There are always people in the world who are more beautiful, richer, more capable and stronger than you. Of course, there are many people who are not as good as you. If you can't look at yourself correctly, then your character will easily become a bully, strong will show weakness, weak will bully. You will easily become a hot face in the strong and a cold ass in the weak, laughing at sarcasm and bossing around. It is impossible to be humble and supercilious by constantly changing the face of inferiority and pride in life and work.
If you want to be stronger inside, you must first think about what kind of person I want to be! The strength of the heart is because the heart has the direction of progress, and the belief that you want to stick to and protect is the beacon that points out the direction for you, and then it is practical and full of progress. Just like when you are thirsty, you will think of something to drink, then buy a drink or start boiling water or making tea. Everyone's inner seeds are different, so the direction of choice is different. People will only believe what they are willing to believe and accept, so once they choose, they must stick to it, whether it is good or bad, black or white, and be loyal to their hearts.
The formation of faith is inseparable from the most basic outlook on life, world outlook and values. By reading books or accumulating experience in life and work, you will gradually form your own beliefs. Don't be impatient, it will take some time for digestion and absorption to adapt to their own changes. At work, you need to be recognized by others, and you want to integrate into it without being excluded and isolated, but please see the essence clearly: your ability needs to be recognized and appreciated, which is in exchange for your own survival capital; But thinking is free, and what you like is none of others' business. It is impossible for everyone to have the same idea. For example, some people like to eat durian, and some people feel super disgusting when they smell it. If two people argue, neither can convince the other! Why? Personal taste perception means that individuals are different. Even if some of your ideas are not recognized by others, it doesn't mean that you must be wrong. Other people's ideas are all limited by personal growth experience and environment, and they are all one-sided or limited.
It is meaningful to improve one's strength, knowledge, skills, tolerance and charm. Compare with yourself. Listen carefully to your inner voice, what makes you happy and what makes you happy. We should keep a positive heart in the predicament, and the gas field will change accordingly.
There is a little girl in the office recently, just like you. In order to integrate into that small circle, she pretended to be a clown to please others and bought them snacks and fruits, but in the end, others didn't take her seriously at all, looked down on her and pinched her if something happened. To tell the truth, if I buy a sausage for the dog, it will wag its tail at me! Isn't this demeaning yourself? ! Respect yourself, respect yourself, others will respect you, respect you! Of course, people should be self-aware and don't take themselves too seriously.