Treat it with a normal heart

There are two things in the world that you can never force. When you were a child, it was your interest in learning, and when you grow up, it is love.

——This is a mirror, brave to give up, brave to face, brave to start again.

When he no longer loves you, no matter whether he loved you in the past but forgot about it, or never loved you, in short, when you can’t be the person in his heart, his My heart will not remember you, let alone care about you. Even if he knows that you love him deeply and occasionally feels your concern, he would rather pretend not to know. The person you no longer love is always the first to let go, so please don’t torture yourself and suffer for too long. Learn to be natural. If you choose to be strong and accept it, your end will be considered to be unfated, and maybe there will be some regrets left in his heart; but if you are not rational enough, you always want to do something to redeem this relationship. Love cannot exist, so your end can only be seen by him as personality incompatibility.

When he no longer loves you, please don't disturb him when you are unhappy or in trouble and hesitant. His place is definitely not the place you should be at this moment. Maybe when he receives your call, he will comfort you with a few words and say that he sincerely wishes you happiness, but that's all.

When he doesn't love you, your love and your people will seem much cheaper. You have the upper hand, that's human nature. Maybe you will want something more, so you say: "Let's meet. Can we have a meal together?" If you think that having a meal or meeting once can restore your lost love, then you are so wrong. , so silly. And he must be very upset. He will say: "I have something to do now, let's wait until I get the chance. You can call me later, or I can call you." And you must not take it seriously at this time, he just found someone who is not very good. A clever excuse to stall you. Please, don't really wait, don't lie to yourself, and there is no need to be sad. His busyness will not end because of your waiting. Many things in life are very important to him, but the most indifferent thing to him is the lost love.

When he no longer loves you, please don’t talk to him about your trivial matters, and don’t have nothing to say. These are the stupidest and most meaningless things. Maybe at this moment, the kind you and the infatuated you just hope to get more familiar with each other, so as not to feel too unfamiliar all of a sudden. In fact, you just can't get over yourself for the time being, but he has no time and no interest in getting to know you, your life, your past, your strengths and weaknesses, what do they have to do with him? Even if you tell him, he will soon forget it, just like he forgot what he once said to you. Without love, you are destined to be unable to squeeze into his life. Even if what you want is just a small corner. In his eyes, all the advantages you once had have become a burden and will no longer be a reason to attract him.

When he no longer loves you, don’t send him text messages all the time and ask him if he is “ok”. If he is under great pressure at work, your text messages will only make him irritated and will not make him happy. He gets rid of the pressure, and if he is really good, then you just know it in your heart, learn to care for him silently and bless him!

When he no longer loves you, don’t recall the warm hugs and affectionate kisses you once had. That will only make you more unable to extricate yourself. The past is the past, and don’t be stupid. When you get home, ask him to kiss you again. Can he hug you again? Because this hug and this kiss will not have enough magic to make him fall in love with you again. Even if he lets you kiss and hold you for reasons that are not good for rejecting you, you are destined to be separated. Why let someone who no longer loves you He was in trouble, but he was even more reluctant to leave him? Also, occasionally he may appear in your dreams. Do not call or email him to tell him, as you will be considered too immature. Even if he does appear in the dream, it is normal. Try to give yourself some time to forget it slowly, and don't be too harsh on yourself! !

When he no longer loves you, please don't be sad in front of him, let alone shed tears, because tears really can't exchange for love, but will make him look down on you even more. Don't tell him you're sad when you're sick, learn to take care of yourself. He really doesn't have much energy to give you care and concern, or even just sympathy. Please be proud of yourself and don’t give up your pride.

Too many people have lost too much in the face of love and don’t even have the courage to stand up again. How can they be proud? However, you must always remember that only those who are willing and able to give true love to you can truly cherish you instead of watching with sympathy and pity. Don't say to him, "As long as you are happy, I will be happy." This sentence seems to be quite sincere when he loves you. Once you are separated, in this case, even if it still comes from your sincerity, it will make him feel that you are Put pressure on him, why put pressure on someone you once loved like this? Happiness is something you can control yourself, don't rely on anyone else, do you understand?

When he no longer loves you, your love will be his burden. Please don't count what you have given, don't expect anything in return, and don't show your nostalgia and reluctance to him again, intentionally or unintentionally, because everything is already in the past. Loving someone who doesn't love you is unrequited in itself. You can't care about right or wrong. This will make you happier. Remember, the love between you and him is one-sided, you have the intention, he has no intention. However, don't blame him, because maybe he once really loved you and wanted to do something better and not be so indifferent to you, and he didn't want such an ending. It's just that loving someone and being kind to someone is an ability. I'm sorry, he may have such ability, but your love itself is a mistake with no ending. His ability really cannot be wasted on you, try to forgive him. Of course, don't be too pessimistic and think that the love he once had was not true, and the promises he once made were false. Life is not easy, let alone choosing to love or not to love? There should be more understanding between people, let alone the person you once loved deeply?

