1, see regular life, regular life includes many contents. The first is to be able to go to bed early and get up early. Regular work and rest time is an important beginning for a person and a test of his self-discipline ability. People who can get up early every day must be powerful characters. The plan of the day lies in the morning, which is the golden time for everyone to open their minds, arrange their thoughts for what they want to do in the day and lay a good foundation. 2. Persisting in exercise and eating reasonably is the ultimate goal pursued by every woman, but smart women know that beauty is not only the beauty of appearance, but also the key lies in good internal organs and lungs, good living habits, good mentality and good moral cultivation. People will naturally be beautiful. It is easy to persist in exercising for a while, and it depends on your ability to exercise for decades. With the growth of age, people's functions will deteriorate and their skin will be fair and beautiful. Exercise is the best prescription. Through moderate exercise, blood circulation will be accelerated, which has many benefits to the body. There is also a reasonable diet and regular physical examination, which is also a magic weapon to maintain long-term beauty and health. 3. An economically independent and intelligent woman solves her own problems and always holds her destiny in her own hands. The biggest feature of this kind of woman is economic independence, which is the basis of a person's survival. Only when the economy is independent can we have a good living environment and a life we want. The woman who reaches out for money from others is the most humble. When her palm reached out, she was already a complete failure. Smart women are characterized by 1 and soft speech. Smart women speak very softly. Never say cruel words, never vent your anger. Speaking always leaves you room, as if you have no opinion. In fact, smart people can hear other people's needs and opinions from their words, and they can also hear their opinions. Soft does not mean unprincipled, nor does it mean that it is really not strong enough. Such a woman is independent at heart, and her words are hidden in cotton. Often swearing is laughing and scolding, scolding others for laughing silly with her. So, don't underestimate such a woman. Rouneng Ke Gang is the truth. 2. Smart women are sweet-tongued and soft-tongued, and will not be vague in handling things. But crisp and neat, leaving no trace. It is often the role that superiors attach importance to, often the trace of senior staff, and often the commander behind the scenes. Not only the talents valued by some leaders, but also the women who are "too delicate" and "difficult to deal with" in the mouth of the crowd. This kind of woman's ability to do things is rarely half that of ordinary men. Gentle and charming, the war is decided instantly. The characteristics of a smart woman. Keep yourself in the best condition. With the growth of age, women may change to varying degrees, such as getting fat and losing their shape, such as becoming a yellow-faced woman, and no longer paying attention to dressing up and maintenance. For example, there is a housewife in the conversation, which is out of touch with society. Except for her parents, her husband and mother-in-law, there is no topic to talk with others in the exchange. But a truly powerful woman will pay special attention to her own maintenance, from fitness to skin care, and she will never be perfunctory, because she knows that dressing up is not just to please men, but to make herself more beautiful and attractive. When Hua Hudie came, he put aside the connotation and left out the exterior. No one wants to calm down and get to know themselves. They will keep themselves in a self-disciplined and positive state, keep a good figure and exercise a strong body. No matter when and how old they are, even if they are no longer young, they still can't see the influence of time on them, but they have a different temperament and style. 02. Maintain ideological independence and economic independence. Women are inherently insecure, but the saddest thing is not to be unhappy with others, but to find a man to save themselves all their lives. This is extremely naive and even ignorant, just like Fan in Ode to Joy. Even if her face value is not worse than Xiaoqu and Andy, she will always be just a plaything and tool for men to relax. Smart women will understand that at any time, women's own value and strength are the real guarantee and confidence. It's better to rely on yourself than anyone else. You have your own thoughts, and you will never listen to other people's suggestions, especially the man's "I support you", but you will be able to support yourself. They will never say that I need a man for everything, because economic independence is to support my own survival, not to reverse it. 03. Keep studying and keep the habit of reading. Women who insist on studying have different temperament. A woman who keeps learning can keep pace with the times, and a woman who loves and insists on reading can be better at thinking. Therefore, all maverick, not just do sth unconventional or unorthodox, but stick to their own position and maintain their unique quality. It will be a charm that cannot be copied and imitated, and it is difficult to be surpassed. 