Su Dongpo's 16-character famous saying is the first sentence in "Remember to meet each other in above the fold when Hua Lian is dead". Good dream, gaotang road is broken. "Like Jiang's Ten Years of Life and Death, this poem was written by Su Shi to express his feelings for his dead wife Wang Fu. Since I met you, I have often seen you in my dreams. Although I often wake up from my dreams, I always miss you. Because this word is often used to express men's love and yearning for women, it is a famous saying to express courtship.

"Remember the first meeting on the screen" means that men and women meet in beautiful scenes. Since it is the first time for lovers to meet, romantic occasions are indispensable. The original meaning of painting screen is a screen full of pictures, and the pictures on the screen are exquisite. The hero and heroine met at such a beautiful time, and the man fell in love with this woman at first sight.

A beautiful and virtuous woman is a good spouse of a gentleman. Men just want to see their sweetheart again, thinking day after day and dreaming at night. He met his sweetheart in his dream, but he remembered that he didn't know if his sweetheart was interested in him, so he scratched his head. "Have a good dream." Besides, he doesn't know whether his sweetheart will toss and turn for others, but marriage depends entirely on the words of his parents' matchmaker. How can he marry his sweetheart? He had to think hard.

However, no matter how anxious and scared, men still miss their sweetheart all the time and "look at Gaotang Road". The allusion of Gaotang comes from a couple who met in Gaotang and left after one night, meaning lovesickness and sadness. The expression "Looking at Gaotang Road" is a man's endless yearning for his sweetheart.