The so-called cautious independence means being cautious when others can't see it; You can stay awake when others can't hear you. If you want to see yourself better, you must be self-disciplined. Self-discipline must learn to restrain oneself without supervision. A gentleman is cautious and independent, and "cautious and independent" refers to self-discipline from "superego", strictly restraining himself and striving to become the person he wants to be.
For thousands of years, "cautious independence", as the highest state of self-cultivation, has been on the lips of China people. The word "cautious independence" comes from the Confucian book The Doctrine of the Mean in the Qin and Han Dynasties: "A gentleman is cautious about not seeing what he sees, which is probably unheard of. If you don't see it, you don't show it, so the gentleman is cautious. "
Famous sayings about prudence and independence
1, clean and honest, set an example, be cautious and self-respecting.
2, don't bully yourself inside, don't bully others outside, and don't bully the sky outside, so a gentleman should be cautious.
3. Keep in mind the purpose and keep your true colors forever; Prudence, prudence from beginning to end, self-discipline, and pride in dedication.
4, cautious and cautious, cautious and independent, thinking and doing things.
5. Prudent independence leads to peace of mind, respect leads to strength, kindness leads to pleasure, and hard work leads to admiration.