The way of life, that is, the skill of adapting, should not be paranoid? The same is true of the way of using troops. It is important to improvise.-Sima Yi
Being a man, magnanimity can accomplish great things! -Sima Yi
(Zhuge Liang) Bright ambition is great, but he doesn't see the opportunity. He plans more, but decides less. He is a good soldier and has no right. Although he has raised hundreds of soldiers, he has fallen into my painting and will be broken. -Sima Yi
The secret of success is enthusiasm and persistence.
any subject is profoundly one-sided.
People's prejudices all come from their own areas of expertise.
I eat more salt than you eat rice, I cross more bridges than you walk, and I see more ghosts than you do.
When judging this person, we can see his consistency, his consistent ideas, consistent behaviors and consistent thinking patterns. Through consistent behaviors, we can know what this person is like.
there must be an unexpected secret behind the abnormal behavior.
Sima Yi's strategies in "Empty City Plan" are as follows: 1. Not seeking the best, but seeking satisfaction; 2. The choice without regrets is a good choice; 3. Never fall into the options prepared by others.
better be a good enemy. Doing things is not 1% perfect, only 1% wrong.
Regret is the shadow of choice, and regret is the companion of life.
knowing yourself is called understanding; Accept yourself, this is called waking up; Admit yourself, this is called courage. Only when a person has these three rules can he be in an invincible position.
Being able to fight is courage, and being able to retreat is wisdom. Life is like running high-speed, drivers should remember that knowing how to step on the accelerator is called strength, and knowing how to step on the brakes is called wisdom.
the closest to success is the greatest risk, and when the situation is excellent, mistakes are most likely to be made.
a person is also the easiest to be caught by others when doing what he is best at.
the blade of a knife is the easiest to break, the tip of a gun is the easiest to wear, and the backbone of a team is the most vulnerable. Therefore, as a team leader, we must learn to protect the blade, the gun tip and the outstanding people.
to live a good life, we must deal with the relationship with the "four seniors". Which "four seniors"? It is dad, teacher, boss and wife. When I was young, I handled my relationship with my father. When I went to school, I handled my relationship with my teacher. When I worked, I handled my relationship with my boss. When I got married, I handled my relationship with my wife. If the relationship between the "four seniors" is handled well, then this day will be happy.
any major success is ultimately the success of employing people. Similarly, any major failure, in the final analysis, is the failure of employing people.
the six-character motto of handling the relationship with leaders: to deal with suspicious leaders, be diligent, conscientious and patient; To deal with leaders who hold grudges, we should be modest, warm and secret.
There are three taboos in working with leaders: avoid leakage; Avoid being frivolous; Avoid cheating.
Wear tight hoops for the able, draw cakes for the mediocre, strengthen the restraint for those who are capable, and seriously guide those who are not.
If someone plays a joke on you on a formal occasion, or greets you in a very casual manner, it only means that this person wants to show in public that his relationship with you is unusual and different from ordinary people.
when you cater to others and take care of their feelings, you can't lose the basic principles of being a man and doing things. We can't cater to others without principle.
Truth is simple, sincerity is simple, and true beauty has simple forms. The more the truth is, the simpler it is. A person with high skills can tell the truth in simple language, which is called true wisdom.
it's really good to have skills, but it's not good to show off skills. Showing off one's skills is frivolous when it's small, and sinister when it's big.
there are two special things not to do when giving advice to leaders: the first is to expose the shortcomings of leaders severely, and the second is to probe the leaders' minds accurately.
methods to deal with emergencies: 1. judge ahead of time and make contradictions public; 2. Confirm authority and act reasonably; 3. Borrow people to take advantage of the situation and make a quick decision.
authority is inversely proportional to the sensitivity of interpersonal relationships. The more authoritative you are, the less you need to care about interpersonal relationships. The less authority you have, the more you care about interpersonal relationships.
authority means freedom, and the degree of freedom is as wide as the authority. A person with ability loses his temper, which is called personality. If you don't have the ability, you dare to lose your temper, which is called death.
Use values to control high people, use systems to control ordinary people, and use people to stare at small people.
In this life, people have triumphed when the wind is smooth, which is not a skill. When they go against the wind and go against the water, they can have a normal mentality, find a way out, and stay calm in times of crisis. This is a skill.
once people have bad emotions, the quality of decision-making and action will obviously decline. The three most common situations: sadness, excitement and fatigue.
"fulcrum strategy" (hedgehog rule): in a complex situation, if you can't judge and analyze the situation clearly, you will implement your most basic and safest strategy.
There are three strategies to stabilize the morale and mood of the troops: 1. Keep consistent and introduce authority; 2, with the help of hints, export confidence; 3. Adjust your mood and give a reasonable explanation.
Psychological suggestion in daily work must have three specific characteristics and skills: 1. Short and powerful, not too long; 2. Positive; 3. Strong affirmation.
in many cases, success is not a matter of resources, but a matter of confidence. People with resources still fail if they have no confidence.
If you are unhappy, you pretend to be happy. If you pretend for a long time, you are really happy. If you are not smart, you pretend to be smart. If you pretend for a long time, you are really smart. Of course, if you pretend to be stupid for a long time, you are really stupid.
success starts from the heart. A real winner must have strong psychological energy from the beginning in his inner world, and believe that he will succeed, even if he encounters more hardships, he will not lose confidence! Success is a heartfelt belief.
forgive others' unforgivability, understand others' incomprehension, and accept others' disapproval. Only in this way can we be leaders.
Four positive ways to deal with failures and setbacks: 1. Improvement; 2. Substitution; 3. Rationalization; 4. Sublimation.
failure is the nourishment of life, and frustration is the cornerstone of progress. Successful people will transform, turning setbacks and failures into motivation for progress and nutrition for life.
There are three advantages of praising your opponent: 1. Show your mind; 2. Leave room; 3. Invisible boasting.
If you compare down, you will feel happy, and if you compare around, you will feel enterprising. If you always compare up, you will feel more and more lost. If you compare up, you will suffer internal injuries. Therefore, people must be good at adjusting their mentality in order to live comfortably.
In the face of complex contradictions and fierce conflicts, we should learn to behave and speak in block letters instead of cursive writing.
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