Quotations from Tu Lei
If you love, stay; If you don't love, leave.
Always think about each other's good, and learn to be grateful.
When women's motherhood is rampant, men's love is almost zero. Because he is only grateful to you and has no love.
Emotional matters are your own business.
If you manage this thing well, your investment will pay off. But if it's just a risk, it's not an investment, it's stealing chickens and dogs. The consequence of stealing chickens is that stealing chickens costs nothing.
Lies can easily get better and better, because lies are better than reality, but lies are like dominoes. It takes ten lies to tell one lie, and it's hard to extricate yourself in the end.
Beauty and ugliness in marriage can not be matched, wealth can be unequal, but loyalty must be equal.
Extremely selfish people just want to be loved and don't want to love others; Only yourself, no one else.
Almost all happy marriages are negotiated and measured, and all suspicious marriages are deliberately concealed.
Whether a woman really loves you depends on whether she is willing to accompany you when you are hungry and cold; Whether a man really loves you depends on whether he still takes good care of you in the spring breeze.
Battle of Love, Tu Lei.
Save three lives a day, whether it's career, work or life, so is love. When both sides are particularly impulsive, calm down and come from the province, and often get more results.
Every life is incomplete, there is no need to make too many comparisons, every life is interesting, there is no need to be completely unified, natural selection may not make the strong survive, you can easily understand and enjoy the perfect process.
A man's responsibility to a woman is a lifelong dependence. He often holds his woman in his arms like a daughter, and you will feel all the responsibilities of a man!
Men are often recognized.
You said that life is a long road, with infinitely many forks in the road, and you are always making choices. If you just choose to eat fried noodles or fried rice, it doesn't seem to have much impact, but each choice has a far-reaching impact. Different choices will definitely create a completely different life. You also said that the unbearable feeling of life lies in the fact that life has no chance to start again. If I had done what I did, I wouldn't have done what I am doing now. I don't want to say anything more. Every fork has no real choice between good and bad, just take life as yourself. Unique creation, if you make different choices, you won't look back often.
You once bought a favorite dress, reluctant to wear it, and solemnly treasured it in the closet; It's been a long time, and when I look at it again, I find it is out of date. So, you missed it. You have bought beautiful cakes before, but you can't bear to eat them. They are solemnly enshrined in the refrigerator. It's been a long time, and when I look at it again, I find it has expired. So, you also missed it. It's a pity that you don't have clothes on you when you love it best, and a cake that tastes tasteless when it's delicious, just like what you didn't do when you wanted to do it most. Life also has a shelf life, so you should do what you want as soon as possible. If you just solemnly enshrine your wishes in your heart, but never carry them out, then the only result is to miss them, just like that outdated dress, just like that expired cake.
Age is not a problem, height is not a distance, but distance is really a problem. Moreover, in the process of keeping their distance, it is mostly boys who often can't stand loneliness. That's because too many girls indulge them. The basis of human existence in this society is tolerance. But only love must be selfish in loyalty. If there is no selfishness, any true feelings will become insincere.
As for motherhood and daughters, women have no wives by nature.
Tu Lei Plan
Women's sense of security based on marriage comes from emotion, while men's sense of security for marriage comes from material things.
Women are far away from home because men, so the success rate of such love is very low.
A woman's real unrequited love is to ignore you at all.
In fact, girls rely on intuition and sense of smell, and boys always think they are unconscious. Now that girls are so determined, boys will regret why they always know later.
In fact, life is constantly compromising, weighing, letting go, and pursuing the greatest pleasure.
Remember, there must be each other in the process of love. Only there. Without this, there would be no communication and no interaction.
Heart-and-soul efforts can be moved, but not necessarily. The companionship of getting along day and night may produce feelings, but not necessarily love. Don't lose yourself to love.
Everyone has one thing in common: greed and vanity. Greed wants more, vanity is afraid that others know less. But in a sense, this commonality has also made many people's lives, and of course it has also destroyed many people's lives. In the process of success and destruction, how many people became heroes, but how many people died for it.
Life is suffering, arrival in the cry of self, death in the cry of relatives!
Changes in life, such as fleeting time, totem of love, spread of love. Love is gradually infiltrated, not instilled.
Tu Lei
The greatest happiness in life is to find that the person you love is also loving you, simply being together. Everything is worth it for this.
When people are in adversity, they will think that I will always be unlucky; But when life is good, few people ask themselves why I am lucky. This is human selfishness.
