Essay title: Gains and losses of the "Wall of Honor"

Keywords: Gains and losses of honor for sixth grade primary school

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This diary is about the sixth grade of primary school. The title is: "The Gains and Losses of the "Wall of Honor"". Everyone is welcome to contribute.

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Gains and losses of the "Wall of Honor"

Since my son went to school, I have learned about all the things he has gained. All kinds of honors and certificates are posted on a wall, which we call the "honor wall". This is the pride and pride that my son and I share. Whenever friends and relatives come to visit, and my son’s friends see a wall full of honorary certificates, they will express their admiration and envy. My son seems to be very happy. Get used to and enjoy other people's compliments. But today I made a decision to take off all his certificates. Of course, there are reasons for making such a decision. I think I should have an in-depth communication with him about my motivation for doing this in order to achieve a common understanding.

One weekend half a month ago, my son was going to play at a friend's house, and I have been working overtime on weekends recently. So my friend’s mother wanted to pick him up from the guard at our unit. In about twenty minutes, I finished my work and went to the doorman to find him. My son was chatting happily with the aunt. As soon as the guard saw me, he praised my son and said, "Your son is really outstanding! He studies well, is a class leader, and has won so many awards..." I was embarrassed at the time, so there was no need to ask. My son had been chatting with this aunt for a long time. I had an uncomfortable feeling at that time. Seeing my son's complacent look, the word "showing off" came to my mind. It is a good thing for children to be optimistic and confident, but showing off excessively is showing off and being conceited. I hurriedly said: "It has only been 20 minutes, and Auntie already knows you completely! You just talked about your glorious history." The guard said: "I asked him, and he said that the child is so generous. How wonderful!" My son also echoed: "What I said is true!" This happened half a month ago, and school hadn't started yet, so he didn't pay much attention because of his busy work. . But after a week of school, my son still showed complacency from time to time. He said that the content he studied was not difficult, etc. However, when I checked his math paper, I found that most of the mistakes were wrong. He was careless, did not understand the meaning of the questions, was not serious about homework, and was not energetic. If you don’t concentrate, you can’t sit still for five minutes before you have to get up and walk around. Originally, I thought he was doing a good job of keeping his heart in check! I suddenly realized the seriousness of the problem.

Looking at the "Wall of Honor", I fell into deep thought, and finally decided to take off all the certificates. I said to him: "Achievements only represent the past. If a person has been addicted to and satisfied with the glory of the past, In the middle, we will stop moving forward. The teachers all say that the third grade is a watershed. We should re-make plans and start from scratch. Son, do you have the confidence to start over from scratch and through our efforts, we can cover this wall again? "hehe! My son and I often shouted slogans and applauded each other. He was a little disappointed after hearing my words, but did not express any objection. I continued: "You see, each of these certificates is full of your sweat and efforts, but they only represent the past. Mom will treasure these honors. Our eyes can't just stay in the past, we must look forward and go to school." Mom is very pleased that you have successfully completed your studies and life in second grade in the past two years. Now that you are in third grade, it is a new beginning. Mom hopes that you will continue to maintain good study habits. Let's work hard together, okay?" The son's eyes gradually brightened and he said, "I thought my mother was going to get rid of these certificates. Please be sure to keep them! Didn't we agree to leave them to my children when I grow up?" I said sincerely: "Mom, I hope you will look at this wall every day. Whenever you see this empty wall, think about what you should do!" My son took a deep breath and said, "Don't worry. ! Mom, I am confident." In the following time, my son was surprisingly quiet, revising the papers carefully, completing Chinese and English dictation in an orderly manner, and his handwriting was very neat. It has been a long time since he was so focused.

After he finished his homework, I asked my son what he thought about this matter. My son said: "I understand what my mother meant. Just like the story you told me about Fang Zhongyong, he was originally a very smart person and could read by nature. and composing poems, but his father didn't let him study all day long and took him everywhere to perform for others. When he grew up, he became a very ordinary person. If he kept studying and studying, he would definitely achieve a lot. I don’t want to be like him! We have read many books and stories together. Pride and complacency are the biggest stumbling blocks in life. I know many truths, but I can’t control myself. "It doesn’t matter. , son, your mother will be a light by your side, always reminding and lighting up the ravines and bumps on your way forward, just like you are willing to be your mother's crutch, your mother will always be your strongest support, mother Your embrace will always be your warmest spiritual harbor.

People will encounter all kinds of things with pros and cons, and contradictions in their lives, and this is even more obvious in the education of children. Parents must always weigh the pros and cons, gains and losses, and determine the scale. Just like this wall of honor, it used to be the driving force to inspire the son to move forward. When it evolved into capital, it blocked the son's vision and steps to move forward. Not to mention that family education is a very deep subject. Although there are many good and successful experiences that can be learned and used for reference, it is very difficult to handle everything perfectly and appropriately. The only way is to continue to learn, explore and accumulate. , Only when problems are discovered and solved in a timely manner can our children truly not lose in family education. At the end of today's sharing, I suddenly remembered a famous saying in "Li Sao": The road is long and long, and I will search up and down." This sentence is dedicated to my son and me, and to everyone who sees this.