Zeng butcher
Ceng Zi is a student of Confucius. Once, Ceng Zi's wife was going to the market. Because the child was crying, Ceng Zi's wife promised to help him kill the pig when he came back. After Ceng Zi's wife came back from the market, Ceng Zi caught a pig and killed it. His wife stopped him and said, "I'm just joking with the children." Ceng Zi said, "The children are not joking. Children are not sensible. They listen to their parents and their teachings in everything. Now you cajole. Is to teach children to lie. " So Ceng Zi killed the pig. Ceng Zi knew that honesty and trustworthiness were the basic principles of life. If you don't kill the pig, the pig at home will be saved, but it will leave an indelible shadow on the mind of a pure child.
Han Xin repaid his kindness.
Han Xin, the founding hero of the Han Dynasty, had a poor family when he was a child and often had no food and clothing. He lives with his brother and sister-in-law and lives on leftovers. Han Xin helps his brother during the day and studies hard at night, but his mean sister-in-law still hates his reading and thinks it is useless. So Han Xin had to sleep on the street, hungry. There is an old woman who is a servant of others. She is very sympathetic to others. I also feed him every day. Facing the sincerity of the old woman, Han Xin was very grateful. He said to the old man, "I must repay you when I grow up." The old woman smiled and said, "When you grow up, I will bury it." Later, Han Xin became a famous soldier and was named King of Chu by Liu Bang. He still remembers the old man who helped him. So he found the old man and took him back to his palace like his mother.
Li Yu Ian recorded a story about losing his life because he broke his promise.
A businessman in Jiyang sank while crossing the river. He grabbed a hemp pole and shouted for help. A fisherman heard the news. The businessman quickly shouted: "I am the richest man in Jiyang. If you can save me, I will give you 100 two gold. " After being rescued ashore, the businessman abandoned his account. He only gave the fisherman 10 two gold. The fisherman accused him of breaking his promise and leaving his post without leave. My husband had to leave disgruntled. Unexpectedly, the rich man capsized in the same place again. Someone tried to save him. The husband he cheated said, "He is the one who broke his word!" " "So the merchant drowned. The businessman capsized twice by accident and met the same husband, but it is expected that the businessman will not be rewarded. Because if a person breaks his word, he will lose the trust of others. So, once he is in trouble, no one wants to save him. Once he breaks his word, he doesn't have to do anything.
Lu Bu's promise saved him from disaster.
At the end of the Qin Dynasty, there was a man named Ji Bu. He kept his word and had a very high reputation. Many people have established a strong friendship with him. At that time, there was even a proverb: "It is better to keep a promise than a promise." (This is the origin of the idiom "a promise is as good as a gold") Later, he offended Liu Bang, the Emperor Gaozu, and was offered a reward for his capture. As a result, his old friends were not only not confused by the heavy money, but also risked extinction. Save him from the disaster. If a person is honest and trustworthy, he will naturally get a lot of help and gain everyone's respect and friendship. On the other hand, if he covets temporary comfort or petty advantages and loses trust in his friends, he will get a "benefit" on the surface. But for this benefit, he has ruined his reputation, which is much more important than material things. Therefore, breaking a promise to a friend is tantamount to losing a watermelon and picking up sesame seeds.
Life cannot blossom brilliantly from lies-Heine
Man can't stand without faith-Confucius
Honest, heaven also; If you think sincerely, you will learn from others-Mencius
Losing honesty is equivalent to the enemy destroying himself-Shakespeare
Honesty and diligence should be your eternal companions-Franklin
B. A Complete Collection of Couplets with Family Instructions, Family Style and Honesty
Dishonest and ashamed of guests;
Businessmen are called distrustful.
Five winds and ten rains really nourish me;
Colored letters are fragrant. inside
Follow the rules and be sincere for many days;
Sometimes, abandon the old and trust the new.
A history of loyalty;
Give up one's life for righteousness, and faith will last forever.
Call for sincerity for many days;
A promise is a promise, and sometimes a promise.
Be loyal and take righteousness as your life;
Qin films keep their word, and the effect is as good as a promise.
C. Famous sayings and epigrams of family style and family precepts
Good can't come from outside, and the name can't be empty.