04. Stay optimistic and don't complain. Liu Tong said: It is better to complain than to carry a lantern. May you be a light where you are, illuminating a corner of the world. Self-pity will make you feel more depressed and keep nagging and complaining. The result of the original goodwill will not only be grateful, but will be full of resentment. Everyone's life path is full of ups and downs. Smart women will not chatter because of injuries and setbacks, and they will not be possessed by their mothers for each other. It is a kind of respect and a kind of mentality to maintain their close relationship. Don't take the weight of love too seriously. It seems that love is the fatal wound of countless women, and smart women will not let themselves have enough love to drink, let alone lose their heads because of love. There are only love and men in life. Most truly powerful women will not let the weight of love occupy too much energy and time, because they know that love is just icing on the cake and should not be the main life of life. People can't sleep too late and love too much. They can always keep the right scale and keep the best condition. On the contrary, many people admire and attach themselves, and many people become ministers under her skirt, full of awe. The characteristics of a smart and powerful woman. Know how to show weakness appropriately Smart women don't always show their ability and strength everywhere. They will show weakness appropriately. Weakness is a very important skill. She doesn't represent your real weakness, but you can inspire others' wisdom and win their support and help by taking a step back. Appropriate weakness can make smart women live more easily. A female friend of mine is very good at showing weakness in front of educating children. Every time a child learns to ask her questions, she always answers, I don't know. Can you think more about it yourself? In this way, children will begin to know that they can't rely on their parents invisibly and will gradually think independently. There used to be a very important term in psychology, that is, boundary. Boundary refers to the difference between others and self. Smart women live easily because they fully understand the boundaries. She knows that children should not rely too much on her. In fact, it is to clarify the boundaries between her and her children. Learning is a child's business. Only by maximizing the way to stimulate children's self-discipline and self-study can children become more independent and excellent. 2. Know how to trust others. The second characteristic of smart women is trusting others. Compared with many women who suspect that others are unreliable, smart women know more about the power of trust, which comes from women's confidence and confidence. They know that women's sense of security comes from themselves, and choosing to trust others is actually choosing to be kind to others. Ai Shi, the founder of Mary Kay, once said that you should treat others as you want them to treat you. Trusting others doesn't mean that women lose their judgment. Trusting others is an important skill for smart women, because for women, they know that trusting others is actually more important to prevent risks. If one day even if he owes you, he actually loses himself, because he chooses to destroy your mutual trust with his own actions. It can be said that women who dare to trust others first are smart, because they inspire the greatest kindness in others with their own cleverness. That year, flowers bloom and fall, and the moon is full. An important reason why Zhou Ying became the richest woman was that she dared to trust others. Although Wang Shijun, the housekeeper, betrayed her, she later chose to trust him. Wang Shijun expressed his lifelong loyalty to Zhou Ying. Later, he kept his promise and guarded the Wu family. In fact, telling is the power of trust. 3. Know how to be sincere. The third characteristic of a smart woman is sincerity. What is sincerity? Sincerity refers to a woman's truth and sincerity. "The Doctrine of the Mean" once said that self-sincerity, that is, sex; Self-knowledge and sincerity are called teaching. Sincerity is clear, and clarity is sincere. Only when the world is sincere can we do our best; If you can do your best, you can do your best; If you can make good use of human nature, you can make good use of things; If we can make the best use of everything, we can praise the teaching of heaven and earth. This shows that when you are sincere, you can not only show your personality to the greatest extent, but also feel the movement of the earth. This is what sincerity can achieve. When we know the way of sincerity, we can often pry open everyone's hearts. Sincerity can be said to be a very important principle for smart women to be human, because when you learn to be sincere, you actually choose to show yourself the most truly, and you won't hide yourself too much, so you will maximize your personality charm. Secondly, sincere people treat others sincerely. They know that people must be together, so when they get along with you, they are full of sincerity. They won't have more interests, so it's easier to get into other people's hearts and win their love and recognition. Zhao Min in Jin Yong's novel "Eternal Dragon Slayer" is actually a very sincere person. She won Zhang Wuji's heart and later defeated Zhou Zhiruo because she was sincere and didn't care. She accompanied Zhang Wuji to this world with her heart and finally gained her happiness.