-Shu Ting's "To the Oak"
A song "To the Oak Tree" explains love at its best. Love a person, not admiration, not petty, but grow up with him and become a better self together. Two people who love each other must be evenly matched, so that they can go on better.
Jin Yanxi and Leng Qingqiu in "Golden Powder Family", one is a romantic and handsome rich boy, and the other is a pure and talented civilian girl. The two lovers broke through the family concept and finally came together. You thought it was the love between the prince and Cinderella, but the song ended.
After marriage, Leng Qingqiu is no longer Bai Yueguang in Jin Yanxi's mind, and Jin Yanxi is no longer a charming young man in Leng Qingqiu's eyes.
Qing Qiu likes quiet and reading, while Yan Xi likes lively and partying with friends every night, so their marriage is doomed to be difficult to maintain.
I hope they can meet again when I watch the play. The second time, when he grew up, he found that there was water under the bridge between them, and the best ending was the opposite.
There has been a question circulating on the Internet: Do you want to marry someone who loves you or someone you love?
There are different opinions on this question, but if you think about it carefully, this question is tantamount to asking yourself whether you want to take the exam in Tsinghua or Peking University as a child. Many people's marriages were unfortunate later, or they were defeated by daily necessities, or the other party was not loyal enough, or they were wrong from the beginning.
When I was a child, we always loved to watch the story of the prince and Cinderella, dreaming that one day we could become Cinderella and be loved by the prince. When I grew up, I discovered that there were so many fairy tales.
Perhaps our imagination of love is too beautiful since childhood, so when love comes, we will be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, for fear of missing the right person. We always ask them if they love themselves.
So, when you lose it, you will feel that the whole sky is getting dark. After being hurt, I realized that true good love is never a compromise. What I fear most in a love is losing myself.
There is a saying in "Jane Eyre": Love is a game, and we should always be evenly matched, so that we can depend on each other for a long time.
In the love of the Republic of China, there are many touching loves: Lu Xun and Xu Guangping, Shen Congwen and Liang Sicheng and Lin ... and the love between Mr. Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang is even more touching.
The young couple fell in love at first sight, and later they were both impressed by each other's talents. When Tsinghua first met, Qian Zhongshu said, "I'm not engaged." "I don't have a boyfriend either," Jiang Yang replied.
Mr. Qian Zhongshu's Fortress Besieged gives people infinite feelings and profound thoughts, while Mr. Jiang Yang's The Three of us wrote half a life of sadness.
There is a classic saying in Fortress Besieged: Marriage is a besieged city, people inside want to go out and people outside want to come in. But after meeting Mr. Jiang Yang, he never wanted to escape from the besieged city of marriage.
Mr. Qian Zhongshu is a famous writer; As a talented woman, Mr. Jiang Yang's talent and knowledge are not inferior to those of Qian Zhongshu, who is proficient in the knowledge of the East and the West.
You have your elegance and knowledge, and I have my talent and humor. This is a kind of intimate love. This epic love is widely celebrated. There was a saying in the literary world at that time: The best love in the world is that my name is Jiang Yang and your name is Qian Zhongshu.
Tang Jing said that when two people are together, the fast-moving one will always get rid of the stagnant one. Because human instinct is more about exploring the extension and connotation of life.
Among the trilogy Chang 'an in August, I like Yu He in Hello, Old Times best. I am a master of arts. The hardships of her childhood did not overwhelm her. Although she grew up with her mother, she was confident and calm, illuminating the people around her. Growing up in a happy family, I grew up with Yu and liked her since I was a child. Whenever, he stays with Yu and becomes her little sun.
The love between the two seniors is enviable, without the sadness and confusion of adolescence. They grow together, attract each other and are independent.
When you become a better person, you can embrace the person you like bravely and frankly.