All virtues put filial piety first, and Confucius believed that filial piety was the foundation of benevolence. Filial piety is not only to support the elderly, but also to respect parents and elders, which is an attitude problem. If you only support disrespect, it is no different from raising animals. If a person does not even show filial piety to his parents, but respects others, it is not normal, so first look at whether a person's character is filial.

2. hey

Praise refers to love for brothers and sisters, which is a supplement to filial piety. Besides your parents, your closest relatives are your brothers and sisters. If you are not friendly to your brothers and sisters, you will certainly not be friendly to others. Even if you are friendly on the surface, it is an attempt, not true.

Step 3 be loyal

The center is loyalty, and people are sincere, sincere and upright. This is called loyalty. This is a necessary character, not the concept of loyalty to the monarch that many of us misunderstand. You should be loyal not only to the monarch, but also to your relatives and friends. With this kind of personality, you can stand in the society and have good interpersonal relationships.

Step 4 forgive

If the heart is tolerant, simply speaking, it means caring for others and considering problems from others' standpoint. Now it's called empathy. Forgiveness is not the same as forgiveness. Forgiveness emphasizes forgiveness, tolerance and forgiveness, not forgiveness.

5, benevolence

Love yourself is the core theory of Confucius' ideological system, so when we talk about Confucianism, we often take benevolence as the representative.