Most of these problems in life are not too serious, but some problems will bring great influence and even tragic results.
However, many times, these problems, large and small, can be avoided or their consequences can be alleviated.
If we had treated these problems with an inclusive heart at that time, we could have exercised more restraint, patience and tactfulness, and the consequences of the problems might have been alleviated or even avoided.
There is a story:
After the war, a returning soldier called his parents in a city next to his hometown and told them that he was back, but he wanted to take a comrade-in-arms home, and his parents welcomed him.
But the soldier also said that his comrade-in-arms were injured in the war and lost an arm and a leg, so he wanted to take this comrade-in-arms home to live with him.
When his parents heard this, they told the soldiers that a disabled person would cause a great burden to their lives and their lives would be ruined. They told the soldiers to go home quickly, and then forgot their comrades-in-arms, who should have their own lives, not be with them.
After that, the soldier didn't go back to his hometown, and his parents never heard from him again.
After a while, the soldier's parents got a call from the police station in the neighboring city, telling them that their son had committed suicide.
The soldier's parents were very sad. They came to the morgue and saw the body of their son, who had only one arm and one leg.
This is a tragic story, and similar stories happen every day.
If the soldiers' parents had been more tolerant, willing to accept the soldiers' so-called friends, or spoke mildly, they might not have lost their sons forever.
For many people, it is easy to accept healthy, beautiful, smart and rich people, but it is difficult to accept people who are not as healthy, beautiful, smart and rich as us.
We almost instinctively avoid those who are inferior to us because we are afraid that our lives will be disrupted.
There are always various problems in life. As long as we can tolerate problems and defects with an inclusive heart, we can become strong people and have less regrets in life.