—— Qu Yuan
Honesty, growth, responsibility and honesty
A gentleman is harmonious but different, and a villain is not harmonious.
-Confucius
Confucius, Analects of Confucius, Virtue and Etiquette
People can't stand on the world without loyalty.
-Cheng Yi
Honesty, trust, determination, honesty and trustworthiness
A person can be diligent and respectful, although fools also have the taste of wisdom.
-Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan
Honesty is the most touching.
-Shakespeare
Honesty, Shakespeare, honesty and moral cultivation
An elder should be a mentor and negotiator, not a commander.
-Lu Xun
Lu Xun, struggle, life, gratitude to parents
Father loves son, doctrine.
-Sima Guang
history
If you don't have a strong will, you won't be wise. If you don't believe, you won't succeed.
Mo Zhai
Honesty, determination, responsibility and learning
A man's treachery is not worthy of fame.
-Liu Xiang
Honesty, honesty and trustworthiness, honesty and trustworthiness
Be quiet first, think again, and do it if you are half or sixty percent sure.
-Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan
Don't do it with little evil, and don't do it with little good.
-Chen Shou
Inspirational civilization honesty etiquette
Anyone who doesn't love himself really lacks the qualification to be a father.
-Lu Xun
People's temperament is hard to change because they are born with it, but reading can change their temperament.
-Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan Li Zhisheng
Juelu can respect the body, but not the heart. Articles can write about his body, but not his deeds.
-Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan's philosophy of life
Scholars have three indisputable things: don't compete with gentlemen for fame, don't compete with villains for profit, and don't fight with heaven and earth skillfully.
-Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan's philosophy of life
Profits can be * * but not monopoly, and plans can be less but not more. Profit will fail, and more efforts will be exhausted.
-Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan's Inspiration, Philosophy of Life and Philosophy
You should know that learning is difficult, and what you care about is diligence.
-Chen Yi
Growth, genius, struggle, diligence
Those who are good at looking at others look at themselves, and those who are good at looking at themselves look at their own hearts.
-Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan's philosophy of life
When the motherland is in trouble, you should be a striker.
-Chen Yi
Love the motherland, responsibility and inspirational China.
True, sincere and sincere, impure and sincere, not moving.
-Zhuangzi
Honesty, honesty and trustworthiness, trust and determination
If a person wants to stand on his own feet, he must be stubborn.
-Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan
Zhu Dexiao comes first.
Wang Yongbin
Parents' inspiration
As long as the mind is not blocked, everyone likes their children to be stronger, healthier, smarter and nobler than themselves.
-Lu Xun
history
Internal and external correspondence, words and deeds are consistent.
-Han Fei
Honesty, determination, honesty, honesty and trustworthiness
Vegetarian food is not turbid; Stay alone, not turbid; Sitting still is not turbid; Reading is not turbid.
-Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan's philosophy of life
Good people have virtue, which brings good luck to the sky, while evil people plant a curse, which will cause disaster in the future.
-Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan's philosophy of life
Children need to be taught, but problems need to be cured.
-Lu Xun
Don't drink when you are upset, and don't write when you are angry.
-Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan's philosophy of life
Those who enjoy it are bound to have sudden disasters, while poor people are uneasy about their poverty and have unexpected worries.
-Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan's philosophy of life
Epigastric pain is not the cause of disease; If you think wrong, you will be killed.
-Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan's philosophy of life
Just say that you are superficial.
-Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan's philosophy of life
A person with great wisdom and hard work is crazy, but a person with little strength and heavy responsibility.
-Zeng Guofan
Zeng Guofan's philosophy of life
Fame, wealth, these are all called desires, and they can be killed.
D. Ask the Great God to write a family style and family training story with honesty, trustworthiness, dedication, hard work and courage to contribute as the main content, no less than 500 words, no
1, I saw a group of people playing games on the grass. What kind of magic game? It's really strange to be surrounded by so many people. Answer: I was very busy at that time, so I couldn't help going forward. It turns out that they are playing an adventure game with fire in their mouths. I only saw one ..... If someone saw it, they would imitate the performance. But I didn't master it well and accidentally burned my mouth. In desperation, I spit the fire on the grass. It was autumn, and the grass on the grass was a little dry, and it burned up at once.
