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It is better to change yourself first than to change others.

It's better to change yourself first than to change others.

It's better to change yourself first.

People who have it are not as good as those who have it.

People who often blame themselves often get forgiveness from others.

People suffer because they pursue the wrong things.

Where there are people, there will be right and wrong. If you regard it as normal, you won't feel sad, because it is-people!

no matter how old you are, impermanence always comes.

focus on one place and do everything.

hurtful words, like water, are irreparable.

as we all know, being angry is a kind of ignorance and useless, but there is nothing you can do about it. It is precisely because of the lack of' enlightenment' that we can't let go of gains and losses.

money makes up your appearance, and Buddhism enlightens your inner self.

the stimulation of the five senses is not a real enjoyment, but' inner peace' is the place to start.

Defaming others is like spraying blood on others, first polluting your mouth.

trust hearsay. Just like a silly dog, someone threw a stone casually and ran to pick it up.

if you can't grasp the present, you can't get eternity.

be strict with yourself and be lenient with others.

with a grateful heart, forget the shortcomings of others!

Ordinary people pursue the extraordinary, while wise people are willing to enjoy the ordinary.

He who can endure is satisfied with everything; People who are angry are always in hell.

when the ear of rice is ripe, the head naturally lowers.

people are always satisfied with things, and they are always satisfied with things.

being talented and slow-witted is a great talent, and being wise and angry is a great wisdom.

because a small fruit is big, don't do it because of the small evil, and don't do it because of the small good.

people who are willing to bow their heads will never hit the low door.

don't let the ancients call it ambition, and don't let the present people call it infinity.

it is better to be blessed than to cherish it, and it is better to repent than to be widowed.

you are indifferent when you are in a good situation, but calm when you are in a bad situation.

The real insight is to mention and actively serve the public.

Good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil; It' s not that it' s not reported, and the time has not arrived; When the time comes, we should report it together.

The biggest enemy in life is ourselves. The biggest thing in life is arrogance. The biggest stupidity in life is cheating.

the most pitiful thing in life is jealousy. The biggest mistake in life is inferiority complex. The greatest pain in life is obsession.

the biggest humiliation in life is flattery. The most dangerous situation in life is greed. The most troublesome thing in life is to strive for fame and fortune.

the biggest sin in life is to deceive oneself and others. The most pitiful temperament in life is inferiority complex. The biggest bankruptcy in life is despair.

the biggest debt in life is the debt of gratitude. The greatest sin in life is killing. The worst thing in life is promiscuity.

the kindest behavior in life is dedication. The biggest thing in life is to let go. The greatest comfort in life is giving.

the greatest gift in life is forgiveness. The most admirable thing in life is diligence. The biggest thing in life is.

the highest enjoyment in life is to learn Buddhism. The biggest thing in life is to read Buddha.

a person's life is not because he has more, but because he cares less.

to be angry is to punish yourself with other people's faults. To forgive others is to be kind to yourself. It is not necessarily that more money is more fun, and more money is more troublesome. It's really comfortable to be poor and happy.

Sit still and always think about yourself. Gossip is not about people's mistakes. It's a ambition to suffer. It's not an idiot to be willing to suffer. It's only when you respect a gentleman that you show virtue. If you are afraid that a villain is not incompetent, you can retreat to the heights of Bu Tian and make three points calm. If you want to make progress, you need to think about retrogression. If you start, you should consider letting go first. If you are complacent, you should not focus on it. Everything should have more steps. Holding gold is precious, knowing happiness is worth a thousand dollars, thinking twice when things happen, and being patient when you are angry is the highest. Don't be greedy for unexpected wealth, and people who are satisfied are always happy. If you can do things in this way, you will be happy all your life.

you don't have to ask for work, but nothing is work. You don't have to feel virtuous, but complaining is virtuous.

Peace is luck, contentment is happiness, purity of heart is wealth, and lack of desire is longevity.

a man's mind is narrow when he desires more, and wide when he desires less.

I'd rather be poor and enjoy myself than be rich and worried.

it is advisable to retreat first when you are deeply concerned, and then you can rest when you are proud.

the potential is inexhaustible, the blessings are inexhaustible, the cheapness is inexhaustible, and the cleverness is inexhaustible.

a drop of water wears through a stone, not with great strength, but with great skill.

if you don't frown all your life, there should be no gnashing of teeth. You must make friends with the right people, but never make friends with the wrong people. Drink quiet tea, don't be greedy for fancy wine. Open the door of convenience, idle the mouth of right and wrong.

a room with many doors breeds wind, and a room with many words is a disaster in life.