When he no longer loves you, don’t think about what happened between you all day long and what can be done to save your love, because the distance between you has become so alienated that when he stands in front of you, But I don't know how much you love him. You stand in front of him, but you no longer dare to say that you love him. Does such love still need to be saved? Please don’t lose your confidence because he says that your personalities are not compatible. Maybe your personality is not suitable for him, but this does not prove that you are not a good woman. There will always be someone who likes your personality and is born for you. Live and fight for you all my life.

Loving someone is not because of his excellence, but just a feeling. You once made him feel this way, so he once fell in love with you. Similarly, if he doesn't love you, it doesn't mean that you are no longer good. Being excellent or not is really not a reason to love or not love. Look at there are so many people who love you. Smile lightly and find your confidence. We still have many things to do with confidence. Love Not the only one, not the whole of life.

When he no longer loves you, you will often unintentionally walk to the place where you have been together, and everyone you see around you seems to be his figure. Any couple may evoke your nostalgia for the past; you will often think of the songs he sang for you. At this time, you will definitely feel like crying. Please learn to be strong, okay? When you are alone, never use alcohol or cigarettes to anesthetize yourself, because that should not be the way a good woman chooses to forget. If he knows, he will not feel bad, but will be glad that he does not continue to love a woman like you. You can listen to the songs you once sang together and cry as much as you want, but don’t be stupid enough to set that song as your cell phone ringtone, because he will probably never call you again, so why bother with other things? Your truest and most vulnerable side is exposed in front of irrelevant people. People always have to learn to be strong. When choosing songs to listen to, don't listen to "Dear Why Are You Not By My Side", "I Love You So Much", "Love Is So Heavy", and "She Doesn't Love Me" unless you are sure that you have listened to these I won’t cry after singing. Choose some relaxing songs to listen to, such as "The Most Romantic Thing", "Wolf Falls in Love with Sheep", "Aurora", "Your Smile":, although they may not match your mood when listening to the song, But at least it makes you happy at the time, and if you can, sing along. Let out all the depression in your heart. Tomorrow is a brand new day. Please don’t think of “forever” just because of the joy and beautiful memories you once had. Remember: love is not forever. If you are deeply in love at the moment, you are destined to be unable to love him or love him any more someday in the distant future. He just arrived at this day one step earlier than you.

When he doesn't love you, please gently embrace the warmth in the memories and gaze gently at the withered tenderness.

Although he has advised you that it is meaningless to recall the past, if you want to see the future, you can have the right and freedom to recall or not to recall. Maybe as time goes by, you will find that he is not who you thought he was. As perfect as he is, he is also an ordinary person. Then at that time, you will go with the flow and choose to forget all the memories, which means that you have really grown up and matured, and you must believe in yourself! ! At that time, you may still be glad that your love, which was destined to have no ending, died young. After all, your future life is more important, and people cannot take their life's happiness as a bet.

When he no longer loves you, my dear, please take a deep breath. The road of life is covered with buds of love. There is always one that belongs to you, not to comfort you. It's because many things are already destined, just like the Buddha said that you looked back five hundred times in your previous life before getting a brief acquaintance, but fate is not enough, so all I can give you is a hundred days of love. Don't deceive yourself by imagining and hoping that you can be together in the next life, because everyone knows in their hearts that this life is real, so we must live well, cherish everything around us, and don't leave any regrets. Fan Zhongyan of the Northern Song Dynasty knew that "don't be happy with things and don't be sad with yourself", let alone us? If you know that the person you once loved can be happy, then everything is enough. Even if he no longer loves you, what does it matter? For him, you must be happy.

When he doesn’t love you, don’t say bad things about him in front of others, especially your same friends, because he still has the right to continue to love others, and he still needs his social interaction. Circle, be more open-minded, after all, he is the person you once loved.

When he doesn't love you, you must bless him, and you must be sincere, regardless of gains and losses. When you can help him, be as generous as before and don't be stingy. When there is love, there should be no hatred. Love is beautiful, but hate is cruel. Why let the best things in life turn into harm? And be sure not to feel it’s unfair. Regarding separation and forgetting, it is already unfair between you. What he gave up and lost was a woman who loved him so much, but you just lost someone who can no longer love you, but you got a chance to live again. In comparison, aren't you happier? !

When he no longer loved me, I wrote this article and was thinking deeply about some things that can be felt and expressed, but it is not easy to truly do it. As I was writing, I kept telling myself to be strong, but I still couldn't help but cry. So it took me so long to post this article. However, I believe that time can make everything fade. I wish all my friends who have given and loved sincerely: happiness forever! Sometimes we like someone, but we don’t know if it’s because we are too lonely... Because of loneliness, love becomes very easy, and it is as easy as glass to break.

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