2, everyone quickly dodged, and someone ran away in an instant. Some people were stunned and stood there motionless. (Describe all kinds of people and chaos here)
Seeing this scene, I really want to run away like everyone else, but I can't bear to leave when the wind blows down and innocent people are burned to death. What shall we do? My brain is spinning rapidly, searching for my limited knowledge of fire fighting. Suddenly, I thought of a story. The story about grassland fire fighting should be reversed. So, I calm down first and observe the wind direction carefully. I saw a child's skirt floating in the southeast. This means that the wind is northwest at the moment. I call on everyone to pull out the hay at the downwind 2 meters/kloc-0 meters to form an empty grass belt. Then I quickly took out a handful of hay and lit it on the flame. Then I ran to the bottom of the flame and lit the new grass. What happened? Have you thought of it? The new flame and the old flame soon met, but the grass burned out and the fire itself gradually weakened.
4. Write down your feelings.
E. Famous sayings of honesty and family style
1, honesty (law-abiding), integrity (seemingly), kindness, doing more good things will eventually lead to good things.
2. Children and grandchildren in the clan, etc. Do something wrong, have a dry teacher, don't wait to be an official, first rectify in the temple.
3, a porridge and a meal, it is not easy to think about it; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources.
4. Pay attention to moral cultivation, strict sentiment and character; Help justice and reject evil.
5. If you want to be tall, you should be good, and your children and grandchildren should study.
6. Those who have the virtue of immortality must be guaranteed by the descendants of immortality; Those who have the virtue of ten generations will be guaranteed by their descendants; Without the latter, thinness is a virtue.
7, a porridge and a meal, when thinking hard; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources.
8, a person can be diligent and respectful, although fools also have the taste of wisdom.
9. One ring is (late); Second, quit being lazy; Three commandments of luxury; Under the temptation is pride. Observe under temptation and observe four rules: First, study hard; Second, it is right to respect teachers; Three righteousness and love for the masses; Fourth, we should eat carefully.
10, students should have three diligence: hand diligence, brain diligence and reading diligence.
1 1, don't be suspicious, don't listen to the words of alienation, don't do things that identify with each other, and don't specialize in public interests.
12, marching and fighting, soldiers are most afraid of arrogance, and arrogant soldiers will fail; Children are also most afraid of being spoiled. If they are spoiled, there must be something wrong.
13, honor the elderly and strictly educate children and grandchildren; Respect the old and love the young, and be kind to Mu.
14, filial piety should be done, loyalty and courage show Dan Cheng; Brothers help each other and have boundless compassion.
15, don't be small evil, don't be small good.
16, I see that there is love in the world that does not teach. Eat and drink if you can't do it, do whatever you want, and don't win prizes. You have to laugh and be knowledgeable. This is called law.
17, my family has been eating Song Lu for more than 300 years. Don't forget that future generations are not officials.
18, flawless jade, can be a national instrument; The son of filial piety can be Guoxin.
19, I only insist on reading today, don't give up your youth lightly.
20. Wei Zuzhuo knew how to move, and his lineage moved to Tibet. Provinces were born in other States; If you want to repay kindness, you will be confused.
2 1, advocating frugality, saving glory and wasting shame.
22. There is a road to diligence in Shushan, and there is no limit to learning the sea.
23. Teenagers don't know how to study hard, but old people regret studying late.
Supporting parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, which has been passed down from generation to generation since I started.
25. Sun's posthumous son, my descendants are innocent.
26. Without virtuous fathers and brothers in life and strict teachers and friends outside, success is rare.
27. Everyone is rich because of Luf, and I am poor because of officials. The children left behind are innocent ears.
28, sage, far villain; Pay attention to etiquette and integrity.
29. Being stingy, married, arrogant and extravagant is a shame.
Don't take ill-gotten gains, but take reasonable ones.
3 1, every family has a difficult experience, and only happiness makes sense.
It's never too late to learn to lie in a coffin.
33, gold is not a treasure, everything is empty.
34. In the Han Dynasty, Yuan's World Loyalty Festival, my heart is still good, so you should take it as a teacher and exhort yourself from time to time.
