What will happen to people who live alone for a long time? Haven't you seen it? It is what people often call single or single. There are such people almost everywhere. They either don't want to get married, or they don't want to remarry after being divorced (widowed), or they live separated in two places for a long time. What's so surprising about this?

Now I am curious about your question about "making the spirit stronger and stronger", or "three views becoming more and more deviated".

Whether a person's spirit is very strong, or whether his three views are becoming increasingly deviated, is closely related to his personal growth experience and personal qualities.

I don’t know if you love reading, whether you have read books such as "Celebrity Biography", or whether you loved reading comics and other comic books when you were a child. There are many growth histories of outstanding characters here, which are really worth reading. You will be greatly inspired by reading such books. Anyone who has experienced hardships in life will eventually become a strong person in life.

You must have read this famous saying: The edge of a sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold. Whether a person's spirit is strong depends on whether he has the will to fight in his heart. Heroes are all people who grow up like this. On the other hand, if you are a softie, you will be a loser wherever you go.

Let’s talk about the issue of whether the three views are correct or incorrect. The so-called three-dimensional righteousness should mean that a person has a positive, healthy, and high-spirited righteousness and fighting spirit, and dares to stand up when encountering injustice. Incorrect three outlooks refer to negative, decadent, extremely selfish and narrow individualistic thoughts and behaviors. This quality is related to the publicity and education received during a person's growth process. In this sense, the environment plays a greater role in influencing a person's thoughts.

The ancients said: Those who are close to vermillion are red and those who are close to ink are black. That's the truth. Of course, there is an exception, and that is: those who are close to Mo are not necessarily black.

So, whether the three views are correct or not, the key lies in himself.