Things are busy like water, so don't worry about fame and fortune. Simple food and plain tea have passed by, and wealth and splendor are not importuned.

"I want" is a sign of poverty. Things are always enough, the heart is always satisfied, and people are self-satisfied without seeking quality.

the worst thing in life is to talk about others; Life is so stupid that I've heard of myself.

don't do all kinds of evil, and all the good people will pursue it. Don't do it because of the small goodness, and don't do it because of the small evil.

don't envy him for being long. If you envy him for being long, you will be short. Don't protect yourself from being short, and if you protect yourself from being short, you will never be long.

things don't have to be the same as the customs, nor should they be different from the customs. Doing things doesn't have to be pleasing or disgusting.

There are two things in the world that can't wait: First, filial piety. Second, do good.

if you are equal and do convenient things, nothing will happen in the world. If you are compassionate and do compassionate things, you will have peace of mind.

if you have a small mind, you will have more troubles, while if you have a large mind, you will be rich.

there is nothing to hide from others in my life, which is great.

"evil", fear of being known, is a great evil. "Goodness" is not true goodness if people want to know it.

it is a good thing to help the crisis. It is virtuous not to boast!

in good times, take it lightly; in bad times, take it calmly.

right and wrong happen every day, and if you don't listen, it will happen naturally.

the stimulation of the five senses is not a real enjoyment. Inner peace is the place to start.

people are good, although the blessing has not arrived, the disaster has been far away; Man-made evil, although the disaster has not arrived, the blessing has been far away.

if you don't ask for anything, you will feel at ease, and if you don't do anything, you will feel safe.

those who don't respect themselves will be humiliated. Don't worry about the elders, take trouble. Those who are not complacent benefit. Those who are not self-sufficient are well informed.

If the accumulated fund is left to future generations, they may not be able to keep it; Books accumulated in children and grandchildren may not be able to read. It's better to accumulate yin virtue in the dark, which is a lesson handed down from generation to generation.

accumulating virtue as an industry is better than a beautiful house and fertile land.

Being able to give is bliss, and being able to eliminate troubles is wisdom.

peace of mind is better than peace of mind, and breadth of house is better than breadth of mind.

Julius Caesar, a Roman who made a great impact on Europe, Asia and Africa, told the waiter on his deathbed, "Please put my hands outside the coffin for the world to see. A great Caesar like me will be empty-handed after death.

there is fun in the dream, but there is nothing after sleep.

children and grandchildren have their own blessings, so don't worry about them.

love breeds wisdom.

conquering the world is not great, but a person who can conquer himself is the greatest person in the world.

a saint is one who lowers his own self to the lowest point and sublimates his own reason to the highest point.

to be jealous of others and hate others is to give them to others.

if a person is not infected by bad habits, he is near.

slandering others is like spitting blood at others, polluting your mouth first.

I hate others, but it is myself who suffers.

people are ordinary because they can't surpass themselves.

a big belly can accommodate you, but many troubles are broken, and you can smile and form an infinite happiness.

to change yourself is to save yourself, influence others and save people.

A lie is like a blooming flower, beautiful in appearance and short-lived.

Only those who respect themselves have the courage to shrink themselves.

if people don't seek happiness, there will be no harm. People don't seek profit, but they are harmless.

a wise man plans with the time, but a fool moves against it.

People who often blame themselves often get forgiveness from others.

seeing yourself is not the door to all good. Seeing people is not the root of all evil.

learn to give in and get a bargain. Increase one point to enjoy, decrease one point to be blessed.

if you think correctly, good luck will come, but if you think wrongly, disaster will shine.

good people do good deeds, from joy to joy, from brightness to brightness. The wicked do evil, from suffering to suffering, from ghost to ghost.

a kind-hearted person will live a long life. Those who are engraved with their hearts will live longer.

bones should be rigid, qi should be soft, ambition should be big, courage should be small, heart should be weak, words should be true, wisdom should be increased, happiness should be cherished, worry is not far away, and worry is near.

bitter taste is good medicine, but harsh words are always good advice. If you change, you will be born. Defending one's faults is not virtuous.

whatever you have now will become others' with your death. Then why not give it to those who really need it now?

people suffer because they pursue the wrong things.

make friends with good people, read good books, listen to good words, and follow good deeds.

a good heart and a good life will make you rich until you are old. Life is not good, and happiness turns into disaster. If you have a good heart and a bad life, the disaster will turn into a blessing.

if you have a bad mind and destiny, you will suffer and be poor. The heart can hold on to life, and the most important thing is to be humane. Life is really made in the heart, and misfortune is called for by people.

