1. Famous aphorisms about talking about others behind their backs
1. A villain has no friends. ------Ouyang Xiu
2. Villains have many complaints. ------Wang Tong
3. The villain is willing to be beautiful. ------Zhuangzi
4. When it is hot, it is attached; when it is cold, it is abandoned. ------Liu Zongyuan
5. A gentleman on the outside but a villain on the inside. ------Luo Guanzhong
6. Don't talk to villains. ------Xue Xuan
7. Clever words and charming words, fresh and benevolent. ------Confucius
8. Small talents are keen on small things. -------Horace
9. There is no small difference in the heart of a villain. ------Chesterfield
10. Please punish Chao Chao for his mistakes so as to clear the emperor's side. ------Liu Bi
11. If you love fame and profit, you are a villain. ------Wang Tong
12. When you are hungry, you will be attached to others, but when you are full, you will be exalted. ------Fang Xuanling
13. A gentleman is superior and a villain is inferior. ------Confucius
14. Founding a country and inheriting a family should not be used by villains. ------"Book of Changes"
15. A gentleman speaks with his actions, while a villain speaks with his tongue. ------Wang Su 2. What are some famous aphorisms for talking about others behind their backs
21 famous aphorisms for dealing with interpersonal relationships:
1: Don’t believe those who always report to someone. People who are scolding you
Two: Don’t believe in people who praise and praise you endlessly as soon as they see you
Three: Don’t hate those who have openly argued with you or criticized you
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Four: Never arrange for some people to collect what others say about you behind your back
Five: Never use your rights in public to gather some people to talk about what others say about you. That is tantamount to Destroy yourself
Six: Do not answer any attacks on your life, only discuss meaningful things
Seven: Do not defend yourself (under normal circumstances), but you can Clarify some views, some choices, some rights and wrongs
Eight: It doesn’t matter if you are confused or take the blame for a moment, you are still you and he is still him. A person who cannot bear the blame can only be a weak person
Nine: Don’t reject people casually, don’t agree to people casually, don’t interest people, and don’t show off your strength
Ten : Not eager to express yourself, nor eager to correct others, just watching, listening, and pondering
Eleven: Don’t talk about other people’s merits behind their backs
Twelve: Remember , interpersonal relationships are always two-way, how you treat others, how they treat you
Thirteen: Never accept incitement or provocation
Fourteen: When getting along with others, Never consider what you can get out of it
Fifteen: Never think that anyone who comes into contact with you is stupider, more stupid, and easier to fool than you
Sixteen : When you are surprised by someone or something, first think about the benefits. He may be helping you, at least objectively he will not harm you, and never immediately assume that others are hostile
17: Always Don't get entangled with anyone, your performance is the best answer and comfort to people
Eighteen: Look for points of union and harmony instead of just focusing on contradictions and differences, always be safe, calm and calm , treat differences as normal, regard different opinions as reality, criticize friends instead of acting like needles
19: Never talk and think about problems from the perspective of personal interests, never "I, me, me" "Argue with others, rationalize the argument, don't make it personal
Twenty: Treat the handling of interpersonal relationships as a special course, from which we can grasp our national conditions, history, society, structure, philosophy, tradition and fashion Thoughts
21: Use enough energy to study, work, travel, etc.
When used in interpersonal relationships, you should respond more to friction, and when used to deal with attacks, you can use three points of force for 30 seconds at most, and then do things. Spending more time is an absolute waste of energy, time, and life. 3. The motto of speaking ill of people behind their backs
Insist on saying good things about others behind their backs, and don’t worry that the good things won’t reach the ears of the person involved.
When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.
When you persuade others, if you do not take into account the self-esteem of others, then no matter how good your words are, they will be of no use.
It only takes one sentence to destroy a person, but it takes a thousand words to cultivate a person. Please be more lenient with your words.
You don’t have to look back to see who is cursing you? If a mad dog bites you, do you have to lie down and bite him back?
Sit quietly and think about your own faults, and don’t talk about the faults of others.
Observe your own faults quietly, and don’t judge others’ faults.
The heart of a villain should be guarded against accidents.
Use the heart of a villain to read the belly of a gentleman.
Don’t talk behind anyone’s back, and don’t talk behind anyone’s back.
The words of an honest man are as reliable as his collateral. ----- Cervantes Frankness is so refreshing and the most popular thing. ----- Balzac
Go your own way and let others say it!
