1. What are the idioms, poems, aphorisms and aphorisms about etiquette?

Arrogance, rudeness, humble words, excessive etiquette, virtue, etiquette, frugality, but not etiquette

Love etiquette The ritual of saving sheep destroys the music and destroys the country of etiquette. It is arrogant and lacks etiquette

Be humble and have thick coins and be courteous. Blog posts about rituals and long fasts. Worship the Buddha

Bow down, worship, write poems, say rituals, resist rituals, burn incense and worship

Respectfully and politely, respect the virtuous and virtuous, kowtow to worship, etiquette, righteousness and integrity

Self-restraint, restoration of etiquette, etiquette for the virtuous, corporal etiquette, reciprocity, bad music and collapse

The training of poetry and etiquette, the home of poetry and etiquette, first be polite, then the soldiers, treat each other with courtesy.

Knowledge of books and gifts are frivolous and rude, morning and evening rituals are troublesome and wenzhou rituals

Separate family rituals, burning incense and bowing, sweet words, generous gifts and short rituals for parents

There is no common etiquette in the family. Practicing the rules and etiquette, being courteous to the country, being extravagant rather than frugal

Being courteous to people, being courteous, and being courteous. All courtesy should be answered with a meal first

Be polite, have a meal first, be slow and polite, and be polite Slow and slow etiquette

Slow and slow ceremony, Ming Dynasty, matchmaker, evening ceremony, morning ginseng and sutra pulling ceremony

Three teas and six etiquettes, poems and rituals, heirlooms, poems and rituals, people know the rituals and books< /p>

Know all the books, express the etiquette, understand the etiquette, speak the etiquette, have etiquette, clothing, etiquette and music

Wait for the etiquette to be high, the etiquette is troublesome, the goose saves the etiquette, the forehead is used, the hand is added to the gift

The etiquette is light Affection is more important than etiquette, and people's will is more important than indecent etiquette. Also give an inch of courtesy and get a foot of courtesy. 2. Idioms, poems and stories describing etiquette

Five-body provocation, knowing etiquette and books, knowing etiquette and etiquette, and etiquette Bu Fang Xing, Tong Wen Da Li, etc.

1. Five-body prostrate to the ground

Explanation: Both hands, knees and head touch the ground together. It is one of the most respectful rituals in Buddhism. Metaphor to admire to the extreme.

From: Tang Dynasty Xuanzang's "Records of the Western Regions of the Tang Dynasty·Three Kingdoms": "The form of tribute has nine levels: 1. Speech to express condolences, 2. Bow to show respect, 3. Raise hands and bow, 4. Put your palms together in a flat arch, 5. Kneel down, 6. Kneel long, 7. Stand on the ground on your hands and knees, 8. Bend all the wheels together, 9. Bow down to the ground."

Translation: The ceremony of salute, his appearance. Ninth grade: 1. Speak condolences, 2. Lower your head to show respect, 3. Bow with a high bow, 4. Put your palms together in a flat arch, 5. Bend the knees, 6. Kneel down, 7. Squat on the ground with hands and knees, 8. and 5. Surrender, nine or five bodies fall to the ground.

2. Know etiquette and books

Explanation: Understand etiquette and be familiar with poetry and books.

From: Chapter 58 of Xia Jingqu's "The Words of the Wild Old Man" in the Qing Dynasty: "This is the family of the guilty minister. He has entered the official position. His surname is Mu and his name is Nan'er. He is gentle and virtuous, knows etiquette and books, and is also proficient in mathematics. . ”

Translation: This is the family of the guilty minister, Ji Fenggong, whose surname is Mu and whose name is Naner. He is gentle and virtuous, knows etiquette knowledge, and is proficient in several studies.

3. Being proficient in poetry and etiquette

Explanation: Refers to being proficient in poetry and etiquette.

From the second volume of Feng Menglong's "Yu Shi Ming Yan" of the Ming Dynasty: "It turns out that Tian is the daughter of Tian Gongyuan of Dongcun. She is very colorful, and she is well-versed in books and etiquette."

