Reason 1. When getting along, just giving is not enough

Honest men are basically one-minded. Many times they will think that if they like a woman, they must treat her well. You need to be very nice to her, so that the woman will be moved, and once moved, she will be willing to fall in love with you.

They have entered into a very serious misunderstanding, that is, they think that giving is enough in love. In fact, this is not the case. Giving in love is inevitable, but giving must be responsive and correct.

If a man keeps paying for the woman he likes, but the woman doesn't respond, then it proves that the man is not the one that the woman likes, so no matter how much he pays, it will be of no use. Also, when a man gives something, he must first find out whether the woman can accept it. If the woman cannot accept it, then no matter how much he does, it will be useless.

Reason 2: Don’t understand the subtext of girls

A woman’s heart is like an autumn cloud. Just because it’s difficult to understand doesn’t mean we don’t need to understand it. "Simple, simple way of speaking!" Do you want to hum this song whenever you meet a girl who is angry? A woman's thinking takes a long time to form. Even if her reason tells her to speak simply, her words will not be true to her heart!

So, it’s just that you don’t pay attention to what girls want to express! What exactly do you want to get!

Honest men are very dull. Many times they cannot say sweet words or make women happy. Over time, women will feel that being with such men is too devoid of novelty and there is no communication and interaction.

For example, if a woman wears a new dress and asks an honest man if it looks good, the honest man will answer "Well, it looks good"

But if this matter What happens to a "scumbag" man is that before a woman asks, he will say, "Wow, my dear, I wore a new dress today. It's so beautiful." Of these two types of men, women will definitely choose the second one, because When you are with the second type of man, you will become more and more confident.

Reason 3: If you don’t understand her preferences, a woman will have no favorable impression of you

When a man pursues a woman, no matter what he does, he must understand that everything revolves around the woman. If you like to develop, no matter how much you do, it's all in vain if a woman doesn't like it. If you do a lot of things that women are not interested in, she will definitely think that you have not done your homework in advance and have not understood her preferences in advance. She will definitely give you a label of not being serious. If the initial impression is like this, then it will be even worse later on. I won't pay attention to you anymore.

An honest man must avoid emotional misunderstandings when pursuing a woman, otherwise he will just wander in circles without finding a practical way to pursue a woman.