1, living freely, beauty is the icing on the cake.
This sentence is to tell women that the most important thing in life is to live comfortably and safely. Many people often spend too much time and energy in the pursuit of perfect appearance, but ignore their inner demands and needs. Although physical beauty is very important, it is only one aspect of life. What really matters is inner beauty and health.
2, be yourself, the coming will always come.
This sentence tells women that they need to be authentic, and sometimes they will change themselves in order to adapt to various expectations and concepts in society. But if you are not loyal to your inner thoughts and goals, you will lose your way. Everyone has his own life track and unique value, so he needs to make his own choices bravely to make his life more exciting.
Don't rush to build your happiness on the pain of others.
We should look for our own happiness from the heart, not build our own happiness for the pain of others. Although I am easily subjected to social and family pressures and expectations, I feel passively accepting these concepts. But you have to realize that you have to make your heart feel satisfied and happy before you can help others.
Introduction to Jiang Yang's works:
1, "Satisfaction": It tells the dirty conduct of the so-called rich upper class at that time and sees the whole picture of Shanghai's small society.
2, "bullockscored": a five-act drama, the poor boy Zhou abandoned his girlfriend, pretending to be a rich boy, courting the daughter of the landlord Zhang Xiangfu with sweet words, and finally winning the heart.
3. Drinking Tea: tells the life story of the author's father and aunt, and what happened to the couple during the Cultural Revolution. The author's brushwork is exquisite and vivid, and his words are humorous, which records the people and events in his memory, not only outstanding characterization, but also ordinary and touching stories in the atmosphere of the times.
4. The Three of Us: This book is an autobiographical novel, which shows her childhood, youth and adult life in the first person. It's warm and touching.