Translation: It turns out that Tian is the daughter of Tian Gongyuan of Higashimura. She is quite colorful and is polite in correspondence.

4. Square walking

Explanation: When walking, the steps should be square. Refers to behavior that conforms to etiquette standards.

From: Chapter 2 of "Qilu Deng" by Li Luyuan of the Qing Dynasty: "A gentleman like this will definitely not be able to walk step by step. He is just a master and a master, just a name."

Translation: Such a gentleman must not do it step by step, but he is just a master and a teacher, and he just keeps his name for the time being.

5. Tongwendali

Explanation: Refers to being knowledgeable and understanding etiquette.

From the seventh chapter of "Pingshan Lengyan" by Di'an Shanren in the Qing Dynasty: "Although Kuang's niece is a small village girl, she is well-educated, well-educated and polite, and is as talented and virtuous as ever. How can a woman in this class be as beautiful as a white wall, and as low as a woman in green clothes? "

Translation: What's more, although my granddaughter is a girl from a small village, she is well-educated, well-educated, talented and virtuous. , no better than ancient women, how could they go up to the white wall and go down to the ranks of Qingyi? 3. Famous quotes and poems about etiquette

1. Time is the space for human development.

——Marx 2. Time can heal all wounds. ——Menander 3. Time is a constant, but for the diligent, it is a variable.

——Rebakko 4. On the clock of time, there are only two words - now. ——Shakespeare 5. Those who do great things should look to the future and use their strength now.

——Sidney 6. The way to get the job done is to cherish every minute. ——Darwin 7. There is infinite interest every moment; if the day is insufficient, the year is more than enough.

——Franklin 8. Don’t be downcast, even if you lose everything, you still have a future. ——Wilde's "Letter" 9. Victory often comes from persisting for the last five minutes.

——Newton 10. Those who abandon time, time also abandons him.

——Shakespeare 11. If a young man does not work hard, an old man will be miserable.

——Ancient poem "Sunflower in the Green Garden" 12. The deceased is like a man, and he does not give up day and night. ——Confucius "Confucius" 13. Don't wait for a moment. The young man's head will turn gray and he will feel empty and sad.

——Yue Fei's "Man Jiang Hong" 14. It is said that those who have no time to learn cannot learn even if they have time. ——Liu An's "Huainanzi" 15. The flowers are similar every year, but the people are different every year.

——Liu Xiyi's "Baitou Yin" 16. How long can your husband live? How long can he be able to fly and hang his wings? ——Bao Zhao's "It's Difficult to Travel" 17. The difficulty of things does not depend on the size, but on knowing the time. ——Pre-Qin Dynasty's "Lu Spring and Autumn Annals" 18. When time comes, time almost never comes.

——Sima Qian's "Historical Records" 19. If you are strong but lazy, you will lose the time. ——Guan Zhong's "Guanzi·Situation" 20. The sage does not value the jade of an inch, but values ??the shade of an inch.

——Liu An's "Huainanzi" ancient poem: If a young man does not work hard, an old man will be sad. ("Long Song Xing") The prime years will never come again, and the morning will never come again.

Be encouraged in time, time waits for no one. (Miscellaneous Poems by Tao Yuanming of Jin Dynasty) I advise you not to cherish your gold-threaded clothes; I advise you to cherish your youth.

If there are flowers, you must break them off. Don’t wait until there are no flowers. (Tang Dynasty's "Golden Threaded Clothes") Today is the same as today, how little today is! If you don’t do it today, when will this happen? Tomorrow comes tomorrow, and there are so many tomorrows.

I live to wait for tomorrow, everything will be wasted. 4. Quotes about etiquette

Reciprocity should be reciprocated. It is impolite to go but not come; it is impolite to come but not go.

------Quotes from "Book of Rites·Qu Li Shang"

Politeness makes polite people happy, and also makes people who are treated politely happy . ------Montesquieu

Courtesy is the first thing in which children and young people should take special care to cultivate their habits.

------John Locke

Politeness is the golden key to human perfection.

