What angle to choose is everyone’s freedom and wisdom. But we should know: opinions determine ideas, ideas determine actions, and actions determine results.

When we face something, do we look more at the dark side or the bright side? When we face a person, do we look more at the shortcomings or the advantages? When we face a crisis, do we look more at risks or opportunities? When we face failure, do we look more at what we have lost now or what we have gained?

What angle to choose is everyone’s freedom and wisdom. But we should know: opinions determine ideas, ideas determine actions, and actions determine results. Therefore, whether we succeed or fail, we have already chosen it. Of course, a "positive attitude" does not allow us to ignore the existence of problems. We did make a mistake in the middle question, and we must face it. However, if we allow our personality to magnify the mistakes for no reason, or even think that it is the "end of the world", then It's just so negative that it's terrible.

Sales people unnecessarily magnify the fact of being rejected by customers, but cannot see the needs of customers behind the rejection, as well as the trends of competitors and room for product improvement. Then how can we grow?

Managers unnecessarily magnify the shortcomings and disadvantages of employees, but fail to see the potential and strengths of employees and their desire for success. So how do we become a good leader?

As lovers, it is natural to enjoy the joy brought by the other person. When the other party makes a mistake, just magnify the other party's bad habits and mistakes, and leave all the good things in the past behind. When I changed to another person, I thought it was good, but as time went by, the other person made unexpected mistakes again. Over time, we feel the entanglement and pain of love, and eventually the nature of love is changed by us. How can we feel the beautiful experience brought by long-term love?

As a migrant worker, we only see monotonous and repetitive daily work, but we cannot see the improvement of abilities in repetition. How boring will our work become?

As a businessman, I only see the facts of prosperity and recession, but cannot see behind the facts. I would like to ask, in the era of economic recession, can no one make money? In an era of economic prosperity, isn't there anyone who is destitute?

The facts tell us that what determines the outcome is often not the thing or the thing itself, but the attitude and direction of looking at it. It is suggested that we reorganize our views on people, things and objects. We can find different answers.