A gentleman is known as righteousness, and a villain is known as benefit. —— Confucius 4. What verse can be used to summarize the idea of ??always discussing other people’s rights and wrongs behind their backs
“Sit quietly and think about your own faults, and don’t talk about other people’s faults in small talk.”
From "Lianbi of Proverbs" ·Collection of Things", author: Jin Ying, dynasty: Qing Dynasty.
It means: When you calm down, you should always reflect on your own mistakes, and then use right to overcome wrong and do good to eliminate evil. When chatting, don't talk about other people's rights and wrongs, leave some room for action, and keep some moral integrity when speaking.
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Famous quotes related to the proverb Lian Bi:
It is better to hear about others’ mistakes than to hear about one’s own mistakes.
How much more willing to do good to oneself than to do good to others.
[Translation]: It is better to like to hear about the faults of others than your own. I prefer to talk about my own merits rather than the good deeds of others.
The matter is ambiguous, so if you want to protect him, don't even think about criticizing him.
When a person is of humble origin, you must treat him with courtesy and do not show any signs of arrogance.
[Translation]: It belongs to other people's privacy. If you want to protect it, you can't even think about saying bad things. For poor and humble people, if you want to treat them politely, you must not have a trace of arrogance and contempt. 5. Don’t talk about others behind their backs or tell them what’s right or wrong
1. Legs that are wet with dew, mouth that is long to stir up trouble - Proverbs
2. Matters depend on right and wrong, and public affairs do not matter far or near - Tang Dynasty Poet Zhang Jiuling
3. When fame and fortune are exhausted, right and wrong are eliminated, and the world of mortals does not come to the doorstep - Ma Zhiyuan, a poet of the Yuan Dynasty
4. It is never acceptable to listen to criticism, right and wrong will always be self-evident - Feng Menglong
5. That is also right and wrong, and this is also right and wrong - Zhuangzi
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1. Right and wrong is a Chinese vocabulary, the pinyin is shì fēi , refers to the right and wrong of things; generally referred to as verbal disputes. See "Book of Rites: Qu Li 1": "Husband's rituals are used to determine relatives and distances, to resolve suspicions, to distinguish similarities and differences, and to clarify right and wrong." It is often used to refer to bad things.
2. Famous aphorisms, also known as famous sayings, refer to famous words said, written, recorded by history, conclusions or suggestions drawn through practice, and warnings to the world. Famous aphorisms are easy to pass down. 6. Famous quotes about argumentative essays
1). Advising people to cherish their time. Black hair does not know how to study diligently early, and white heads regret studying late. It is easy to learn when you are young, but it is difficult to learn when you are old. An inch of time cannot be taken lightly. An inch of time is an inch of gold. It’s hard to buy gold and save time. If you are young and don’t work hard, your boss will be sad (2). Warning to people to be honest 1. Those who are not strong in ambition are not wise, and those who do not believe in their words will not achieve results.
--Mo Zhai, a thinker of the Warring States Period 2. Correspond with the internal and external, and match words and deeds. -- Han Fei, philosopher and educator of the Warring States Period 3. Goodness cannot come from outside, and the name cannot be made in vain.
-- Qu Yuan, a poet of the Warring States Period 4. The true is the most sincere. Without sincerity, it cannot move people. --Zhuang Zhou, philosopher of the Warring States Period 5. If a person breaks his trust, his reputation will be ruined.
--Liu Xiang, a Confucian scholar of the Han Dynasty 6. Hypocrisy cannot last long, emptiness cannot last long, rotten wood cannot be carved, and love cannot last long. -- Han Ying, poetry critic of the Han Dynasty 7. If you accept someone with faith, the world will trust you; if you don't accept someone with faith, your wife will be suspicious of you.
--Chang Quan, a hermit of the Jin Dynasty 8. A person cannot stand in the world without loyalty. --Cheng Yi, a philosopher from the Song Dynasty 9. More fiction is worse than less reality.
--Chen Fu, a philosopher of the Song Dynasty 10. Treating others with truth is not only beneficial to others, but also beneficial to yourself. -- Yang Jian, scholar of Song Dynasty 11. Honesty is the lifeblood of life and the foundation of all values.