------Sonsuneji

There are two types of bad etiquette: the first is shyness; the second is indiscretion and contempt; avoid these In both cases, the only thing you can do is to abide by the following rule, that is, don't look down on yourself or others.

------John Locke

The purpose and function of etiquette is to make people's original stubbornness become supple, to make people's temperament gentle, to make them respect others and be harmonious. Others get along.

------John Locke

Being rude to others is not a manifestation of a bad character, but a concentration of multiple bad habits, such as laziness, stupidity, and jealousy. , carelessness, love of vanity, lack of understanding of people and contempt for others.

------Bleujarre

Sending goose feathers thousands of miles away, the courtesy is light but the meaning is heavy

Politeness is the easiest thing to do and the most important. Precious stuff!

------Gonchar

The purpose and function of etiquette is to make people's original stubbornness become pliable, to make people's temperament gentle, to make them respect others and be harmonious with others. Get along.

------Locke

Being rude to others is not a manifestation of bad character, but a concentration of multiple bad habits, such as laziness, stupidity, jealousy, and carelessness. Carelessness, love of vanity, lack of understanding of people and contempt for others.

------Brouyard

A person's courtesy is a mirror that reflects his portrait.

------Goethe

Politeness can often replace the noblest feelings.

------Merimee

Don't be evil if you are evil. If you want to be good, let the big give way to the small.

------Proverb

When meeting an opponent in chess, be polite first and then use pawns.

------Proverb

A weirdo doesn't know etiquette, but a weirdo doesn't know etiquette.

------Proverbs

Life has given us a huge and infinitely noble gift, which is youth: full of strength, full of expectations, aspirations, full of A youth full of hope and confidence with the ambition to seek knowledge and struggle.

------Ostrovsky

Morality should be noble; conduct should be frank; behavior should be polite.

------Montesquieu

An extravagant wedding will hurt both parties.

------ (Manchu) Proverb

Blame is a gift from a friend.

------Proverb

Officials will not beat those who give gifts, and dogs will not bite those who poop.

------Proverb

Wild dogs will not bite those who poop, and masters will not bite those who give gifts.

------ (Mongolian) Proverb

A person without manners is like a house without windows.

------ (Uyghur) Proverb

It is not strange to be polite to many people.

------Proverb

If you are not a true friend, no matter how heavy the gift is, it will not open your heart.

Gold gifts can ruin friendships. Because the giver may indeed forget his generosity, but the recipient will always be grateful.

------Wei Smith 5. Famous sayings about etiquette

Mark Twain was born in the USE and English was his mother t____. Sorry, wrong place Li Youzi said: "The purpose of etiquette is harmony.

If you can't do something, know how to be harmonious and make peace without etiquette. It's not feasible. Respect is closer to etiquette, but far away from shame. < /p>

It’s not like being poor but being happy, being rich is like being polite. The way is based on virtue, and the way is based on courtesy.

"Fan Chi said: "What is it? "Confucius said: "In life, things should be done with propriety; in death, burial should be done with propriety, and sacrifices should be done with propriety. How can a large cart be carried out without a handle? Confucius said: "The gains and losses of Yin due to Xia's rites can be known; the gains and losses of Zhou's due to Yin's rites can be known.

Confucius said: "'When the ministers defend the public, the emperor Mu Mu'. , Xi took it from the hall of three families? Confucius said: "If a person is not benevolent, what is the use of etiquette?" If people are not benevolent, what joy will there be? " Lin Fang asked about the origin of rites. Confucius said: "What a great question! It is better to be thrifty than to be extravagant in etiquette; it is better to be sad than to be easy in mourning.

" Said: "After the ceremony? Confucius said: "It's time to talk about the poems." Confucius said: "I can describe the rites of the Xia Dynasty, but I can't describe them in Qi; I can describe the rites of the Yin Dynasty, but I can't describe them in the Song Dynasty."

Or he said: "Who is said to be a son of a man who knows etiquette?" When you enter the Ancestral Temple, ask about everything. When the Master heard about it, he said, "This is etiquette."

