For the weak, adversity is an excuse for being ill-timed and unlucky. Adversity is a rare test for the strong. Only after experiencing adversity can we become stronger and be reborn. When you are frustrated in life, recite the four formulas, let yourself get out of the predicament as soon as possible and successfully realize the counterattack!
First, send too much.
Everyone will encounter unpleasant things. If you are frustrated, you will complain about others all day, or even give up on yourself, and you will only get deeper and deeper.
Su Shi's career was bumpy and he was demoted many times in his life, but he always maintained an open-minded and optimistic attitude. Even though he was demoted to Lingnan, he was still able to enjoy himself, leaving a famous sentence of "300 lychees a day, even if he was a Lingnan person".
You know, nine times out of ten, life is unpleasant. You should learn to let go of yourself. Knowing how to find pleasure in setbacks and find the value of life is the great wisdom of life.
Second, we must live a simple life.
Many people can't stand suffering, and they can't help complaining after suffering for a few days. This kind of person is not determined, so he is tempted at this time, and it is easy to get out of control and go astray. However, there is no turning back in life. If you take a wrong step, you will regret it one day.
Those who have achieved great things should still stick to their true intentions in the days of poverty and poverty. In the face of adversity, only by sticking to our own direction can we not forget our enterprising spirit and move forward towards our ideals step by step.
Third, can bear anger.
When you are down and out, there will inevitably be down and out villains around you. At this time, you need to know how to bear it, and don't argue with them. This is the way to preserve our sanity. Because at this point, arguing with such people will eventually lose out.
In adversity, the first thing to do is to accumulate strength. When the strength is insufficient, blindly fight with them, just overreaching. Learn to be patient and crouch. When your strength is strong enough, you will have the confidence to challenge.
Endure a calm moment and take a step back. Many times, our anger is caused by a temporary fever, so it's no big deal to think about it afterwards. Learning to make positive concessions on anything can save us a lot of trouble.
Fourth, indulge in life.
Everyone has worldly desires, but the difference is that some people can endure their own desires and turn them into the driving force of struggle. However, some people are driven by desire and do many things against their will.
Lao Tzu said that people who indulge in lust are shallow. Desire is like a bottomless pit. If you can't control your inner desires and let them grow freely, it will easily erode your mind. Driven by desire, they will gradually lose their senses, take risks at all costs, and eventually bring their own destruction.
In adversity, you should know how to endure, keep a clear head, and don't fall into the struggle for fame and profit with others. When you come out of adversity, you don't have to chase it, everything will come naturally.