first, the truth is best said, without thinking, how to express it is true; Lies are the most difficult to tell, and you can't make them up tightly, so you accidentally let them out. Deliberate affectation is also very difficult, and how to do it is not like a real thing. Therefore, the husband doesn't have to find his own guilt, embarrass himself, and eventually lose his wife's trust. Therefore, it is the most powerful and confident performance for men to be true and true. Second, profound Many intellectuals and older young men and women feel the same way with me: it is precisely because there are few profound men that men are the most attractive. "Deep thinking" is more attractive than 1.8, than the academic ability of graduate students, than the title of director and minister, and than the banknotes of ten thousand households. Third, a husband with a heart makes his wife feel at ease and grateful for safety. Therefore, life is relatively easy at ordinary times, and they are rarely afraid of anything, and they can fully show their inner world, because they are confident that even if they think wrong or do wrong, their husbands will not hold on to it and will not forgive. Fourth, dare to be a man's crucial quality is to dare to do something. Men's philosophy is action philosophy. Men should dare to put their ideas into action, instead of sitting around and shouting like the lame. You can't be like a scholar, you can only talk on paper. Courage includes: dare to think, dare to speak, dare to do, dare to win, dare to lose, dare to love, dare to hate, dare to fight, and especially can fight, "a gentleman dares to do and dare to do". 5. Manner is also very important. No matter how good the moral character is, no matter how correct the style is, no matter how noble the inner world is, it is difficult to impress a woman's heart without manners, but manners do not exclude personality. Manner is related to people's temperament, which depends on physical quality, represents a person's personality tendency, and has a great relationship with occupation. For men, grace is a kind of mature beauty, and women appreciate men's maturity most. 6. Clever and good women like "bad men". The more honky and clever, the more loved. Isn't there a traditional saying that "men are not bad and women don't love them"? The charm of "bad" boys lies in their mystery. They do strange things and don't give much explanation. The process of thinking about problems does not tell the whole story, but only gives people the final conclusion. Such a clever husband makes his wife feel profound, and this "ghost spirit" strength of men, together with their good qualities, will be a powerful attraction to women. Humor British Prime Minister Winston Churchill famously said, "Unless you understand the funniest thing in the world, you can't solve the most difficult problem." Very funny husbands are mostly very optimistic people. With a positive attitude towards life and indomitable spirit, such a husband will never frown when he is frustrated and encounters adversity. He still jokes and makes others laugh, so that people do not feel the pressure of adversity, making a heavy life look relaxed and reducing troubles. Eight, enterprising As the saying goes, people go upwards and water flows downwards. This is also a matter of enterprise. People living in this world always have to do something, especially men. A great philosopher once said: Smart people create more opportunities than they find. A man's enterprising spirit should be manifested in every moment of his life. On every brick paved on the avenue of life, three words are written: starting point. Man, it's never too late to start. The key is to be enterprising. Nine, romantic Carnegie's book "The Road to Success", there is such a famous saying: Many romantic dreams have caused more than 5% of marriages to be unhappy. Isn't it often said that "marriage is the grave of love"? The great difference between married couples' life and love is the lack of romance. I think a good husband should be romantic, and this romantic husband is very attractive. X. Adventure Some people say that there is only one mode of success: adventure. Compared with men, women are less adventurous, but they hope that they and their husbands dare to take risks. Wives like adventurous husbands, because it will have a mysterious, dangerous and exploratory meaning, which will make people fascinated, so that their wives' "curiosity" can be satisfied and they will feel "exciting enough" to make women infatuated.