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Money is a damn good thing that makes people yearn for it, and is suitable for all ages.

Some people say that money is an angel.

Some people say that money is the devil.

In any case, it is not a sin to like money.

Lian Yue said: You are a young man, and you have super strong desires for sex, money, material things, and fame. This is a good thing, and this is the motivation to conquer the world.

Young people who are not involved in the world are not young people.

So, by analogy, if you like money very much, you are very young.

At least, psychologically.

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When I was young, my family was poor. I had almost no pocket money, and rarely bought snacks or clothes, so the feeling of scarcity was always with me.

After going to college, graduating and going to school, and seeing the colorful world, I feel that money is more and more important.

Money is not everything, and having no money is absolutely impossible.

For many people, we only empathize with the second half of this wise saying and it is unforgettable.

At least for a long time, we thought so.

In the second year after graduating from college, I didn’t have any extra money to pay the rent, so I found a friend and secretly boarded in the school dormitory, trying to pass it by.

During the day, I go to Xijia to pretend to be a capable white-collar worker, and at night I go back to the dormitory to pretend to be a pure college student.

One time I didn’t bring my card, and the dormitory aunt discovered that I had no choice but to pack up and get out.

Lao Xu, who was my boyfriend back then, took me on a bicycle to look for a house all over the world.

Railway Bureau dormitory, three bedrooms and one living room, wedding room, 800 yuan a month.

Except for the rent, everything else is satisfactory.

I called Luke, a male classmate who was also looking for a house. Luke brought his colleague Niu. Later, Luke's girlfriend, Niu's girlfriend.

There are two men and three women in the house of just over 60 square meters.

However, because there is no pressure on rent and everyone knows each other well, we are very happy most of the time.

Young people are just like this, they are careless and their high index is also low.

Later, Luke and Niu bought a wedding house, got married and moved away.

I also checked out of the house and moved to Beijing after living in Luke's house for a month.

In December 2015, the second month after arriving in Beijing, when I went to buy a house with newlywed Xu, I discovered that my savings were enough to cover half of the down payment.

Lao Xu asked: Haven't you spent any money in these years?

I was shocked. At that age, I was so poor that I forgot that money can be spent.

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During the 10 years that Xijia worked, her salary was not much, but it was paid on time every month and was never in arrears.

That job, which is always more than enough, day after day, year after year, can be seen at a glance, but it really does not bring any substantial growth to myself.

In addition to complaining, he also blames others and cares about everything.

At that time, overtime and taxi expenses were reimbursed every month. The female boss checked it over and over again, hoping to get it down to a few cents. She is the one who pays our wages.

Human beings are also a very difficult species to understand. If you have been with a person you hate for a long time, there will be her shadow.

It wasn’t until one day, after arguing with a group of people for not getting a few hundred yuan raise at the end of the year, that I realized that I was no better than that perverted female boss.

In those years, even if I played a bad hand, I always felt that I was incredibly capable.

Most of those old people who work more and work less than you do work for a long time, and few people care about whether they are doing well or not.

Whether it’s worth it or not depends on who can survive.

As time goes by, you will no longer have the ability to actively make money.

Those who don’t want to endure it or those who can’t endure it, leave the Xi family and you will be nothing from now on. Even if you have so many years of work experience.

After ten years in a foreign company office, no one knows better than me how I got here.

However, you will know if it is worth the money or not, just pull it out and run around.

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Most people who leave the system alone or throw away their iron jobs have a rough time:

While enjoying the personal freedom of starting a business , while extravagantly hoping for a guaranteed harvest due to drought or flood.

Zhihu said that these people are called "entrepreneurial bitches".

But, in the end, most people have to struggle through this period of time on their own before they can push away the dark clouds and see the sunrise.

For transformation or counterattack, no one can rely on except yourself.

Li Xiaolai: When you are extremely eager for money and only have money in your eyes, you will become farther and farther away from money.

Because your attention is in the wrong place.

When you focus too much on money itself, it is easy to fall into the misunderstanding of calculating three melons and two dates, but forget that the most important thing is to make yourself valuable and irreplaceable.

Whether through doing things or studying.

In this world, there are no fools, and no one can treat anyone badly.

As for great wisdom and foolishness, it is unclear which cause and which effect.

It’s just that around us, within our eyes and ears, more and more people are not so greedy for money.

These people are neither naive nor stupid.

They work with their heads down and look up at the road. When they don’t love money so much, money comes.

Because they themselves are valuable, someone will definitely give them in full.

No more, no less.

It’s just, sooner or later.