Put yourself in others' shoes, that is, don't impose what you don't want or like on others. The meaning of quotation can be understood as: if you don't do well enough, you can't ask others to do better than yourself. In other words, one should put oneself in others' shoes and learn to put oneself in others' shoes.

Source: The Analects of Confucius Yan Yuan, a disciple of Confucius in the Spring and Autumn Period: "Nakamiya Wenren. Confucius said,' Going out to see distinguished guests makes people like big sacrifices. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. This is not only the essence of Confucianism, but also the path followed by the Chinese nation for thousands of years. Its essence is to put yourself in others' shoes, which is called "empathy" and "empathy".

Because everyone is equal, we respect ourselves and others at the same time. In our daily life, people have no reason to put themselves in others' shoes, feel others' feelings with their own feelings, and infer others' situations with their own situations. If you only want to "be happy for yourself" and "be convenient for yourself", regardless of the feelings of others, then people will lose their friendliness and society will be difficult to be harmonious.

In fact, not only do you dislike Europe, but even if you do, don't impose it on others. Because what you don't like, others don't necessarily like it; What others like may not be liked. If you want to reduce resentment, you should have less moral kidnapping, and don't always force others to do things they don't like in the name that I do it for you.