1). Advise people to cherish their time

Black-haired people don’t know how to study hard early, white-headed people regret studying late

It is easy for a young man to learn and grow old, and an inch of time should not be taken lightly.

An inch of time is worth an inch of gold, it is difficult to buy money and save time

If a young man does not work hard, he will be sad

(2). Warning people to be honest

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1. Those who are not strong in ambition are not wise, and those who do not believe in their words will not achieve results.

--Mo Zhai, a thinker of the Warring States Period

2. Internal and external correspondence, words and deeds should be consistent.

--Han Fei, philosopher and educator of the Warring States Period

3. Goodness does not come from outside, and the name cannot be made in vain.

--Qu Yuan, a poet of the Warring States Period

4. The true is the most sincere. Without sincerity, it cannot move people.

--Zhuang Zhou, a philosopher of the Warring States Period

5. If a person breaks his trust, his reputation will be ruined.

--Liu Xiang, a Confucian scholar of the Han Dynasty

6. Hypocrisy cannot last, emptiness cannot last, rotten wood cannot be carved, and love cannot last.

--Han Ying, a poetry critic of the Han Dynasty

7. If you accept someone with a letter, the world will trust you; if you don’t accept someone with a letter, your wife will be suspicious of you.

--Chang Quan, a hermit of the Jin Dynasty

8. A person cannot stand in the world without loyalty.

--Cheng Yi, a philosopher of the Song Dynasty

9. More virtuality is worse than less reality.

--Chen Fu, a philosopher of the Song Dynasty

10. Treating others with truthfulness not only benefits others, but also benefits yourself.

--Yang Jian, scholar of Song Dynasty

11. Honesty is the lifeblood of life and the foundation of all values.

--Dreiser, British writer

12. Be loyal in words and respectful in deeds.

--The Analects of Confucius

13. Deceiving can only be temporary, but honesty is a long-term solution.

--John Ray, British scholar

14. Life cannot bloom brilliant flowers from lies.

--Heine, German poet

15. Honesty is the most touching thing.

16. If you can be true to yourself, you can be true to others, just like night follows day and shadow follows body shape.

--Shakespeare, British dramatist

17. How can there be dignity without honesty?

--Cicero, ancient Roman politician

18. If a person loses honesty, he loses everything.

--Li Li, British essayist

19. Honesty is the best policy.

--Franklin

20. If people can abandon hypocrisy, they will gain great peace of mind.

--Mark Twain

“Everyone is responsible for the rise and fall of the world.” This well-known saying was first proposed by Gu Yanwu, a patriotic thinker and famous scholar in the late Ming and early Qing Dynasties. of.

Gu Yanwu has been diligent in studying since childhood. He was enlightened at the age of 6 and started reading history books and literary masterpieces at the age of 10. When he was 11 years old, his grandfather Liyuan Gong asked him to finish reading "Zi Zhi Tong Jian" and warned: "Nowadays, some people want to save trouble and think that everything is settled after just browsing a book like "Compendium" , I think this is not worthwhile." These words made Gu Yanwu realize that studying and learning is an honest thing and must be treated seriously and faithfully. Gu Yanwu studied diligently, and he adopted the measure of "self-supervision of reading": first, he set himself a number of volumes that he must read every day; second, he restricted himself to copying the books he read after reading every day. After he finished reading "Zi Zhi Tong Jian", one book became two books; again, he required himself to take notes and write down his experiences every time he read a book. Some of his reading notes were later compiled into the famous "Rizhilu"; finally, every spring and autumn, he would review the books he had read in the first half of the year, reciting them silently and inviting others to read them aloud, and discovered the differences. Check immediately. He stipulated that he should review 200 pages of classes in this way every day. He would never finish the review and never take a break.

"Touched", according to the dictionary, refers to sympathy, admiration, respect, and excitement caused by thoughts and feelings influenced by the outside world. This is a topic that is both familiar and unfamiliar. We are said to be familiar because we are often shocked by the influence of something, a certain sentence, or a certain person in life, nature, life, and society, and this sacred feeling always resides in our hearts. It’s strange because many people turn a blind eye to beautiful things, their hearts are numb, and their thoughts are decadent. In their view, this spiritual level of enjoyment is meaningless except for the pursuit of worldly material satisfaction. Today, I want to bring up this topic because I feel that we should still learn to be moved and be good at being moved, and we should also convey the move, so that our hearts are full and vivid, and our spirits are rich and noble.

1. Don’t stay away from being moved. If you are moved, you will feel happy.

Not long ago, CCTV broadcast the "Awards Gala for Touching China's Top Ten Figures", and then major newspapers published the ordinary but noble deeds of the top ten figures. The teacher was deeply moved by their deeds and could not calm down.

In particular, Mr. Xu Benyu, who gave up his postgraduate studies at public expense and went to teach in impoverished mountainous areas, and Mr. Tian Shiguo, who donated a kidney to save his mother, their deeds interpret the connotation of "righteousness" and "love". The award speech to Xu Benyu was expressed as follows: "If tears are a kind of wealth, Xu Benyu is a rich man. In the past year, he made people burst into tears. From the bustling city to the depths of the mountains, he used The immature shoulders of a newly graduated college student carried the dilapidated classroom, poverty and loneliness, and responsibilities that were not originally his. Perhaps one person's strength cannot make a child's eyes filled with sunshine and love. , was expected. Xu Benyu lit up the torch and stung people's eyes. "Mr. Tian Shiguo's award speech was like this: "A son gave a part of his life to his critically ill mother in a warm lie. The mother's life may still be fragile, but the sincerity of the filial son is as solid as a rock. He brings comfort to mothers all over the world. "After seeing such deeds and hearing such an award speech, I believe that all the students will be moved, at least. The soft parts in my heart will be touched, so I will learn about their deeds in the class meeting. But I found that a small number of students were really indifferent to such deeds and just missed being "moved". I thought that not being moved was tantamount to having no soul, even animals would be moved. "The lamb kneels down to breastfeed, and the crow feeds back" is the reward they give for being moved by maternal love. And why are some of our classmates so emotionally numb?