Confucius said: "It is a gift! You love his sheep, and I love his courtesy." Confucius said: "If you serve the king with courtesy, others will think you are flattering."

Ding Gong asked: "The king envoys his ministers, and the ministers serve the king, how should they be?" Confucius said to him: "The king envoys his ministers with courtesy, and the ministers serve the king with loyalty." Confucius said: "Guan Zhong's weapon is small." Alas! ” Or: “Guan Zhongjian?” Said: "Guan Zhong has three returns. If he doesn't take care of official affairs, how can he be frugal?" "But does Guan Zhong know etiquette?" Said: "The king of the country has a tree to block the door, and the Guan family also has a tree to block the door."

Guan knows etiquette, but who doesn’t know etiquette? "Ziyu said that Master Lu was happy, saying: "You can know how to enjoy it: the beginning is like Xi Ru Ye; from there, it is pure like Ye, Qi Ru Ye, Yi Ru Ye, and it is completed. Confucius said: "It is not generous to live in a superior position, it is disrespectful to be polite, and it is not mournful in the face of mourning. How can I observe it?" For the country? Why! If the country cannot be governed by courtesy, then what is the use of courtesy? "Confucius said: "Don't worry about not having a position, worry about it. Confucius said: "A gentleman is knowledgeable in literature, and if he makes an appointment with etiquette, he can still be with you!" When Confucius met Nanzi, Zilu said nothing.

Zi’s elegant words, "Poems", "Books", and "Zhao Li" are all elegant words. Chen Sibai asked: "Does Duke Zhao know etiquette?" Confucius said: "He knows etiquette.

You know etiquette, but who doesn't know etiquette?" Wu Ma expected to tell him. Confucius said: "Being respectful but disrespectful will lead to fatigue, being cautious but disrespectful will lead to chaos, being brave but disrespectful will lead to chaos, being straight and disrespectful will lead to strangulation.

Isn't it important to be benevolent as one's own responsibility? After death "Isn't it so far away?" Confucius said: "It is based on poetry, established on etiquette, and achieved on music." Confucius said: "Ma Mian is etiquette; now it is also pure and frugal, and I follow the crowd."

Bowing down is a courtesy; bowing down now is a courtesy. Master is always good at seducing me. He persuades me with words and invites me with courtesy. I can't stop.

Enjoy gifts and look good. The eleventh advanced one. The Master said: "To advance in ritual and music is like a savage; to advance in ritual and music late is to be a gentleman.

Such as ritual and music, it is to wait for a gentleman." Said: "Master, why should I hesitate?" " He said: "It is a courtesy for the country, but he refuses to give in, so he chokes on it.

Confucius said: "Restraining oneself and returning to propriety is benevolence. Once one subdues oneself and returns to propriety, the world will return to benevolence.

Does benevolence depend on oneself and not on others?" Yan Yuan said: " "Excuse me," Confucius said, "Don't look at anything that's disrespectful, don't listen to anything that's disrespectful, don't say anything that's disrespectful, and don't do anything that's disrespectful. A gentleman should be respectful and courteous.

Confucius said: "Educated in Wen, if you make an appointment with etiquette, you can also stay by your side! Confucius said: "The beauty of a gentleman is not the evil of a man." If the name is not correct, then the words will not go smoothly; if the words are not right, the things will not be accomplished; if the things are not accomplished, the rituals and music will not flourish; if the rituals and music are not flourishing, the punishments will not be correct; if the punishments are not correct, the people will do nothing wrong.

Confucius said: "What a villain, Fan Xu! If you are good at etiquette, the people will not dare to be disrespectful; if you are good at righteousness, the people will not dare to be disobedient; if you are good at trust, then the people will not dare to be disrespectful." Confucius said: "If Zang Wuzhong knew it well and did not want to be courteous, if Bian Zhuangzi had the courage, if Ran Qiu had the art, and if he wrote with etiquette and music, he could become an adult.