Believe in life and don't cultivate the heart, and Yin and Yang are afraid of deficiency and correction. Self-cultivation also obeys orders, and heaven and earth protect themselves.

Be reticent and nourish qi, be indifferent to matters and nourish spirit, be indifferent to thinking and nourishing essence, and be indifferent to thinking and nourishing nature.

to change others, it is better to change yourself first.

Be grateful to the person who hurt you, because he honed your mind. Be grateful to the person who cheated you, because he improved your knowledge. Be grateful to the person who whipped you, because he eliminated your karma. Be grateful to the person who abandoned you, because he taught you to be independent. Be grateful to the person who stumbles you, because he strengthens your ability. Be grateful to those who scold you, because he has contributed to your wisdom. Appreciate all the people who have made you determined to achieve.

Ordinary people are lost in the present and regret the past. Sages are conscious of the present and free from the future.

abstinence from anger is a method of keeping fit, keeping quiet, managing the family, being casual and natural, saving trouble, and doing good deeds and cultivating the mind is a method of birth. Keep these four laws, and the outcome will be accessible.

Life is like a play, because we meet by destiny. It's not easy to help each other to the old age, so it's more important to go. There's no need to look back when you lose your temper over trifles. I am not angry when others are angry, and there is no one to replace me when I am sick. Who will be satisfied if I grieve? Besides, it is frustrating and laborious. Don't compare neighbors, let children and grandchildren do trivial things, suffer hardships and enjoy themselves together, and immortals envy good partners.

people can't stand it, but pedestrians can't. Name: "Daxiong". Hence its name: "Hall of Great Heroes". That is, Buddha also.

patience is a treasure. You can't bear the thought of once, and it's a big disaster to fight for strength. I can't bear the anger, and I will haunt you all my life, so what's the harm in making people step by step, and there is no trouble in making a big fortune.

Hanshan asked Pickup: What should I do if someone slanders me, deceives me, humiliates me, laughs at me, belittles me and builds me? Pick him up and say, just bear with him, avoid him, let him be, bear with him, and ignore him. In a few years, you will see him.

endure for a while, calm down, take a step back, and broaden the horizon.

Evil is the plow, and good is the mud. Good people are often bullied by the wicked. The iron plowshares are getting worse every year, and no mud is changed in the field.

Qi has no open flame, and forbearance is the enemy's bane, but leave room for future generations to plow.

as much as you can endure, you will achieve much in the future.

if you give in to yourself, you can get along with others. If you win well, you will meet the enemy.

if you don't think twice, you will always lose, and people can bear it and worry about it.

right and wrong are liberated by not arguing, troubled by humiliation, and doing things with best efforts.

all things must be endured. it is better to endure than to argue.

hurtful words, like water, are irreparable.

always being kind means always being good.

more words are better than less words, and less words are better than words.

be reasonable and forgive others, and be straightforward and make peace.

not afraid of many things, only afraid of many things.

the real charity is to let go of troubles, worries, parting, persistence and all.

once you put it down, you feel at ease.

to learn Buddhism is to learn to be a man. Buddhism is the way to complete awakening, and practice is to correct one's behavior, thoughts and opinions.

saints seek the heart, not the Buddha; Fools seek Buddha without heart.

an ordinary man can't turn his mind around. A saint turns his mind.

knowing the cause and effect means knowing the advance and retreat. If you know the dharma, you will get the fruit.

to know the past life, the recipient of this life is. If you want to know the fruit of the afterlife, the writer in this life is.

if you are a monk, you have never seen anything in the world.

a wise man knows illusion, but a fool takes illusion as truth.

there are laws in the world, such as dreams and bubbles, such as dew and electricity, so we should look at them this way.

Those who learn Buddhism will not become bad, the elderly who learn Buddhism will not be demented, and the teenagers who learn Buddhism will never be defeated.

don't hesitate to regret when time is out of date. Wine and color cause misfortune and regret, and Ann will regret when she is ill. Official bribery leads to sin and regret, while the rich regret when they are not diligent and poor. If you are unfilial, you will regret when you are old, but if you are killed, you will regret if you don't help. If you don't think twice, you will regret it. ;