? Text/Vision Wei

Everyone has vanity and often shows off what he lacks. Showoff is a derogatory term. Only hard-won things will be advertised. Its purpose is to seek the appreciation of others, but the reality often backfires. Many things may be hard-won for you, but they have long been commonplace for others.

This is like a person who has never eaten white-flour steamed bread. One day, he finally stopped eating bran steamed bread, hoping that everyone in the world would know that he had white flour to eat. As we all know, others have long believed that this is a common thing.

? There is a colleague in the office who likes to show off. At the age of 32, she is always willing to talk like a little girl. Because everyone is a colleague, no one shows boredom to his face.

When everyone appreciated her performance and tried to cooperate with her, she not only didn't know enough was enough, but became more and more ostentatious.

Last week, Sister Liu was almost late and hurried to the office in a pair of flat shoes. No one thinks so, but she is sharp-eyed. She asked, "Sister Liu, why aren't you wearing high heels today? Flat shoes not only make your legs shorter, but also make the whole person look lifeless. "

Sister Liu smiled and said, "Thank you for your concern. I got up late today and there was a traffic jam on the road. The old platoon can't drive in high heels for fear of insecurity. I have to wear this. I didn't have time to change my shoes when I came up. I went down to change my shoes after the meeting. "

After listening to Liu Jie, she didn't say anything. No one knows that Liu Jie's careless words aroused her jealousy. She has been married to her husband for several years, and her children have been sent to kindergarten this year. Everyone knows that she and her husband have been itching for seven years, but no one has said anything.

? Three or four days later, she walked into the office with a shoe box. As soon as she entered the door, she said as if she was afraid that others would not know: "Alas, I am embarrassed to go out to get express delivery during office hours. My husband was afraid that it was unsafe for me to drive in high heels, so he specially bought me a pair of soft-soled flat shoes and sent them directly to the office. Although it took hundreds, I just drove to work for a while and felt a bit extravagant. "

When she said this, others must not pretend not to see or hear, so they gathered around to look at the shoes and praised them while watching. With such boasting, her face was full of happiness and vanity was satisfied.

After work, as soon as she left, a young girl sitting next to her said, "I happened to see her shopping in the mall the day before yesterday at work, which seems to be these shoes." At that time, I wondered how she was willing to spend a lot of money to buy a pair of shoes that she didn't wear often. It took a long time to show love. This is a service. "

Hearing what my little sister said, everyone laughed and no one answered, and then they packed up their work and went home from work.

When people reach middle age, they must understand that people who really live a high-end life will not show off everywhere. Women who like to show off these things often lead a vain life.

? Show off one's financial resources

People who show off their wealth may be really rich at the moment, but they must have been poor. Just like a post I once read. Women show off how good their husbands are to themselves, and to what extent. It turned out that after washing clothes during her physiological period, her husband took the initiative to help her hang clothes and said that if you have a backache, I will hang up.

She was very proud of this thoughtful remark, and even claimed that a woman would be luckier to meet such a husband in her life.

A friend replied, "Sister, I really feel sorry for you after reading your post. What kind of hard life did you have before to be grateful for such a thing?

To tell you the truth, my husband and I have been married for more than 20 years, and we have never done housework during the physiological period, and every time he makes me brown sugar and Jiang Shui. This is just a man's most common concern for his wife. "

Of course, there are many other replies below the post, but this contrast is the most obvious. This is that everyone's situation and experience are different, so the definitions of good and bad, happiness and pain are different.

Those who love to show off their wealth must be poor. Showing off is proof on the one hand and inferiority on the other.

? Show off one's success in business

In addition to showing off wealth, there are people who show off wealth as agents. This is just like a sentence by Longjing in Leisure: "I think there is a kind of person who has enough leisure. He must bring his face when he goes out. There are all kinds of people's numbers in his mobile phone. You can't talk very carefully, the price is falling. Nobody likes it. He has two broken coins in his pocket. This shop is owned by his brother and that shop is owned by his sister. This song was sung by one of his buddies. Their family are all from Mars. Have dinner with us from time to time, saying that he would go to a small place, but he wouldn't do it if he wanted to. It was really AA, and finally someone else helped him pay the bill. I said I'll give it to others next time and then I won't have time. "

It has to be said that once vanity makes a person excessively addicted to it, it is absolutely impossible for anyone to attract bees and butterflies except annoying people.

A truly capable person knows how to be silent. They are not good at talking, but they know when to say and when not to say it. In this world, there are always people outside the mountain. A person who shows off his successful career either looks down on people around him or doesn't recognize his true strength.

? Show off the love between husband and wife

Show love this matter, many times is really out of control. However, this is only limited to the state of young people's love. If a middle-aged couple still shows love frequently, they are either creating a purposeful person or they are really naive and insecure.

Showing love is a declaration from a psychological point of view. When will people make a statement? Obviously, it is when they feel their position is threatened.

Middle-aged women who show love everywhere often live less happily than she says. It's just that she doesn't want others to see her loneliness and helplessness, hoping to find an excuse to continue pretending from the envious eyes of others.

You know, there are often not many women who love to show off, but vanity is at work. After all, a good marriage does not need to show off, it will shine with happiness from the inside out.

Today's topic: Is there anyone around you who likes to show off? I look forward to your comments.

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The above is related to women who have vanity and love to show off, and it is about the sharing of marriage. Read the satirical quotations of people who love to show off, I hope this will help everyone!