One morning I was almost late for work, and the woman who wasted our time in the elevator made me more and more angry.

On the first floor, the elevator door is about to close. A beautiful woman who just entered the door of the office building saw the elevator going up. She shouted "Please wait a moment" and I pressed the open button next to the floor button.

As a result, this beautiful woman walked this short distance and walked out of the feeling of Paris runway, walking slowly and gracefully. The elevator door had to be closed several times, and I impatiently pressed the open button several times to wait for her.

I looked at Thomas with my eyes rolled in my heart. Everyone is busy punching in. Can't we walk faster?

Fortunately, I didn't miss being late, and I didn't disappear into the Yu Nu. I'm really angry at my incompetence. After all, I pressed the open button again and again, giving her a chance to waste everyone's time.

There are many people around me who unconsciously waste other people's time:

People who haven't contacted for a long time entrust you to do things, and it takes a long time to make a request. Dude, let's get this straight. You just worked hard for a long time, and you may have finished it.

The rambler said one thing, there are many story lines in the open and in the dark. Sister, in order to understand what you want to say, I have exhausted my life's ability to refine subject, predicate, object and abbreviations.

This kind of person doesn't take his own time seriously, but also takes your time seriously. I am such an impatient person. After dealing with them, my internal injuries are very serious every time.

Later, I changed from spitting to introspection. Even if others wasted my time, I gave them the chance.

No, I want to take the initiative to hold someone else's throat and waste my time.

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Others waste your time wantonly because you have a halo of "you decide my time"

When my skeleton is soft and my eyelids droop, I look lazy, which is simply the opening remarks of walking. Then someone will ask me, didn't you sleep well last night? Have you had your period?

When my anger is still brewing and my nostrils are blowing, I look very angry. This is a magnet for gossip. Someone will come up soon. Who has offended you? What's so angry?

Once you have emotions, you will attract attention. Once you open the chatterbox, you can't close it. So you have to figure out whether you want to vent or get busy solving problems.

And if I see others doing something seriously, I don't want to bother them. Similarly, if I concentrate on one thing, I can certainly form a barrier around me to keep idle people away.

Do you feel the same way? When someone reports to the boss, state the current situation and quote data to save him time efficiently. Here, it becomes a gossip, a gossip. Maybe your laxity will give off an air of "you decide my time".

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It's just that others waste your time. You didn't stop, but cooperated fully.

There is a terrible disease called "fear of embarrassing cancer". I can't stand others' help or nagging, but I still smile and nod, and I don't refuse or interrupt.

Hey, you are a steamed stuffed bun, don't blame the dog for following.

In this way, you will send out the message "You enjoyed this chat", encourage him to ask for help, and stimulate his nagging desire to perform.

The insurance salesman talked with you for twenty minutes. After you asked the question, you said you were not interested, and he was in tears. The braggart at the dinner table reminds you of your youth. When you heard the last sentence and forgot the next one, he cried, too.

What did you do to him? How precious your time is, others don't know, and neither do you?

Since you want to play, just pretend to be busy and look at your watch, just like the sense of urgency when socialism is waiting for me to build. No matter how nervous he is, no matter how strong he wants to tell, he will let you live.

If it's unbearable, just say, "I really want to talk to you again, but 10 points Zhong Zhen is in a hurry." This will not only make him mentally prepared, but also save face.

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Even if others are wasting your time, you can still turn on the autonomous time-saving mode.

I know an efficient lady who has to answer a lot of phone calls at work. She found that most people who call her on their own initiative are used to introducing their companies briefly, knowing the opportunities and following a polite process.

Even if it takes only half a minute for each call to start, you can't keep the rhythm.

Later, when exchanging numbers for the first time, she wrote down the other party's company, position, name and the reason for the intersection. Someone called according to the business card number, and she answered it once and added it immediately.

So when she answered the phone, she said, "The manager of a company, what can I do for you to call me?" Save a lot of greeting time. Although a phone call saves an average of 25 seconds, it can't keep up with the volume.

She told me that she would rather go home and listen to her daughter's nagging than waste time on such things.

Another colleague once said that PPT stopped at the meeting on page 3 half an hour after the meeting and decisively started to do its own thing.

I once saw a staff meeting, and we all memorized the general manager's words of courage. My colleague in the front row is looking at the materials of key projects. I seem to see him click a button to calm down the people or things that waste his time.

There are also some smart people who rarely talk to people who are not interested in it for more than three sentences, rarely talk to extremist criminals with three views in parallel, and rarely fight with the Internet.

You don't have to be angry with yourself because you can't promote consensus dialogue. Not only wasted the conversation time itself, but also set up an overtime that I regret afterwards. Why bother?

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Reduce communication costs, start with me, and cultivate the habit of others to cherish your time.

I have a roommate in college, who can't grasp the key points at all, and his speech is unclear and criss-crossed. Speaking of supporting roles, he will extend the background introduction and mention trivial things. He will switch three tenses and drive us crazy.

She is also aware of her own problems. Let's help her correct them. Later, we pulled her back as soon as we saw that she had a preview digression, and a girl even helped her analyze and summarize. Later, she made gratifying progress and spoke concisely and easily.

You see, the good habit of saving yourself and others' time can be cultivated.

The waste of time is mostly mutual. I saw someone on the internet say that I can't stand people asking, "Are you there?" On chat software. He says "yes" when he sees it from time to time, and the other party asks "Are you there now?" ",he returned to" now "every once in a while, and only two round trips spanned several hours.

I look anxious to get angry. Communication costs and emotional costs are too high.

When the other party asks if you are in, directly reply "Yes, but I am busy at work, so you have something to say", so the chances of the other party saving you time will greatly increase. If his "being" and your "being" always pass by, make an appointment to call.

I get bored when I see long sounds when I'm busy. You might as well remind the other party that there are many meetings at work, so it is more convenient to talk, and the voice is not convenient to listen to or speak. When you are in trouble, someone asks you a difficult question. You might as well tell each other politely that you have seen this problem in Zhihu or Baidu. I can't remember clearly now. Look it up for yourself.

Need to train others to achieve low-cost communication. Everything is related to yourself and can't be hung up.

In addition, there is no convincing reason for others to be late, stand up, and not in the state. You should let them know your principles, just like one of my clients unilaterally canceled the cooperation because Party B was late several times.

She said, "Time is money. If someone wastes my time, he must pay me back. Why should I pay him back? "

Don't give others a chance to waste time, it's an indirect waste of your own time.

Come on, finally, let's review Lu Xun's famous saying, "wasting other people's time is equal to murder for money, and wasting your own time is equal to chronic suicide."