--Dreiser, British writer 12. Be loyal in words and respectful in deeds. --The Analects of Confucius 13. Deceiving can only be temporary, but honesty is a long-term solution.
--John Ray, British scholar 14. Life cannot bloom brilliant flowers from lies. --Heine, German poet 15. Honesty is the most touching thing.
16. If you can be true to yourself, you can be true to others, just like night follows day, and shadow follows body shape. --Shakespeare, British dramatist 17. How can there be dignity without honesty? --Cicero, ancient Roman statesman 18. If a person loses honesty, he loses everything.
--Li Li, British essayist 19. Honesty is the best policy. --Franklin 20. If people can abandon hypocrisy, they will gain great peace of mind.
-- Mark Twain (3). Encourage people to be tolerant and be open to everything. The sun rises in the East China Sea and sets in the West Mountain. A day of sorrow and a day of joy. If you don't get into trouble, you will be comfortable and your heart will be at ease. Remember what needs to be remembered and forget what needs to be forgotten. Change what can be changed and accept what cannot be changed. Regret is a spirit-consuming emotion. Regret is a greater loss than a loss and a greater mistake than a mistake. So don’t regret it (4) Strong will\firm determination My success is Because I am determined and never hesitate.
Napoleon I’s famous sayings are important signs of mature personality: tolerance, tolerance and kindness. - "The Weakness of Human Nature" Famous Quotes What makes you tired is not the mountain in front of you, but the grain of sand in your shoe.
-Anonymous Famous Quotes: Three armies can seize the commander, but an ordinary man cannot seize the ambition. - "The Analects of Confucius. Zihan" famous aphorisms (5) About love. True love will drive away crazy or nearly lustful things.
Plato’s famous aphorisms (6) Regarding self-cultivation. A gentleman’s self-cultivation involves correcting his heart internally and correcting his appearance externally. - (Song Dynasty) Ouyang Xiu's famous aphorisms: The prime years will never come again, and the morning will never come again. It is timely to encourage yourself, and time waits for no one.
- (Jin Dynasty) Tao Yuanming's famous sayings: Morality should be noble; conduct should be frank; behavior should be polite. - (France) Montesquieu's famous aphorisms: Quietness is used to cultivate one's character, frugality is used to cultivate virtue. Without indifference, one cannot have a clear ambition, and without tranquility, one cannot achieve far-reaching goals.
-Zhuge Liang's famous aphorisms (7) People should always reflect on themselves - know yourself. The most difficult thing is to know yourself. (Greece) Self-knowledge is the rarest of knowledge.
(Spain) If you want to know yourself, it is best to ask others. (Japan) Only among people can you know yourself.
(Germany) I can clearly count the stars in the sky, but I can’t see the soot on my face. (Malaysia) Those who sing praises to themselves have only one audience.
(Japan) Don’t laugh at others’ hunched backs, straighten your own back. (Soviet Union) Even the most spiritual person cannot see his own back.
(Africa) The more incompetent a person is, the more he likes to find fault with others. (Ireland) Everyone knows where shoes pinch your feet.
(Latin America) Your own shoes, you know where they are tight. (Spain) You know how much you want to eat.
(Soviet Union) If you don’t evaluate yourself, you won’t evaluate others. (Germany) If you can't command yourself, you can't command others.
(USA) People who are afraid of you in front of you will definitely hate you behind your back. (UK) [Study] Selected famous sayings and aphorisms (arranged in sequence) B From the east to the sea, when will the rivers return to the west? If a young man does not work hard, the old man will be miserable.
(Han Yuefu "Long Song Xing") To learn a hundred things, one must first be determined. (Zhu Xi) The edge of a sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold.
The pen falls in the storm, and the poem becomes the weeping ghosts and gods. (Du Fu) If you don't know how to be a prostitute, I will be your teacher.
(Du Fu) Be broad-minded and appreciative, accumulate thickly but thinly. (Su Shi) Learn it eruditely, interrogate it, think it over carefully, discern it clearly, and practice it sincerely.
("Book of Rites") If you don't climb a high mountain, you don't know how high the sky is; if you don't go to a deep stream, you don't know how thick the earth is. ("Xunzi") Others: If you don't fly, you will soar into the sky; if you don't sing, you will become a blockbuster.
(Sima Qian) If you don’t worry about others, you don’t know yourself; when you worry, you don’t know others. (Confucius) If you don’t enter the tiger’s den, how can you catch the tiger’s cubs? (Book of the Later Han Dynasty) If there is no blockage and no flow, it will not work.
