Showing strength is a sign of a person's strength and firm stance, and it is also a declaration of a person's strong will and tenacious attitude. Show your strength according to local conditions, but also follow the trend. "Once"? "Xu Yuchuan" said: "When I see that my stove is getting bigger and bigger, I will call the county soldiers to meet me. Many speeds will not dare to chase me. Sun Bin is weak, and I am strong now, so the situation is different. " That is to say, Sun Bin's weakness is to lure the enemy deeper, while my strength is to make the enemy dare not catch up, because the situation is different. Specifically, there are at least three situations that can, should and even must be strong. One is that when it is necessary to "defeat the enemy without fighting", it can effectively shock others and effectively combat their arrogance. It is the so-called "show strength, stop fighting." One is to boost my morale, improve my fighting spirit and unite my strength when I need to boost my spirits; One is that when we need to protect our own security, we can turn the situation around and turn the corner. "People are good at being bullied, while Ma is good at being ridden". If you are unwilling, unwilling and afraid to show your strength blindly, you will be misunderstood, misunderstood, misjudged and even considered weak.
Show off your strength, what should you "show off"? Of course, you can "show your muscles" and "show your sword" to show your great strength and strength. However, showing strength must have capital and confidence, and "big guys" must also have "great wisdom." The key to showing strength lies in "showing" people's hearts. This is strong and that is strong, and the people are the strongest. As long as we unite as one, there is no mountain we can't climb, no hurdle we can't cross, and no difficulty we can't overcome. Show strength, how to "show strength"? What matters is not words, but actions; Not on the surface, but in the heart; Not now, but all the time; It's not a trivial matter, but a big one. Showing strength is nothing more than "swearing" or "tearing each other". It depends on whose voice is loud, loud and harsh, and the pleasure of language can't be exchanged for inner strength.
It is possible and necessary to show strength, but enough is enough. Blindly showing strength is easy to provoke right and wrong, cause resentment, make too many enemies, and make yourself a target of public criticism. Don't be too strong People who are too strong are overbearing and aggressive, and aggression often backfires. As the saying goes, "rabbits bite when they are in a hurry." We must exercise reasonable restraint in demonstrating our strength. If we exceed it, we will become aggressive and try to be brave. Courage is a kind of showing off, showing off, showing off, being arrogant, arrogant and overbearing. Courage is not the job of the really strong. I've never seen a real martial arts expert blow his own horn before playing cards. People who try to be brave are prone to quarrel, get angry, sulk and vent their anger, and even get hurt and damaged because they are out of breath. In history, there was a brave A Qin Wu Wang who insisted on lifting a tripod with the strength of Hercules. As a result, he was killed by Ding and made a big joke about history. This kind of bravado is a brave man, which is unnecessary.
Showing strength is the performance of strength, and trying to be brave is the performance of chewing. The best way to show one's strength is to show one's strength without being brave, to show one's strength without being angry, and to defeat the enemy without fighting.
Should people show weakness? Can they show weakness? Many people have different ideas and opinions. In reality, fewer and fewer people seem to show weakness, and people are generally unwilling, unwilling and not good at showing weakness. Some equate weakness with incompetence, timidity and uselessness, and even regard it as calcium deficiency, cartilage and cowardice. Some associate weakness with the dignity and face of being a human being, and feel that weakness will lose dignity and face, be gossiped, looked down upon and even bullied.
It should be said that not showing weakness is an instinct of human beings, and people usually use "not showing weakness" to describe a person's bravery. People are proud, and no one wants to show their shortcomings and weaknesses. However, learning to show weakness in a timely and appropriate manner is not only a need, a skill, but also an tolerance.
People can, should and even must show weakness in two situations: one is that their own strength is not strong enough to show their strength; The other is to avoid people's sharp edges, not arrogant and impetuous, in order to turn the corner and save the day. Throughout the ages, there are countless examples of weakness in these two situations.
Weakness is not weakness, but a stopgap measure. Weakness is not obvious, no trouble, no trouble. To many people, they are neither challenging nor threatening. In this sense, showing weakness is a good strategy to hide the strong and keep the weak. If it is a kind of personality not to bow and yield in the face of pressure, then it is a wise choice to show weakness in a timely and moderate manner.
People can show weakness, but not weakness. Cowardly people are real cowards, wheezing, living under the fence, without ambition, backbone, self-confidence and car-scrapping. Weakness is an incompetent brother and a cowardly twin. The weak are often "mud can't help the wall", unable to move things, unable to bear the responsibility, untenable, unable to walk far and fly high. Only when people are weak will they really be looked down upon and looked down upon.
The weak are often real heroes. "The world is weaker than water, and the strong cannot win." Only when the strong show weakness and the winner shows weakness can we be in an invincible position. Only by showing weakness and not showing weakness can we achieve the real strong and winners.