books (English: book; Pinyin: shū jí；; Zhuyin: ㄕㄨㄐㄧˊ) refers to bound books and words, and in a narrow sense, it is a collection of words, images and paper. Before the popularization of ancient paper in China, books were mostly made of bamboo baked by fire. The following are the classic books I have compiled on how to deal with people. Welcome to read them.
1. Night Talk Around the Furnace
Author: Wang Yongbin
Publishing House: Zhonghua Book Company
Recommended reason:
Although many words in the book are mainly exhortations, they are not boring and boring to read, but they feel lively and plain, which will make people feel more profound philosophy into their daily lives, making people easily infected by them. It, together with Hong Yingming's Caigen Tan and Xiao Chuang You Ji, was called the "Three Wonders of Life" by later generations.
Excerpt from classic books:
1. The character is not high, but the word "one profit" is always unbreakable; If you don't make progress in your studies, you can't get rid of a lazy word.
2. A great disaster begins with a moment's unbearable, so we must be careful.
2.
The Way to Deal with People
Author: [Ming] Lu Shaoheng
Publishing House: Jiangxi People's Publishing House
Recommended reason:
The whole book starts from waking up and ends in wonder, although it is mixed with dust, it looks up to things; In the criticism of pouring ideas into the world, the philosopher-style coldness is revealed, and its motto is exquisite, short and exquisite, which urges people to save money and benefit their minds.
Excerpt from the classic book:
1. The defense of Lianbo must be tried from the colorful field; Calm exercise, but also to different situations.
2. Make people have the joy of making friends at first sight, if not make people feel bored for a long time.
3. Caigen Tan
Author: [Ming] Hong Yingming
Publishing House: Changjiang Literature and Art Publishing House
Recommended reason:
Caigen Tan is a collection of quotations on self-cultivation, life, life and birth compiled by Hong Yingming, a Taoist priest in the early Ming Dynasty, which embodies the author's ten thousand kinds of world situations and complicated interpersonal relationships about the whole life society. There is an incredible subtle influence on people's self-cultivation and moral cultivation.
Excerpts from classic books:
1. The wind comes to disperse the bamboo, and the wind passes without leaving a sound on the bamboo; The geese cross the cold pool, but the geese go to the pool without taking pictures. Therefore, the gentleman's heart begins to appear when things come, and the heart is empty when things go.
2. The years are long, but those who are busy are self-motivated; The heavens and the earth are wide, while the contemptuous ones pass by; The wind, flowers, snow and the moon are idle, while the noisy people are redundant.
4. The Classic of Tao Te Ching
Author: Laozi
Publishing House: Yuelu Bookstore
Recommended reason:
The Classic of Tao Te Ching covers many disciplines such as philosophy, ethics, politics, military science, etc., and is respected by future generations as a treasure book for governing the country, keeping the family in order, cultivating oneself and learning. With the growth of experience and the change of fate, every time you read it, you will have different and more feelings.
Excerpt from a classic book:
Good is like water, and water is good for all things without dispute. Being in the evil of everyone, so being in the Tao. Live in a good place, be kind-hearted, be kind-hearted, be good at words, be good at politics, be good at things, and be good at times. The husband is only indisputable, so there is nothing special.
those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are wise. He who wins is strong, and he who wins is strong. He who is content is rich. Those who force have aspirations.
5. Letters from Fu Lei
Ways of dealing with people
Author: Fu Lei
Publishing House: Yilin Publishing House
Recommended reason:
Letters from Fu Lei is a very special book. It is the refraction of Fu Lei's thought. In the correspondence between him and his son, he did not forget to give him all-round education in music, art, philosophy, history, literature and even health.
Excerpt from Classic Books:
1. Children, terrible enemies are not necessarily ferocious. A friendly and passionate friendship sometimes wastes a lot of your precious time.
2. People float and sink in the high tide-low tide all their lives. Only mediocre people can live like stagnant water. Or you must have a high level of self-cultivation in order to be relaxed and truly liberated. As long as the climax does not make you nervous and the low tide does not make you decadent, it will be fine. If the sun is too strong, it will scorch the grains, and if the rain is too strong, it will drown the crops. We just want a psychological balance so as not to get hurt.
6. Letters from Zeng Guofan
Author: Zeng Guofan
Publishing House: Blue Sky
Recommended reason:
It seems to be a plain letter from home, but it contains many life truths. The author integrates self-cultivation, self-cultivation, educating children, managing the family, making friends, employing people, managing finances, running the army and running politics into this family book. To learn how to be an able person, this book must be read.
Excerpt from classic books:
1. Mediocre people in the world, ancient and modern, are all defeated by a lazy word; All the talents in the world, ancient and modern, were defeated with a word of pride. I work hard with the word pride and laziness, and I don't ask people whether they scold me or not.
2. It is unrealistic to hope that a friend in need can also become a friend in need. We should understand two concepts: "a friend in need" and "a friend in need".
7. The Wisdom of Life
Author: Schopenhauer
Publishing House: Shanghai People's Publishing House
Recommended reason:
Ignoring obscure philosophical works, Schopenhauer's book can be said to be the wisdom of life of Xian Yi, young and old. Putting philosophy into the analogy of common things can be said to be shallow and profound. At different stages of life, we should reread this book to keep our inner reason.
Excerpt from Classic Books:
1. A person's interest in interacting with others is directly proportional to his mediocre intelligence and poor thinking. People in this world either choose solitude or vulgarity, and there is no other choice.
2. The only source of happiness and happiness for a person with low mind is his sensory hobby, and at best he leads a comfortable family life.
8. Complete Works of Think Tank
Author: Feng Menglong
Publishing House: Zhonghua Book Company
Recommended reason:
The book Think Tank can be said to be the crystallization of the wisdom of the Chinese nation, and it is recognized as a wonderful book on life. The book has ten parts and twenty-eight categories, including great strategies in politics, military affairs and diplomacy, as well as small wit in the daily life of small people such as foot soldiers, slaves, monks and Taoist priests, farmers and painters. These stories have merged into an ocean of wisdom of the ancient Chinese nation.
Excerpt from Classic Books:
1. When indecent assault is added, there must be something to rely on, and a little tolerance will lead to disaster.
2. Reward for no work, gift for no power, you must not ignore it!