A line from the movie "The End of Time" filmed by Han Han.

“If you like something, you must be unrestrained, but if you love it, you must be restrained.” It means that when we like something, we may have to devote ourselves to it, but when we really love it, we must fully understand and accept it.

Understanding and restraint means that when you truly love someone or something, you will not be self-righteous, treat the relationship carefully, consider the other person completely, restrain your own desires, and care about the other person. Feelings, thinking about the other person wholeheartedly, giving to the other person, not letting the other person do things they don't like, respecting the other person, this is restraint.

There are different ways to like and love someone:

When we like someone, we will do everything we can to be with the person we like. , but if you love someone, you will restrain yourself from such unbridled behavior. You want to protect the person you love more, rather than risking your own safety to cause harm. ?

In real life, it is easy to like someone, but it is difficult to fall in love with someone. Sometimes we often can't tell the difference between like and love. In fact, if you like someone, you may chase it crazily, think about it day and night, stay awake at night, and just want to be with him or her; you may not Suppress your grievances and wantonly want the best.

But loving someone is different. Love is restrained, willing to restrain all the shortcomings in oneself, and restrain all factors that may cause harm to the other person.