Kindness is used to counteract fierceness, fierceness is used to counteract lenientness, and government is based on harmony.

The will is as strong as iron and the strength is as large as the sea.

Only by respecting others can others be respected.

Those who cannot tolerate others do not deserve to be tolerated by others. ——(Russia) Turgenev

A great man has two hearts: one heart that bleeds, and one heart that is tolerant. ——(Lebanon) Gibran

Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others. ——"Mencius Li Lou Xia"

The famous writer Fang Long once quoted the definition of tolerance from the Encyclopedia Britannica in his famous book "Tolerance": Tolerance means allowing others to act or judge freely; patience And tolerate without prejudice opinions that are inconsistent with one's own views or accepted views. The definition of tolerance in my country's modern Chinese dictionary is: being generous and magnanimous, without caring or pursuing.

1. Tolerating others is actually tolerating ourselves. Being more tolerant of others actually gives us a little more space in our lives. A life with friends will provide love and support, and there will be no loneliness and loneliness; a life with friends will have less wind and rain, and more warmth and sunshine. In fact, tolerance is always a sunny day.

2. Tolerance is to forget. Everyone has pain and scars. Every time you open them, new ones will be added. Old scars and new wounds are difficult to heal. Forget yesterday's right and wrong, forget other people's previous accusations and abuses against you, time is a good analgesic. Learn to forget, only then can life have sunshine and joy.

3. Tolerance means not caring and letting things pass. Everyone has mistakes. If you stick to your past mistakes, you will form ideological baggage, distrust, grudges, and inability to let go, which limits your own thinking and the development of the other party. Even betrayal is not intolerable. Those who can withstand betrayal are the strongest people, and will take the initiative in the atmosphere with their strong will. Their majesty can give people more confidence and motivation, and therefore they can better prevent or reduce betrayal.

4. Tolerance is chic. "Green poplars everywhere are good for horses, and every family has a road to Chang'an." Treating others generously and tolerating criticism is the way to a successful career and a happy family. Worrying about everything, worrying about gains and losses, life is tiring. It is rare to walk in this world, and the most important thing is to be free and unrestrained.

5. Tolerance is a kind of strength, not weakness. Tolerance requires retreat and active defense. The concession reflected in tolerance is purposeful and planned, and the initiative is in one's own hands. Helplessness and necessity cannot be considered tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all living beings.

6. Tolerance means not forcing yourself when others disagree with you. From a psychological perspective, every idea has its origin. Every motivation has certain inducements. By understanding the root of the other party's ideas and finding the basis for their opinions, you will be able to put yourself in their shoes, and the proposed plan will be more in line with the other party's psychology and be accepted. Eliminating obstacles and confrontations is the only way to improve efficiency. Everyone has their own views and experiences on life. We must respect their knowledge and experience, actively absorb the essence of each other, and make good efforts to discard them.

7. Tolerance is patience. Criticism from peers, misunderstandings from friends, excessive arguments and "counterattacks" are not worthwhile. Only calmness, patience and understanding are the most important. I believe in this famous saying: "Tolerance is the grain that grows among thorns." If you can take a step back, the world will naturally become wider.

8. Tolerance also requires skills. Giving a chance does not mean condoning, nor does it exempt the other party from responsibility. Everyone needs to be responsible for their own actions; everyone must bear various consequences. Otherwise, the other party will make the forbidden mistake again and again, showing weakness.

9. Aphorisms about tolerance:

The violet leaves its fragrance on the ankle that crushed it. This is forgiveness and anger. ——Mark Twain

The way of a gentleman is to be loyal and forgiving. Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you. I do not want others to do to me, and I do not want to do to others.

(The Analects of Confucius)

Mountain Tai does not allow soil, so it can become big; rivers and seas do not allow small streams, so it can become deep. (Li Si)

“Tolerance is like the drizzle from the sky that nourishes the earth. It blesses the tolerant and the tolerated. ——A passage from Shakespeare’s famous play The Merchant of Venice Lines

●Tolerance is the only test of civilization (Helpers)

●The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to tolerate (William James)

●The magnanimous spirit is the greatest of all things (Owen)

●There are many occasions in life when the goal you intend to achieve with resentment is entirely possible with forgiveness, it is entirely possible Achieved by forgiveness----(Sidney Smith)

●Sincerely forgive, and then forget it (UK)

●Forgiveness is human nature, and forgetting is Divine (James Grant)

●Tolerant people are the most impatient, and people with strong tolerance are the least tolerant (Bernay)

●The noblest revenge is tolerance (Hugo)

●Those who live without tolerance are not worthy of tolerance from others. But who can say that there is no need for tolerance? (Turgenev)

●God of justice, tolerance is the most perfect thing we can do (Wordsworth)

●Only brave people know how to tolerate; cowards will never tolerate, this is not him The nature of others (Stern)

●Tolerance is either good for people or harmful to people (Burke)

●It hurts others’ teeth and eyes, but opposes retaliation and advocates tolerance. Don't get close to him----(Lu Xun)

● Want to be gentle and smooth, don't want to observe but be clear and clear

●Let a hundred flowers bloom , a hundred schools of thought contend

●Strictness is love, laxity is harm, indifference will turn bad

●Pampering is harm, strictness is love

●Teach you If I love you, if I spoil you, I will harm you

●The depth of love comes with the severity of responsibility (France)

●A lax family attracts thieves, and a lax person invites danger

●If the teaching is not strict, the teacher will become a master

●If you want to be a square, the rules must be strict

●A gentleman loves others with virtue, and a villain loves others with tolerance

●Be lenient to those who take responsibility, and be strict with yourself

●Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others

●Forgive others with affection and discipline yourself with reason

●Rebuke yourself with the same mind that blames others, forgive others with the same mind that forgives yourself

●Forgive others as much as possible, but never forgive yourself (Silas)

●You must let go when you have to, and spare others when you have to.

●People should not be able to get sick if they are not as good as others (Xue Xuan, Ming Dynasty)

●People should Tolerate each other: Everyone has a weakness, and in his weakest point, everyone can be cut to pieces (Keats)

●In order to live in harmony with all men and women, we must allow Everyone maintains his or her own individuality (Schopenhauer)

●To be generous is to complement the fierce, and to be generous is to be generous, and to be generous and fierce is to complement each other (Zuo Zhuan)

●To be generous and fierce is to complement, Pay equal attention to kindness and power

●The combination of generosity and fierceness can achieve success

●Tolerant but firm, strict but gentle

●The way to govern a country depends on fierceness Kuan Dezhong (Zhu Xi of the Song Dynasty)