There is a term in psychology called "de-sanctification", which refers to the fact that young people doubt the existence of values ??and virtues because they have seen too many deceptive behaviors or suffered setbacks in life. They are unwilling to listen to other people's advice and do not believe that there are things in life that are worthy of cherishment, sacred, and have eternal significance. Instead, they wrap themselves in emptiness and indifference, and will not be moved or admired. All adolescents have a tendency to desacralize, which is one of the manifestations of adolescent rebellion. However, if the tendency to desacralize is excessive, it will affect the quality of life of young people and affect their values. This is evidenced by the frequent expressions of "boring", "depressed", "it doesn't matter" and other verbal expressions. A student once said to me: "Teacher, in this society, good people are bullied." I think he must have been influenced by too much society to say this. This student, at least so far, may not necessarily do bad things, but he will definitely not be moved, and will never do good things, because he has denied "goodness" - the essence and core of being moved. I am very worried about whether his future life path will go smoothly and whether he will be successful, because success must have a sound soul.

From a psychological point of view, if a person does not have "God", he cannot live a good life. This kind of "god" refers to the attitude towards life and nature. A person who has no love and reverence for life and nature, who is unmoved by the virtues and good deeds of respecting life, loving life, and courageous dedication, or even regards it as "stupid", will have a difficult life with value and happiness. feel. Some people say: "Xu Benyu" should be changed to "Xu Benyu", which means a "big fool". But will this person feel Teacher Xu’s happiness? Teacher Xu's happiness, from a small point of view, is that he has achieved his long-cherished wish to help others, and from a big point of view, he has won the praise and respect of the people across the country. Is this kind of happiness something ordinary people can enjoy? People who can be moved are because they have a kind and sensitive part in their hearts. Kindness is an indispensable virtue for us and the most precious spiritual wealth in our hearts. Being moved is a natural quality we should have, and it is also the link that connects our hearts. Think about it, if when a teacher carefully prepares lessons and imparts knowledge to students, he or she is faced with a pair of numb eyes; when parents are busy handing over the raised tuition fees to their children, they are faced with an impatient background; when relatives and friends What you get when you send true love is never-satisfied complaints. At that time, each other's hearts cannot communicate because there is a lack of touching in the middle. However, after all, people live in mutual influence, and communication is indispensable. Therefore, if you want to gain a foothold in society and win recognition and praise, you must not neglect communication, and of course, do not stay away from being moved. Every time you are moved is a baptism for your soul, which is a kind of power that can inspire you to make continuous progress. In a weekly diary titled “What Moves You?”, many students wrote down their different touching experiences: “For the figure of my mother who worked hard; for the encouragement of the middle school teacher; for the rise of China in the world; for the donations raised by people following the tsunami in Southeast Asia. ; for the perseverance of the deaf-mute girls who performed "Thousand-Hand Guanyin"; for the old couple holding hands to help each other" and so on. I believe that the students’ souls have been purified and their thoughts have been sublimated through all these touches.

2. Move them with your own actions

When this topic is brought up, students may say that to move others, you must have great achievements that will make people cry. How can you move others? I believe that to move others, as long as you have a kind heart, you will have inadvertent acts of kindness that will move others. For example, people send a word of comfort when they are depressed, a match when they are cold, a bouquet of flowers when they are sick, and encouragement when they are frustrated... We do not need to deliberately create any feats. , there is no need to show any extraordinary deeds, moving factors are everywhere around us, as long as we sincerely love others, we will move others. Some of this kind of touching will affect a person's life.

Because Xu Benyu grew up in poverty and received help from the villagers, he remembered his mother's words: "When others are in need, you lend a hand to help." He also implemented this sentence in In action. I have a student whose family background was not good in middle school. The class teacher mobilized everyone to donate money to her. To this day, she is still grateful for this. In her weekly diary, she stated that she would definitely repay others' kindness. Each of us will experience something worthy of touching, as long as you are not numb and have a kind heart.

In the final analysis, touching others also touches yourself. When we touch others, we will gain recognition and heartfelt admiration from others. Your words and deeds will make people trust you, and you will have a sense of accomplishment and happiness. This is the power of being moved - affecting both others and yourself.

Of course, you may say, I don’t have to move others. This is understandable, but you must learn to be moved, be good at being moved and convey your feelings, and spread the things and people worth moving widely, so that everyone can enjoy this spiritual food. In fact, there are things worth touching when you appear on campus: sacrificing your break time to publish blackboard newspapers for the class; making up lessons for students who have learning difficulties; taking care of students who have injured their legs and feet; applauding students for their progress; and serving students in the cold wind. The community brings cleanliness and warmth... We should not turn a blind eye to all of this, but should empathize with it and be moved by it. Only in this way can we have a reference as a human being, a sense of responsibility, a righteous heart, and high aspirations. This kind of infection moistens things silently. The so-called "personality charm" is a kind of spiritual power that cannot be seen but can be felt. "Personal charm" can be possessed by everyone, but it must be produced in people who can move people and are good at moving people.

Students, as long as we maintain a healthy, positive and bright attitude, be grateful for life, be confident in life, and full of longing for life, we will feel the sunshine, rain, dew, air, Blue sky, white clouds, grassland, friendship and all kinds of touching things brought by love. Let us be able to discover touching, use our actions to create touching, let our surroundings be filled with touching, and let our lives be colorful because of touching.

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