This is not only a philosophical question that every young person should think about, but also a deep torture to himself. Youth, a word that sounds exciting. Everyone's youth has a different story, but these stories are not all beautiful, and there are also "young people don't work hard, and the old ones are sad." Regret.
I don't know how you define or characterize youth. In my opinion, both men and women can be defined as youth before the age of 35 and 3.
Youth is short. How can we live up to this beautiful youth?
If there must be an interpretation of youth, perhaps "years of struggle" is more appropriate.
I didn't talk about a few more love affairs, but I went to a few more cities to live up to my youth. I think the stories of struggle are more important in the youth.
I am a child who came out of the countryside. I believe many of you are like me, either from the countryside or from the small county town in your hometown. In short, we all had extraordinary dreams when we were poor teenagers. We tried our best to finish primary school, junior high school and senior high school, and finally yue longmen was admitted to the university. After decades of studying hard at the cold window, I can finally show my talents and make great achievements. The fact is that I finally fell silent and finally got hurt.
why is the plot so reversed? Is it true that times have changed?
I have interviewed many college students, including my own children who have many relatives. There is no such thing as a burning passion. I asked them to talk about their feelings about the university, but no one told me that his university was a struggling university and his years were full years.
boredom, emptiness, loneliness and irritability. . .
These are the words I have heard the most. Why did we work so hard in middle school and suddenly become lazy and melodramatic in college?
This is not entirely due to the educational model, but more to the problem of thinking. The way of thinking determines the way out, which is always a wise saying.
After ten years of cold window, we stayed up all night studying hard, and finally the spring breeze was shining, to be no.1. The reason for success is not only hard work, but more importantly, the obsession of "being admitted to a university".
as soon as I stepped into the university, a goal was achieved, and my heart suddenly became empty. Why? Because there is no next goal in mind. I believe that friends who have seen martial arts dramas know that there are always chivalrous men in the drama who have been practicing martial arts since childhood. After decades of spring and summer, they once found an enemy to avenge their father's death, and suddenly God began to feel deeply lonely. Because for many years, the only motivation to support him to live is revenge. What about after revenge? Never thought about it before, and never thought about it now.
So, I haven't had such a strong motivation since college. As everyone knows, the student days are only the beginning of life, and the real society and life will be faced in the future.
after all this talk, you must feel another bowl of chicken soup. Then you must not understand it, because this article is worth millions.
If you are a college student or a kid who is going to college, you must not think that college is the end of your struggle. You know, there will never be an end to your struggle!
well, after cooking the chicken soup, let's have another handful of dry goods!
College is the most relaxed and leisurely time in my life, and it can be said that only nonsense is left. Everyone is very idle, and you follow the crowd, so you are still an ordinary person like everyone else.
success requires a quality, and the important things are said three times:
self-discipline, self-discipline and self-discipline. . .
You can hide in the library to read books, look up materials or exercise in the electronic reading room when others are busy playing games, running over the road or sleeping in the dormitory. Even if I go out to do some part-time work like I did, it will be good, at least I can earn some pocket money. Don't feel humiliated or that the cost performance is too low. You have no ability and are not qualified. What is the cost performance?
College life is the best alchemy, and it is also a precious time to widen the gap between you and your peers. Don't talk about study, just say two most precious things: time and friends. During three or four years of college, you have plenty of time to study and exercise, which is enough to turn you from an ugly duckling into a white swan. Let's talk about friends. Many people have this understanding. He thinks that the fact that he has many strong friends in college is not meaningful in itself, and it is just a waste of energy and money.
is this really the case?
College classmates or friends are of inestimable value to our future life development. I have made many friends in my college days, and they are often in contact with each other in my future work and life. Of course, some of them have helped me when I needed them. Therefore, whether they are my college classmates or friends I met in those years, they are the most precious wealth in my life. Don't be stingy with your feelings when you treat your good friends in college. Give them the best friendship and you will benefit for life. If you haven't realized this, I'm sorry, your youth is really a failure!
well, let's talk about those things that are already office workers.
Walking out of campus means that there is no shelter from your alma mater, and your classmates all go their separate ways. More often, you can only rely on yourself. Loneliness is inevitable, but it is also the beginning of your real struggle.
worldly success is nothing more than fame, status and money. It's a pity that we are all ordinary people, and no one can avoid customs, so try to be an awesome ordinary person!
I left the campus and started career life. In the first few years, you must learn to lower your posture. The Book of Changes says: "Don't use a hidden dragon/a gentleman works all day, and if he is diligent in the evening, there is no blame." It's about young people in this period, who have just entered the society. To put it bluntly, they are wet behind the ears. Don't be afraid of tigers when they are born, but be cautious and cautious again. You are very stingy. You should accept your own food, be humble, learn from experienced classmates or elders and know how to be grateful. Only in this way, leaders will like you, old employees will be willing to take you, and you can gain a foothold.
when you are young, don't try to be comfortable, you should strive and strive. Only in this way can we have value, full of memories, and live up to our youth and life.
Personally, I boast that I work hard and stay up late countless times. Of course, I know it's bad for my health, but I often have no choice in order to complete the task with good quality and quantity. In order to keep healthy, I will choose to pay attention to diet and exercise frequently. I like this feeling of struggle, which makes me feel full and makes my future full of hope.
Our youth is only once, and if we lose it, we will lose it forever. Why not give it a shot while you are still young? Work hard and live hard, and every struggling life will eventually bloom brilliantly.