This is not how to understand. Being angry with the person who is your best and closest will hurt each other's feelings, but it doesn't mean that you can't be angry with the person you love, but you should be angry with the bad guys. The correct way for garbage people is to stay away. The only correct way to temper is to digest and control yourself. Losing your temper is instinct, and controlling your emotions is skill. Cultivate your heart slowly.