"Read more books and read good books." In our life, you will find that people who read a lot must be different. When I say read more books, I mean reading famous books or books to learn knowledge, not reading online novels. Reading online novels is of no use to ourselves, and may only increase our ability to tell stories.
Choosing a good book is also asked by a university. It is best to find some famous books or literary books to read. These books can cultivate our sentiment and make us more patient.
People who are impatient can't read books. They will find reading boring. Maybe they fell asleep while reading a book, and didn't savor the contents of the book at all. There is a saying that "the book has its own golden house, and the book has its own Yan Ruyu." People who don't know how to savor carefully can't find the Golden House and Yan Ruyu in the book.
That kind of reading is just perfunctory, just like when we were at school, the teacher asked us to read books with famous sayings and aphorisms, but most students are not interested in such books and don't know how to understand the content. The teacher forced us to do this only in a perfunctory way.
Find some books with famous sayings and aphorisms at random, and then extract some simple sentences from them and write them down in your notes. Teachers see that this reading attitude is wrong, and it is impossible to get anything from books, let alone change themselves.
Reading good books can make people confident. They don't have any knowledge base in their minds and have no confidence in doing anything. They always feel that they can't do well and dare not do these things, but people who have read books are different. They will show their ideas and show their confidence.
Therefore, reading can really change a person, make a timid person become a timid person, make a hot-tempered person become a reasonable person, and make a frustrated person become a successful and confident person. This is the change of reading to people.