Principle 2: Be a man standing, and be a man reaching out. If you want to stand up in this world, help others stand up. If you want to develop, you should also create opportunities for others to develop.
Principle 3: accommodate people with a broad mind.
Zeng Guofan put the overall situation first in everything, and was especially good at listening to other people's opinions. Even if the other person scolds himself. Especially good at introspection and summary. Zeng Guofan's principles of making friends are: first, sincerity, second, respect, third, forgiveness, fourth, ambiguity. Don't haggle over everything, divide it too clearly. Fifth, don't be jealous. Becoming a person with an inner circle and an outer circle is not an overnight thing, but a hard self-tempering. Zeng Guopan's success is that he is good at employing people and putting himself in others' shoes. Zeng Guofan's talent strategy: 1. Be thirsty for talent. Second, observe. To use talents correctly, we should not only observe words and deeds, but also try to use talents as things and test talents with results. Love the work of teachers. In the face of Shen Baozhen's sudden attack, Zeng Guofan remained calm. In order to relieve his anger, he started with "nourishing qi" and made psychological adjustment. In the face of other people's opposition, it is a saint's intention to be tempted, cultivate one's own heart, compromise and worry that there is no "opposition". Zeng Guofan was thrifty, upright, aboveboard, honest, tolerant and modest. Zeng Guofan always believed that people can hone their temperament and grow their skills.