35. Those who accumulate widely will leave their descendants in trouble; Too much debauchery, one axe lost his life.
36. Luxury women are defeated; The arrogant child was defeated; The brother who disagreed was defeated; Insulting teachers and slowing down guests are all failures.
37. Filial piety first, then respect; Devote oneself to hard work in order to do good deeds.
38. If you are not indifferent, you will have no ambition, and if you are not quiet, you will be far away.
Thirty-nine, Fang descendants named, class according to the word in the middle, the word in the back, not disorder.
40. Anyone who doesn't love himself really lacks the qualification to be a parent.
F idioms describing family style and family precepts, such as respecting the old and loving the young, being honest and trustworthy, and living in harmony.
Happy, home and everything, crows feed back, Kong Rong lets pears. ...
G. Help me write an honest, harmonious and not jealous family motto.
Only by cultivating one's morality can we rule the country and level the world. Family planning is an indispensable part of it, and family discipline is a life standard that family members need to abide by. Starting from the family, it is a good way to improve citizens' moral quality to establish family rules, family training and family style that conform to the fine tradition of the Chinese nation and reflect the spirit of the times.
My parents often teach me to be harmonious and friendly with others. When I was a child, I was most looking forward to holidays, because I could visit relatives at my father's work. One summer vacation, my brother and I went to see my father. My father took us to the nearby Gua Tian to pick melons and found a big watermelon weighing nearly 40 Jin. We are very excited! After being transported to the dormitory by car, many children heard about this "melon king" and ran to see it, singing and dancing around it. A little friend accidentally tripped over a big watermelon while running and jumping. As a result, the watermelon couldn't stand the impact and immediately cracked a big hole. My little brother burst into tears with a "wow". "My melon king …", I am usually very docile. As a result, the boy cried, too. I panicked and never had a conflict with my friends. Everyone was in a mess and slowly dispersed. Later, my father came back to understand the situation and severely criticized our unkindness, which made us deeply aware of our recklessness. My father asked us to find a way to make up for this mistake. In the hot summer, the smell of cracked melon reminds us of a good idea. My brother and I gathered more friends, held a "Gua Wang Banquet" and apologized to the pushed children in public. We made up again and ate sweet watermelon. Harmony and friendliness are the way to treat others, which is a trivial matter and a principle. Now, my brother and I are married and become the parents of our children. Looking back on the road we have traveled, we deeply feel that it is the inculcation of our parents that has brought us step by step on the road of life and reached today firmly and impartially. Although I didn't make brilliant achievements, I was worthy of my parents, my family and myself.
On the issue of treating children's education, I also inherited the consistent family style, and at the same time combined with the progress and requirements of the times to educate children. In the process of children's growth, I have always warned him: you can have your own opinions and personality, but you can't impose them on others; When interacting with people, we should be friendly, polite, polite, greet familiar people, encourage them to make more friends and interact with people of different ages. When I get along with others, I often tell him some stories about being honest with others at all times and in all countries, so that he can understand that only by treating others with tolerance and friendliness and interacting with others with the principle of honesty can he be treated sincerely by others.
Education is really a simple and complicated process, but under the guidance of family style, it is effective to adhere to principles. In today's material wealth, it is very important to cultivate children's frugal habits. "Diligence and self-cultivation, diligence and self-cultivation" is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Turn off the lights, tighten the tap, do not waste food, practice economy and oppose waste. These are all positive energy! One weekend, we arranged toys with our children. Some of them are broken, old and haven't been played for a long time. Looking at these piled toys, the children said, "Mom and Dad, what should we do with these toys?" What a pity to throw it away! "Said the little guy, eyes revealed a reluctant expression. In fact, I am very happy. The usual education of diligence and thrift produced results, so the three of us prepared tools, repaired broken toys, and reassembled several useless ones. The children help find parts and sort them. They are very busy! More than half of the time has passed, and we have harvested many "new" toys, and the children's hands-on ability has been exercised! Diligence is not stingy, but wealth created by hardworking hands and good habits!
H. What do you have to say about "family style and family precepts"?
The words about "family style and family precepts" are: honest and trustworthy, correct mistakes, and help others.