able to engage in certain activities, if possible, make something, or learn something.

5. Excerpted from Lichtenberg's maxim.

We live in a world where a fool can make many fools, but a Tessa can't make several Tessa.

If one day everyone in the world only does what is necessary, millions of people will starve to death.

Most people's distrust of one field is based on their blind belief in another field.

The world is probably not too old, because people can't fly.

Too much reading has brought us to the barbaric age of knowledge.

Our time is most suitable for Cervantes. The age of Cervantes has arrived, but Cervantes has not yet appeared. The clown is already there, but what is missing is a whip.

He didn't want to seduce people, but he became a seducer. Sadly, people's efforts to reduce evil have produced so many new e's. It seems that people generally know more about power itself than the materials they use it.

This book has an influence that only good books have: fools are more stupid, smart people are smarter, and thousands of other people have not changed at all.

The most gorgeous birds sing the worst, which also applies to people. Never look for profound ideas in fancy style.

Most human misfortunes stem from negativity and weakness.

Everyone should study philosophy and aesthetics, at least to make enjoyment more enjoyable for themselves.

People who are too meticulous rarely become great men, and often their research is as useless as meticulous.

You're getting old.

Yes, it only happens to people who live long.

I have always kept this idea and believed in him: to be recognized by future generations, you must be a hateful contemporary. So I can attack everything.

My misfortune is that I have never lived in this world. On the contrary, I live in a large number of various interconnections established by my imagination. ..... in order to enjoy the rest of your life, really live in your previous life.

All my activities now are subordinate to making money. The coal is still burning, but the flame has gone out.

A girl, 150 books, a few friends and Delhi's broad vision, this is my whole world.