Confucius said: "If the etiquette is good, the people will be able to do it easily." Confucius said: "If you don't say 'what is it like, what is it like', I don't know what it is like!" Confucius said: "How difficult it is to live in groups all day long, not speaking what is right, and only practicing small wisdom!" Confucius said: "A gentleman takes righteousness as a pledge, conducts it with etiquette, develops it as a grandson, and fulfills it with faith."

It is not good to be aware of something, benevolent enough to guard it, and to look after it with care, but to move it without courtesy.

Confucius said: "If the world is Taoist, rituals and music will be conquered from the emperor; if there is no Taoism, rituals and music will be conquered from the princes."

It is beneficial to enjoy festivals, rituals and music, to enjoy the kindness of Taoists, and to enjoy many virtuous friends. That's it. When he became independent again, he came to the court and asked, "Have you learned the Rites?" Li retreated and studied "Li".

"Chen Kang retreated and said happily: "Ask one and get three. After hearing "Poetry" and "Li", I also heard that a gentleman is far away from his son. Boyu said: "Is the female name "Zhou Nan" or "Zhao Nan"? If people don't do "Zhou Nan" and "Zhao Nan", they are still standing on the wall! Confucius said: "The clouds of rites, the clouds of rites, the clouds of jade and silk?" Music clouds music clouds, bells and drums clouds and clouds? Confucius said: "The appearance is sharp but the inside is soft, just like the villains, they are like thieves who pass through the nest!" Confucius said: "The countryside is a thief of virtue."

If a gentleman does not practice propriety for three years, his etiquette will be ruined; if he does not practice happiness for three years, his happiness will collapse. Zigong asked: "Do gentlemen also have evil?" Confucius said: "There are evils: those who hate calling others evil, those who live in low places and talk to those above them, those who are brave and rude, and those who are bold and suffocating.

Confucius said: "If you don't know destiny, you can't be a gentleman; if you don't know etiquette, you can't stand up; if you don't know words, you can't understand people

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6. Famous quotes and idioms about civilized etiquette

If you don’t learn etiquette, you can’t stand up ----- Confucius

●Through etiquette can calm people down (Jouber)

●The bigger the title, the more complicated the etiquette (Tennyson)

●Life is short, but despite this, people still have time to pay attention to etiquette (爱生生)

●If you value etiquette higher than the moon, you will lose the sincere trust between people (Bacon)

●Etiquette is a layer of decoration on top of all his other virtues. , to make them useful to him, to gain for him the respect and favor of all those close to him (Locke)

●Holding a grand funeral is not so much to mourn the deceased as to satisfy The Vanity of the Living (La Rochefoucauld)

●Human faces have never looked so worldly as at funerals (Jo Edgeworth)

●A person If he pays attention to the activities on the street, I believe he will find the happiest expression on the hearse (Jo Swift)

●What people value most is privilege, even if it is to preside over a funeral Privilege (Jenn. Ra. Lowell)

●Rituals are the ultimate form of humanity (Xunzi)

●In order to govern the people, one must not be good at etiquette (The Classic of Filial Piety)

●Tao teaches virtue and harmonizes it with etiquette (The Analects)

●If you don’t learn etiquette, you can’t establish it (The Analects)

●Etiquette governs the country. Determine the country, order the people, and benefit the heirs (Zuo Zhuan)

●Rituals are the scriptures of heaven and the conduct of the people (Zuo Zhuan)

●If people are rude, they will not be born. , things will fail if you are not polite, and the country will be restless if you are not polite (Xunzi)

●People will be safe if they are polite, but they will be in danger if they are not polite (Book of Rites)

●Rituals are used to perform righteousness, Righteousness brings benefits and benefit the common people, which is the key to governance (Zuo Zhuan)

●Rituals, justice and integrity are the four dimensions of a country. If the four dimensions are not maintained, the country will perish (Guanzi)

●Food and clothing are the four dimensions of a country. To improve people's livelihood, etiquette and righteousness nourish their hearts (Yuan·Xu Heng)

●Rituals and righteousness are born from wealth, while theft arises from poverty (Han·Wang Fu)