(Han Yu) I don’t know the true face of Mount Lu, just because I am in this mountain. (Su Shi) Don't be afraid of the floating clouds covering your eyes, because you are at the highest level.
(Wang Anshi) Without rules, it is impossible to build a square garden. (Mencius) After collecting hundreds of flowers and turning them into honey, it will be sweet to whomever you work hard for.
(Luo Yin) A person who has a solid warehouse knows etiquette; a person who has enough food and clothing knows honor and disgrace. ("Guanzi") After playing a thousand tunes, the sound will dawn; after observing a thousand swords, you will recognize the weapon.
(Liu Xie) If you look at yourself, you can know others; if you look at the present, you can know the past. ("Lu's Spring and Autumn Annals") A slight difference is a thousand miles away.
("Book of Han") There will be times when the wind breaks through the waves, and the sails are hung directly to help the sea. (Li Bai) My heart is like a magnetic needle, and it will not rest until it points to the right direction.
(Wen Tianxiang) Thousands of sails pass by the side of the sunken boat, and thousands of trees spring in front of the diseased tree. (Liu Yuxi) Eat a pit and gain wisdom.
(ancient proverb) A ruler is short, an inch is long. (Qu Yuan) He died before leaving the army, which makes the hero burst into tears.
(Du Fu) The spring silkworms will not run out until their silkworms die, and the wax torches will not dry up until their tears turn to ashes. (Li Shangyin) The spring breeze is proud of the horse's hoof disease, and I can see all the flowers in Chang'an in one day.
(Meng Jiao) The garden is full of spring scenery and cannot be contained, and a branch of red apricot comes out of the wall. (Ye Shaoweng) A moment of spring night is worth a thousand pieces of gold.
(Su Shi) Doing good is like ascending, doing evil is like falling. ("Guoyu") A real man would rather have his jade broken into pieces than completely destroyed.
(Book of the Northern Qi Dynasty) He is as straight as he is crooked, as clumsy as he is cunning, and as slow as he is in his argument. ("Laozi") I don't know that old age is coming, and wealth and honor are like floating clouds to me. 7. Don’t talk about other people’s sentences behind their backs
Be a punctual person, pursue perfection and strive to do better. Growth is a lonely journey, so be careful and don’t talk about others behind their backs. Right or wrong, a strong heart is indestructible. Opportunities will always be given to those who are prepared.
Be knowledgeable about the world, but not worldly. Don't expose others' shortcomings, don't talk about others behind their backs, don't be rude easily, don't stay out overnight, and don't have close contact with the opposite sex without a confirmed relationship; don't do anything inappropriate if the relationship is confirmed. She has good rapport with people of the same sex and is gentle to everyone, but she has a bottom line and will never do anything inappropriate. She has strong character and bright personality. She has many friends but only a few close friends. She cares about the feelings of others.
From now on, I am determined to be such a person: simple and easy-going; hard-boned but soft-hearted; having true feelings and telling the truth; not flattering, not talking behind people's backs; not being the same as others; not being claptrap. To be honest, to seek truth from facts; not to consider personal interests at all, but to consider others more; the key is the word "true", to be a person of good temperament 8. What are the classic sentences to describe gossiping behind someone's back
1: No one speaks behind someone's back, and no one speaks in front of someone.
2: The evil mouth of the world, coupled with the tongue that follows one's desires, is the source of all evil.
3: People who talk about right and wrong, right and wrong things, and those who talk about right and wrong are right and wrong people.
4: How can a gentleman get rid of the villain? The villain is like grass and survives.
5: He who thinks what he says is a gentleman, and whoever thinks what he says is a villain.
6: Summer insects cannot talk about the ice, and well frogs cannot talk about the sea.
7: Your Majesty, why don’t you rise ninety thousand miles when the wind blows?
8: Sit quietly and think about your own faults, and don’t talk about the faults of others.
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1: Gossip refers to gossip; talking about the rights and wrongs of others behind their backs; dissatisfied words, personal rumors, hearsay, behind-the-scenes information, etc.
2: Chat less and talk less if it has nothing to do with business. If you are dissatisfied, be careful so as not to let others talk about it.
Reference: Sogou Encyclopedia - Gossip