Any gambler breeds because the companions beside him also have the commonness of gamblers.
If the husband and wife can't get together because of the values of life, it's called difference and there is no common goal; But if you can't walk together because of food, clothing, housing and transportation, it can only explain one problem, not enough love.
If marriage is pessimistic from the beginning, that is, the guarantee to prevent divorce in the future, then this marriage will certainly not go far.
If you love, please love deeply, if you abandon it, please be thorough, don't be ambiguous, and hurt others. Besides, I want to tell you that every lover is not perfect. This boy can give you loyalty, another boy can give you romance, and another boy can give you wealth, but a person's real happiness is not to get more, but to care less. Maybe your love life will be smoother in the future.
Survival is just a skill, and life is the purpose.
Being born in a lover's arms is a kind of happiness, and dying in a lover's arms is an eternity.
I don't like to do prepared programs, but I like to send them casually! Doing the program step by step, although perfect, is too fake. Just like vulgarity is true, elegance is false!
Tu Lei
We are always good at hurting those who love us, because we can't hurt those who don't love us at all; We are always willing to be hurt by people we love, because I love them.
I have been thinking about a question, which needs to be recognized more and which needs to be understood more? The two are different, and being recognized can bring you a sense of existence and pride; Being understood will bring you happiness.
Regardless of illness, regardless of life and death, there is love in the heart, and everything is there.
Happiness is simple, that is, being together.
The beauty of a woman lies not in whether you are beautiful in the eyes of others, but in whether you are beautiful in the hearts of others.
There was a time when you were so depressed that you didn't even bother to look at the sunshine outside the window. So of course, you forgot to look at the basin of Margaret on the windowsill that needs to drink water every day. So I don't know how long it took. Finally, one day, you passed the emotional trough and remembered your Margaret. God, poor flower, is she still alive? You opened the curtains with trepidation, only to see her swaying in the wind and with a beautiful face. It turns out that in the past few days, although you forgot to feed her water, God did not forget to take care of her with rain and dew. Many things go on quietly outside your sight, and arrange yourself quietly. Everything is born, everything is born naturally. There is no need to worry about everything ... all you have to do is be yourself and leave no regrets.
Sometimes, people are just too happy, so something happens. It is those who help each other to move forward together, and those who stumble can go further.
In love life, the person who bears all the pain alone is the most stupid person, because you question your other half, he can't share the responsibility with you, and you deprive him of the right to share those responsibilities with you. I appreciate those couples who do business and measure. Maybe they are often noisy, but that is the real life. Real life is to face and advance and retreat together, let alone your boyfriend.
Tu Lei's Classic Quotations
When you fall to the bottom of your life, people around you tell you to be strong and happy. Being strong is absolutely necessary, but being happy? I'm afraid it's too difficult for you in this case. After all, who can feel happy when he falls badly? But at least you can calm down. Look at this matter calmly and deal with other things that should be handled calmly. Calm, no pleasure, no unhappiness.
In this world, the most precious things are often free, the air is free, the true feelings are free, and trust, loyalty, understanding and so on are all free. Lovely people often pursue some paid things and ignore these free and precious things.
On this day, you are unhappy, just because someone's words hurt you. You don't like quarreling, so leave; But you just left there, but you didn't leave the situation where you were hurt by that person, so the more you think about it, the angrier you get. The more angry you are, the less strength you have to pay attention to other things. Many events that you should do and think with your heart are ignored and omitted in your restless mind. That's why you are single-minded and angry. Emotional fuss is a waste of self and a very bad waste. After all, it takes effort to get angry, and it is definitely debilitating. So, as smart as you are, don't let your emotions control you. Before you get angry again, you might as well remind yourself softly, "Don't waste it."
Because thinking too much often complicates life. Obviously you live in the present, but you are always obsessed with the past and worried about the future; Insist on carrying the past, the future and the present. Of course, your life is only a drag. Simplicity is a welcome state. Simply feel the weather changes with your skin, simply taste the fragrance of grass after rain with your nose, and simply take pictures of distant mountains with your eyes. Simply live in the present. Now it really doesn't matter whether it's true or not. Since there is no right or wrong, there is no need to think; If there is no truth, there is no need to forget and worry. Isn't it just like dreaming? Yes, just think of life as a dream.
What you love is not necessarily what you are good at, nor what you are good at is necessarily what you love. When you find that you are not good at it, you should think hard: what should I do? what can I do? what can I do?
The most hateful person is to pass on his injuries to others, which is very hateful.