—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
Marriage is a besieged city. People outside the city want to go in, and people in the city want to come out.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
Marriage is like a golden birdcage. The birds outside the cage want to live in, and the birds inside the cage want to fly out, so they go away. There is no game.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
4, people know that they have secrets, and they don't let people know what they are. When they ask, let them guess, this is the vanity of human nature.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
5. Traveling is the most tiring and troublesome, and it is also the time when people will appear. Only those who have gone through a long and arduous journey without hating each other can become friends.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
6. Words are empty and people are alive; People don't do what they say, and words change with people.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
7. The thorn of life is here. What you don't want to leave is what you don't want to stay.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
8. The meaning of a sentence, in the listener's mind, is often like a strange cat coming into the room, silent, and after a while, you will find its existence.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
9. In fact, a person's shortcomings are just like a monkey's tail. When a monkey crouches on the ground, its tail is invisible. Until he climbed the tree and put his back there for the public to see, but the long tail with red ass was already there, which was not a new sign of climbing.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
10, desperately remembering, is like putting a sieve filled with water. When you are in a hurry, you can't concentrate, and the clues of your thoughts will be bound and loosened. There is still a shadow of the fact, but it is like waiting for someone in a busy place. It looked like him in the crowd, went up to look for it and disappeared again.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
1 1. It is very rare to really miss someone, miss him and hope to be close to him. Personnel are too busy, maybe we are absorbed and miss someone constantly. I'm afraid we miss our closest relatives all our lives, which adds up to less than a little. Besides, we just looked at him and thought about it.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
There are only two kinds of people in the world. For example, if you get a bunch of grapes, one person chooses the best to eat first, and the other person saves the best for last.
The first person should be optimistic as usual, because every grape he eats is the best grape left over; The second person should be pessimistic, because every grape he eats is the worst grape left.
But the opposite is true, because the second kind of people still have hope, and the first kind of people only have memories.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
13, determination is like a fish out of water, flapping its head and tail on the ground, but it can't struggle.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
14, bent on getting it, got it and didn't cherish it. I am bent on giving up, and it would be a pity to give up.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
15, when the water dries up, everyone crosses the river by stepping on stones instead of taking a wooden bridge, which means that as long as there is no danger, everyone is willing to act outside the rules.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
16, you should find your own opportunities and happiness.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
17, the dog lost the meat bone in his mouth in pursuit of the shadow of the meat bone in the water! I married my lover as I wished. I'm afraid I'll feel sorry for the shadow I'll never see again at that time.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
18, people who have never done anything always have such unfounded beliefs; For grapes that can't be picked, we will not only imagine that it is sour, but also imagine that it is exceptionally sweet.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
19, life is said to be a big book. If life is really like this, then more than half of our authors can only be regarded as book reviewers, and they have the ability of book reviewers. Without looking at a few pages, they have already made a lot of comments and handed in a book review.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu
20. Leaving a place is equivalent to dying once. I know I will die, and I always hope others will show their willingness to live. Fame after death is as concerned as sorrow, joy, honor and disgrace after death, and I can't know. I am deeply afraid of going or dying, just like a foreign candle goes out, leaving only an unpleasant smell.
—Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu