Love is dead set. If you don't love, you will turn your face and deny people. Therefore, be careful when offending women.
It is better to offend a woman than a villain. The villain is aimed at people who are stronger than himself, or at the current enemy, and it won't be aimed for long. Women are different. Women are used to entrusting their lives to each other. If you offend such a person, a woman will hold a grudge for life. Therefore, in terms of time, women are more terrible.
What does it mean to offend the old and not the young? First, old, tempered, small, can not get into the sand.
Second, it's useless to be old, but it's not too late to take revenge for ten years.
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"Better to offend a gentleman than a villain. Is this sentence correct? If so, it doesn't make the villain more arrogant! This sentence is true! Offending a gentleman may only be a temporary unhappiness and disgust, but it will fade away after a long time. If you offend a villain, it will be a lifetime of jealousy and constant revenge ... A man, for his own safety and interests, chose not to be taunted, so I can afford to hide! In the end, the villain is even more arrogant. Everyone only sweeps the snow in front of the door, regardless of the indifferent interpersonal relationship of others.
Why would you rather offend a gentleman than a villain?
I would rather offend a gentleman than a villain. I'd rather be a villain? In that case, others will try not to offend you, but everyone may isolate you. . There is nothing to do. Enemy. And no real friends. Take out your deliberately hidden personality. Do what you want.
What does it mean to offend a gentleman but not a villain? Little people will hold grudges and get back at people.
What are the allusions that offend gentlemen rather than villains? "It is better to offend a gentleman than a villain" is a wise saying.
Perhaps, attacking from behind is because of anger and jealousy, but in internet cafes, it is always aboveboard. Why don't you complain and ask yourself?
Therefore, I think it is worthy of respect for westerners to fight face to face for one thing.
I saw a lot of "little people" in reading, both ancient and modern, and they are similar. I don't want free pens and ink. Let's spread out some articles read by the secretary. The meanings are all from the ancients, and I just use today's words to understand them. I'm afraid the little people around me will see it and call the door to make trouble. For my personal safety, please keep it secret and destroy it immediately after reading it. Stop!
The origin of villain appellation
The name of villain has a long history. As early as the Western Zhou Dynasty, the ruler had this title for the ruled. During the Spring and Autumn Period, the ruling class was called a "gentleman" and the labor producers of the rulers were called "villains". After the end of the Spring and Autumn Period, gentlemen and villains gradually became the special appellations of virtuous people and immoral people. For example, Guanzi Herdsmen said: "Those who believe in villains lose scholars." "Xunzi's exhortation to learn" also said: "The study of villains is also in the ear. Out of mouth. " It has a new meaning: even those who are misbehaving or lack knowledge are different kinds of villains. But it also has other uses: in ancient times, the younger generation could call themselves villains to show modesty, respect and courtesy. But not the latter.
I'd rather not study all year round.
You can't approach a villain in one day.
The ancients were very wary of villains, and even said, "It's better not to study all year round and not to get close to villains all day." Explain how much the ancients hated villains.
"Don't study all the year round" may be a bit exaggerated, but "a day away from a mean person" is indeed a wise saying. You're afraid you can't hide. How dare you approach him?
The ancients said: Being kind to others is like entering Lan Zhi's room, but not smelling its fragrance for a long time; Not living a good life is like going into an abalone shop and not smelling it for a long time. Why? The so-called near ink is black, near sage is bright, near goodness is virtuous, near fools are dark, near thieves are thieves, and near villains become villains over time.
Small people enter the room, light people make noise, make chickens and dogs restless, and heavy people split up, and the family is ruined. Is it that serious? If you don't believe me, you can look at history. During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, some countries believed in villains, and even the country perished, which was recorded in history books. If you don't take the initiative to approach the villain, the villain will try his best to get close to you, befriend you and fill you with ecstasy soup. Once in the buckle, it is easy to get on the thief boat, but difficult to get off the thief boat, humiliating the ancestors for no reason. The villain's energy can be seen from this.
Would rather offend a gentleman.
Don't offend the bad guys
The villains hold grudges, are extremely vengeful, and are deeply buried in their hearts, even deep into the bone marrow. When the opportunity comes, he will immediately jump out and pay back the money. This conclusion can be found in novels, stories and reports that I have read, heard and read. Even if you are kind to the villain, the villain thinks you should be reasonable and natural. The villain has a big appetite, and you can't see his advantages at all, let alone take it to heart. It is inevitable to forget in the future. If you can't meet the requirements of the villain at all, revenge will fall on you at some point.
An upright man is open and poised, you can refuse his request. He smiled, knowing that you have difficulties, and he fully understood. A gentleman has shortcomings. He pointed out to you that they were very grateful. When you make friends with a gentleman, you can express your heart frankly and don't have to be wary. Never treat the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain. Although you don't have to surround yourself like building the Great Wall, and you don't have to wrap yourself in ancient armor, you must have good ways to protect yourself and try not to let villains near you.
If there is really no way to deal with villains, we must remember: "Be lenient with others and be strict with others." Talk less and listen more, make promises less easily, praise or criticize others less easily, don't criticize the shortcomings of villains, don't associate with villains if you have nothing to do, especially don't patronize small homes, and try not to let villains walk around their homes. Do what you can, refuse what you can't, and never leave specious information. Respect the villain with courtesy, stay away from the villain, don't provoke him, don't joke with the villain. It should be noted that the villain will turn his face and deny people, and he will be very angry with the pot. Taking the joke seriously will make you unbearable.
Don't be enemies with little people.
Villains have their own enemies.
It's not worth making enemies with villains. "The villain is far away, but he can't be an enemy." Knowing who the villain is, you deliberately alienated him, obviously avoided him, and spoke with a disdainful tone, which was a bit excessive. If you don't like the villain's behavior, you want to "speak out", you want to "fight against injustice" and you want to be a model for upholding justice. This is undoubtedly anti-villains, directly taking responsibility on themselves. Originally, the villains were afraid of everyone as a group, and did not dare to openly do the right thing with a group. Great, the villain finally found an opponent who can vent his personal anger.
There has been a saying since ancient times: "The wicked have their own grinding." Naturally, even a little man can rule him, but it takes a process. So, you don't have to stand up and fight the villains. There are many things in the world, and even the worst things have a cure. Just like bittern with tofu, a worm sucks a toad, everything has its vanquisher. Crops are afraid of frost, and frost and snow are afraid of the sun. Of course, some people are afraid of villains, otherwise wouldn't the world be in chaos? The villain is in power, and the gentleman has good fruit to eat?
How to identify villains
After talking for a long time, what kind of person is the villain? How to identify? It's hard to say. The little man didn't write it on his head, and he couldn't ask, "Hey, man, are you a little man?" Don't slap you? However, it doesn't matter, it is enough to master the points pointed out by the ancients:
● Everything goes well, flattery, flattery is loud, ecstasy soup is tight, and the villain is anxious.
The lower part, face to face, and then the other one. What if you say it to your face and go your own way behind your back, not a villain?
● Suspicious, always suspecting that others have ulterior secrets, always feeling that others have something to hide from themselves, always feeling wronged, and always feeling that big guys bully themselves. In short, doubt everything and trust no one.
When a dog fights against the people, the last one laughs, and the next one holds a chicken feather as the direction like a black face who owes him tens of thousands of dollars. Little people!
Whispering in a low voice, being good at reporting to leaders, telling Zhang Weisi and Li Wu, in turn, are the nature of good people and bad people.
Low man * * *. Grab when you see honor, and hide when you see difficulties. If there is a problem, it must be someone else's; There is no need to ask about his grades. He must be the first to confess.
● If a villain wants to be promoted, he will climb on someone else's head at all costs, and even dye his ceiling with someone else's blood.
● The villain lies, and the lie is truer than the truth, which makes people puzzled. Be good at playing digital games and doing superficial articles. Even the superiors are confused. What about the subordinates?
I am talented, but I don't have to be in the right place. In the words of ordinary people, it's not what I thought. A gentleman thinks about things, but a villain thinks about people. Officers must have made a lot of mistakes, and I am happy to say incantations and make sarcastic remarks without officers.
● The villain is psychologically distorted, dark and jealous. I can't see that others are better than myself. People get angry when they are nice. I suspect that someone else's promotion is a gift, and someone else's new house is bought with bribes. If others are worse than themselves, they will try their best to laugh at them.
The villains are extremely vengeful. I have said it before, so I won't go into details.
It may not be easy to recognize a villain for a while, or it may be recognized as a friend. However, the villain can cheat you for a while, but it is impossible to cheat you for a year; Even if I haven't seen you for a year, can he lie to you for a lifetime?
The further development of villains is bad people, and there are countless villains in history. Not far away, Kang Sheng, a gifted scholar, vividly described the process of a villain becoming a bad person. Fortunately, the villain is a minority after all, but its destructive power cannot be underestimated. A grain of mouse excrement spoiled a pot of broth. Moreover, the madness of villains can turn a country, a region and a unit into a messy mess, without suppressing evil and promoting good. What can we talk about?
How to guard against villains
The ancients said that villains are born in heaven and earth and extinct, but they should be self-righteous and enjoy themselves. In particular, we should be modest and make it self-balanced. When it comes to pity and excitement, it touches many evils. It should be noted that there are no bad flatterers, so flattery is not bad.
To put it bluntly, you must be right. Integrity, integrity, integrity of thought, there is no place for villains. The upper beam is upright, the lower beam is upright, the purlin rafters are in their positions, nailing is nailing, riveting is riveting, and each is busy, and there is no leisure to make irresponsible remarks. There is no crack in an egg that cannot attract flies with maggots. An upright man is open and poised, little tricks have no market. He can either become a gentleman or pack up and leave.