Qian Zhongshu has his own unique views on marriage. The following 10 sentences are a must-read for women in marriage:

1. Many people talk about marriage in a tone of voice. It seems that it is homosexual love, not because the girl is attracted to herself, but because she is envious of her father or her brother.

2. Marriage does not require a great love. Not hating each other is enough for marriage.

3. A woman is as smart as a woman, as light and lively as her actions. Beyond this kind of intelligence, talent and learning are nothing but dregs. To say that a woman is talented is like praising a flower and saying that it weighs as much as cabbage and sweet potato on the scale. A really smart woman never works hard to become a talented woman, she just cleverly lazy.

4. The person I love, I want to be able to occupy his entire life. Before he met me, he had no past and left a blank space waiting for me.

5. It is most unsuitable to get married if people are in the same profession, because each other is an expert and neither can coax the other. The husband will not worship his wife unfathomably, and the wife will not worship her husband blindly. The foundation of the marriage will not be solid.

6. Women are all stupid, just as stupid as men want them to be, no more, no less.

7. When a woman is successful and happy in love, she will never think about "getting married". Only when she has doubts and fears will she ask a man to get engaged and get married as soon as possible. Love is so secure.

8. In front of the man she loves, every woman has the unique skill of rejuvenating herself.

9. The order of the future honeymoon trip is reversed. You should travel together for a month first. After a month of boating and driving, the two parties have not seen through each other, disliked each other, and have not quarreled. They must maintain the original status. With a marriage contract, the couple guarantees that they will not get divorced.