But unfortunately, not all the time can get a good result. Feelings are sometimes so unreasonable that they come to an abrupt end when neither side is ready. End the youth we have gone through.
A person who loves deeply but has no result is called an ex. There is no denying that the ex is the most special existence in feelings. Even if you avoid it, you can't erase the traces she left.
Many men will never forget their former lovers and keep a good position in their hearts.
Why is this happening? Today I will tell you why men can't forget their predecessors. David Ashe, North Executive Force.
0 1. "That woman hurt him deeply."
According to scientific research, pain is the most impressive feeling. Appear in your life coldly, but it takes a long time to forget it gradually. This kind of emotional injury will also leave a deep impression.
Female students and male students have been together for a long time. Some companionship will have a good influence on men, but some companionship will make men realize reality.
It turns out that a man's reply is unforgettable. She said she would like me forever, but she didn't expect "forever" and lost her money forever.
Giving up your feelings for some practical reasons is like a sharp blade stuck in a man's heart. Every time he thinks about it, his heart hurts. (william shakespeare's emotional quotations from Hamlet) This also gave him the illusion of "forgetting his predecessor", but in fact he was just unwilling and unwilling to be abandoned.
At this time, as long as he meets the woman he likes, he can open his heart again. He can get rid of the shadow left by his predecessor and forget the unpleasant past. Start a new relationship and a new life.
02. "That woman spent the most difficult time with him."
Young love is the simplest. At that time, we knew nothing but love. Therefore, the company at that time was also the simplest, and there was no such utilitarian idea. I just want to spend every stage of my life with you. (Life).
When a man has nothing, he is the most powerless when he meets the woman he wants to protect most. Later, they succeeded and lost the girl. This kind of experience is irreversible, and it will leave them with deep regret.
Li Yinghao wrote in "Young and Promising": "If I am young and don't feel inferior, everything is precious. If those dreams are not given to you, I will be ashamed all my life."
But when they choose to start a new relationship, it means that they have let go of their predecessors in love. Sometimes I feel more guilty when I think of my predecessor, and I miss myself when I was a child. (Bernard Shaw) In life. 03. "That woman made him grow into a better self."
In this world, no matter who you meet, she is the person who should appear in your life, which is definitely not a coincidence. She will teach you something. (David Asher, North? Exposure (American TV series, life) Finally, even if you are passing each other's lives in a hurry. Still grateful for the summer of spring, summer, autumn and winter.
The partner who gets along with each other day and night is the mirror for us to know ourselves. Therefore, good feelings can help us change some shortcomings and become better ourselves. (william shakespeare's Hamlet and Love) Such an experience is rare and unforgettable.
Men know women better in good feelings, learn to take care of others, learn to express love, and help them become better themselves in their later lives. (love)
So he won't forget his predecessor easily, nor will he forget what he learned from her. This unforgettable, we can define it as gratitude.
Conclusion:
There are different reasons why men can't forget their predecessors. Maybe because of injury, maybe because of guilt, maybe because of gratitude. Therefore, when you meet men who can't forget their predecessors, don't label them as "Xicheng research" from the beginning. On the other hand.
Bian Xiao wants to give some advice to all women. Before falling in love, you need to know whether this man can't simply forget his predecessor or just miss himself in the past.
Don't worry about missing yourself once in a while. Get along well with him and communicate more. Don't hurt each other's feelings because of your ex's wild guess.
Boys should also pay attention to the fact that their predecessors are a thing of the past, and don't hurt other women because of the people they missed. Every female student deserves to be treated wholeheartedly. Sorting out feelings is the highest respect for the incumbent.